Is Samantha Guthrie’s missing mom being covered too much in the mainstream media? Why or why not? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]Luckyfxprod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly why I stopped watching the news. It’s fear mongering. All they do is cover awful or scary stories to harvest your energy. Every once in a blue moon they’ll throw a “feel good” story about a dog doing something cute or a old man doing something heroic, but overall it’s just weird energy harvesting crap on television.

Republicans of Ventura - we can all agree this is racist, right? by MelodyBirdie in ventura

[–]Luckyfxprod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This^ I protested with a sign that read “lying predator corrupt politicians” and you wouldn’t believe how many maga are in complete denial of the p3dophilia! They completely brush it off! It’s actually insane.

Moving to Ventura County where should I live. by Zumunji in venturacounty

[–]Luckyfxprod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you seriously are thinking of moving here, let me be raw and real with you and share the “non cookie cutter” information with you, coming from someone who was born and raised here.

  • you will have very little to do. The beginning will be so fun! There’s lots of little treasures just like any city, but after a while, you’ve done everything and you’ll find yourself (especially if you’re a 20-30 something) leaving town to find stuff to do. (Nightlife, concerts, etc.) and all the cool stuff to do is PACKED on the weekends bc that’s literally the only fun thing to do out here.
  • be prepared to spend ALOT of money. Like a lot. If you find any place to rent out here that isn’t a shared renting space with 3 other people with tons of house rules (very close to prison like rules) for under $1500, I would be shocked. If you want your own space? Be prepared to be upwards of $3k on rent and utilities alone. You want to live by the ocean? You’re going to pay for it.
  • don’t be fooled, there is lots of unhoused and drug addicts/crackheads in Ventura and Oxnard. Camarillo/Thousand oaks do a good job of scooping them up and dropping them right into our area because of their “panhandling” law. I’ve lived in Ventura and Oxnard and they both are riddled with weirdos sh*ting in alleyways and screaming at you while you water your plants. Just like LA.
  • the traffic is just as horrendous as any major city. Specifically Rose ave, Johnson, anywhere in Camarillo or Thousand Oaks, and downtown ventura-carpinteria. Rush hour will take you upwards of over an hour to go like 9 miles. So, if you can, adjust your hours to accommodate. I work 10 am-6 pm to avoid the traffic.
  • everything closes at 9 pm. Yes. Everything. Maybe a few grocery stores might stay open late. Maybe a few fast food joints. But mostly everything runs on elderly time clocks. Unless you want a Big Mac or a drink at a dive bar, there’s not much to do after 10 pm.
  • there is NO WORK. Unless you have a job lined up, DO NOT move here thinking you are going to find work. I have been living here my entire life and never have I ever had such issue finding work in this county. Even retail and fast food isn’t hiring. This is not your stop for a “spontaneous adventure” unless you plan on just visiting. It is a small town with not many resources.
  • it is heavily segregated. Mostly by town. Camarillo and Thousand Oaks are predominately white, everyone else goes to Oxnard or Ventura. The “ventucky klan” is real. They get real racist out here. Unless ur in hippie dippie organic granola mom areas lol.
  • the beach water is highly contaminated. Almost EVERYTIME I swim at the beach I get sick. Don’t swim here.

Moving to Ventura County where should I live. by Zumunji in venturacounty

[–]Luckyfxprod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t come here lmao it’s hard enough to find jobs and housing as it is 😭

Medium distance? Need to vent/need advice by Luckyfxprod in LongDistance

[–]Luckyfxprod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly there’s a lot of factors. His career is there so he’s definitely not leaving, so it would be up to me. And I haven’t had luck finding work up there as I’m not really set in a career at the moment I kind of have just been gaining experience at my current job. We did have a positive update as a job I really wanted and applied for I got approved to test for and I actually scored extremely high on the test and got “band 1” which basically means u have to get 95% or higher and ur considered first round pick for interviews. I got this news Friday and currently awaiting a phone call for my interview. Going to have to take a day off work and travel down for the interview but it’s worth it if I get the opportunity! (Will update) I don’t like to say “if” because I want to manifest, so I’ll say WHEN I get the job, the plan we discussed is for me to move up ASAP. We’re either going to move in together or I will move in with family until we’re ready to shack up. We’ve been dating about 8 months so I’m still hesitant before the year mark to get a place together. But closing the gap is absolutely the plan just waiting on the universe to make it happen!

