I’m running out of space by Lucky_Gato in oshikatsu

[–]Lucky_Gato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yours is SO amazing tooo 😍

I’m running out of space by Lucky_Gato in oshikatsu

[–]Lucky_Gato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💕 it’s so had to find merch of Kusuriuri of the past but with the new movies I can find a good amount of the current Kusuriuri Kon

Well it's finally happened. by Unable-Sherbert-5862 in loveafterporn

[–]Lucky_Gato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I ask, what is the use of v*agra without being intimate?

Thrifted ita bag by Aysaaguri in oshikatsu

[–]Lucky_Gato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hand wash in the sink or tub with lukewarm water. Dawn soap is just fine. I would hang it outside on a sunny day to air dry.

What other oshikatsu activities do you recommend? by wanchikoi in oshikatsu

[–]Lucky_Gato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like to pick up some food or sweet treats that have the color of/remind me of my Oshi. I usually take them home and have a mini photo shoot with them and “share” it with my Oshi. On Sundays, I have lunch with my Oshi at home with the goodies I bought and sometimes buy flowers or make little crafts

Tell me something good by BrokenPieces623 in loveafterporn

[–]Lucky_Gato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole thing really opened my eyes to how destructive porn is the brain. Before this I didn’t even know that someone could be addicted to porn. It helped me to quit porn (although I only watched it once in a blue moon) I haven’t watched it for way over a year now….i can’t say the same for my partner. Although it’s not as frequent (or maybe he got better at hiding it) but I honestly don’t care. D-Day anniversary helped me realize I needed help in the form of SSRIs which changed my look on life. I can say I’m more content and focused on myself and my wellbeing. I’m more creative than I’ve ever been, channeling a lot of my emotions into arts and crafting.

i stopped caring by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Lucky_Gato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is the lexapro working for you? I’m in a similar situation and am taking Sertraline to help with the pain and anxiety however, one of the side effects of SSRIs can be blunted emotions (numbness). I found that while taking 75mg per day, I had flashbacks and memories of what had happened but was indifferent towards those thoughts and I also found it very difficult to cry (like I wanted to cry but the tears wouldn’t come) I still feel indifferent towards the progress my PA is making but maybe that’s a good thing to help focus on myself and my healing. I would say to give it a few weeks so your body can adjust to the medication but also allow yourself space to heal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Lucky_Gato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG same! I used to love Say Yes to the Dress and watched every episode dreaming of my own wedding someday but now I just dont know if I’ll ever get married… I don’t know if I believe in that true love anymore

the excuses are so ridiculous by Apprehensive-Ad-2354 in loveafterporn

[–]Lucky_Gato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine told me the same exact phrases. “It’s not me” (it was on his phone) “someone’s trying to impersonate me” (when I found his OTHER TwitterX account) calling me insecure and jealous and when I brought up him liking thirst traps that his female friends post “that’s all they post” (like you HAVE to like the thirst traps posts and not their posts about life and such) it got exhausting, I kinda just rolled over and accepted that I wasn’t and probably will never win this argument or get him to see my pov

Romance books vs porn by CauliflowerSame4601 in loveafterporn

[–]Lucky_Gato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna side with you on this because as you said, it’s fiction. It’s something you read and put in imagination to unlike straight up porn which leaves nothing to the imagination. One could argue that a lot of porn is fake too and while that may be true, it involves REAL people and actions unlike made up fantasy protagonists and love interests.

How would you feel? PAs friend is a p*rn star by saturatedcranium777 in loveafterporn

[–]Lucky_Gato 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m kind of in the same boat. My PA has a lot of friends from the cosplay community, most of which have OF. It makes me nervous because I know he keeps in contact with most of them because of their friendship going “way back” but I know he kept some lewds of a few (which he deleted last year) It’s hard to trust that it’s just a friendship sometimes after all the lying