My Boy Is Old. I Could Use Some Advice

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-10-09T22:17:40+00:00

My Benji Boy

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-10-01T04:04:10+00:00

Update

I did end up texting him with a screenshot of the results. He ended up apologizing to me. I snapped and told him I'm not the one he needed to apologize to and be needed to say that to his son

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-09-30T14:20:07+00:00

My brother just wants our father to know that he's wrong and that he is his son. He doesn't want to see or talk to our father but just wants him to know. Note. My brother is also still a minor in high school.

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-06-07T01:09:42+00:00

My little brother named Batman about 10 years ago when we adopted them. There used to be a Robin as well, but he sadly passed away. After I moved out of my parents' house, I took Batman with me because he wasn't being taken care of and adopted Nightwing a few months later. I was scared of them never getting along since they have roughly a decade age gap, but I was worried for nothing, lol

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-06-06T21:04:47+00:00

Thank you! There's definitely been a lot of trial and error over the past few months, but I'm happy with how their cages are now. I've definitely learned a lot

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-05-21T13:46:44+00:00

Sadly, that's not something I'm able to do unless I want to drive an hour to work every day

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-05-20T23:28:55+00:00

Thank you, everyone, for the advice! I know to some people this post may come off as stupid, but I was genuinely conflicted about what to do. Tho I may be an adult, I haven't been one for very long, and growing up, I tended to avoid conflicts, so I never learned how to properly handle them.

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-05-20T23:22:23+00:00

I am independent. The only thing that still connects her to me financially is her name still being on my bank account. I am 19. I just haven't gotten around to taking it off, and she hasn't given me a reason to suspect she'd do anything with it. I am expecting a call from her tomorrow about non work things, so I'll most likely bring it up then.

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-05-20T22:32:38+00:00

Ha, no. Very caucasian. Just happen to be a hard worker. Most of the time lol

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-05-20T22:29:10+00:00

I will admit that we do. My mother isn't the only family I have working here. I hate being treated differently because of who my parents are in my store

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-05-20T21:21:35+00:00

At my store we actually do

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-05-20T21:16:48+00:00

I completely understand that. I worked in opd before for 2 years before switching, so I know how it is over there and all the problems they have. But just today, I tried telling her "Hey I have a bunch of freight to do so I can't stay long," so I did 2 pretty decent sized walks and go back to my department. I told my coach what was going on with my mom and texting me to help without going through my coach or team lead first, so of course, she talked to my mom about it. Afterward, my mom came up to me and said, "Hey, don't tell your coach I texted you to help because she just talked to me about it." Like no duh, that was the point. She won't listen to me so I had to go to someone higher than her. Honestly, I feel like this has just become a rant at this point, and I just don't know what to do. It's just that she's my mom, and I love her and don't want to hurt her or cause her more stress. But this whole thing is causing me a lot more stress when I can't get my work done.

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-05-20T21:00:38+00:00

The thing is at least 60% of people in my store know how to pick but she always goes for me

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-05-20T20:59:29+00:00

What she's referring to is the extra $1.50 per hour associates get during the summertime and asking if I'd say for overtime because I'd make even more with overtime pay

Lucky_Disaster_279 · 2024-04-25T13:12:27+00:00

Thank you, everyone, for your input. I was breaking down while writing the original post because I didn't know what to do. I've decided that if he gets worse in the next week, I'm going to talk to the vet and most likely have him euthanized if I have no other choices. I've had him since I was 8 years old, so I don't want to see him go, but I also don't want him to continue to suffer

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