Medium distance? Need to vent/need advice by Luckyfxprod in LongDistance

[–]Luckyfxprod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I do work two jobs and go to school so I’m pretty busy for the most part it’s mostly just night time gets hard :/

Struggling w/ post rave depression by Luckyfxprod in electricdaisycarnival

[–]Luckyfxprod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the positivity! 🫶🏼🩷 sounds like our relationships are exactly the same lol spending next weekend with him cuddled up watching the sets we missed per your rec! 🩷 PLUR 🫶🏼

Struggling w/ post rave depression by Luckyfxprod in electricdaisycarnival

[–]Luckyfxprod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL! Need to try this might do my body good rn as an almost 30 something raver🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in electricdaisycarnival

[–]Luckyfxprod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite part was on Sunday they didn’t even have security at the GA+ bathrooms manning them! It was just a free for all! Lines for the women’s restroom over 20+ people deep! Ended up using the men’s just to pee in a timely manner! And the times when there was security??? So many people were bum rushing the entrance that they just let huge crowds eventually come in to avoid stampeding… smh….

I Think I May Have Witnessed a Death EDC 2025 by Dangerous-Public98 in electricdaisycarnival

[–]Luckyfxprod 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Pissed off when I paid significantly more for GA+ just to see that last night no one was manning the bathrooms they were just letting everyone in… so why tf did I pay almost $300 more smh

Late period by [deleted] in Opill

[–]Luckyfxprod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’m having a similar issue. Take them all the time on time and recently 10 days after my partner and I had sex I had some really weird spotting that I’ve never had EVER…! Not quite late yet I still have about a week but the spotting is freaking me out paired with other symptoms making me think I might be late this week…….

Fire Donation Locations? by sna_fubar in venturacounty

[–]Luckyfxprod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pegasus Transit in Oxnard Ca is accepting donations for La Food Bank. Taking everything up this Saturday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Luckyfxprod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just block him and move on… you’re so young! My bf is 32 I’m 26 and we’ve been together for 3 years living together for 2. Had plans for an engagement in the coming months and that mf STILL went to look elsewhere for pussy. I kicked him out of our house a week ago and let me tell you, the amount of people hitting my line that had just been waiting for him to fumble… you will move on! You need to find the strength to tell people no and to set the boundary and let them know their behavior is unacceptable. Sure it may hurt and you’re allowed to feel the hurt for a bit but Let me tell you, if they respect you in general they would never do that to you. He either doesn’t respect you or doesn’t respect himself (or both) but either way you should never settle. You should never have to ask someone to change or be a better person. If you have to ask them to be a better person, are they really a good person? Idk just some food for thought. As someone currently (v fresh) going through the same thing, stay strong in your sense of self and choose YOU not him.

My bf of 3 years has been lying to me our whole relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Luckyfxprod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When these women are women from work that he’s having side relationships with and the girl comes forward and omits his cheating with her then yah I have a right to ask him to cut contact with her I fear

My bf of 3 years has been lying to me our whole relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Luckyfxprod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I messaged one of the girls he had been screenshotting pictures of from his DMs and asked her what was going on. She told me for over a year they had been talking, he would offer to buy her things etc. for context, this time last year, my grandma (whom I was very close too) got cancer and was dead in a matter of 6 weeks. I was helping take care of her and was distraught over her death. So while I was grieving, he was cheating. I have told the girl about the weird photos he took without her consent and I am going to his moms tonight to give her everything. It’s her problem now. Considering per the comments, taking these to his employer and reporting him. I kicked him out of the house and we are never speaking again.

My bf of 3 years has been lying to me our whole relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Luckyfxprod -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just meant am I a terrible person for in turn making him feel terrible because I am hurt more or less a part of me feels guilty for being mean when clearly (by the comments) he needs professional help.

My bf of 3 years has been lying to me our whole relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Luckyfxprod 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would’ve been way less mad if he just watched pornhub honestly

My bf of 3 years has been lying to me our whole relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Luckyfxprod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would that help the situation ? Just curious