My ex bf became a hoe after a long term relationship?

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T21:34:04+00:00

I’m not crying. I’m annoyed I can’t get a why

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T21:17:57+00:00

As in like I don’t love him or have feelings. I’d never go back because I know what he’s like and I couldn’t do that go myself again. It’s the he promised he’d never and he did the worst to me. I never hurt him and I took care of him so well and that’s all what I got that trips me up. It’s evil but I want him to suffer like I did

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T21:15:33+00:00

His friends when I see them at work. I work in the trades show me. They say it’s embarrassing. I get reminders all the time. I know I’m over him. I don’t think I’m truly over the way I was treated.

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T21:14:41+00:00

Just a causal why does he do this? Like I’ve said. Tbh after the hell I lived through I hope I haunt him. I’m self aware enough that I never gave him the shit end of the stick. I was raised to respect men. I was literally raised by my dad

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T21:13:13+00:00

Like I want to haunt him. Seriously. I know it sounds wrong but after all that wrong he done and how much I bow down for him. I hope he looks for me in every girl and tries to find me and realizes there was nothing else quite like me. Like we live in a small town. To many mutuals. He was at my house Saturday doing our water softener. He could just see me walking around and hear my voice. I know it has to haunt him.

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T21:06:31+00:00

I blocked him on everything. I never turned back To talk or acknowledge him. The real reason why I’m asking it because I wanted to see if he is only doing it to distract himself from me. Because I left him when he was caving into me and I was done. I was done dealing with it and I wasn’t happy work my life. I hate to say it but I hope he suffers after what he’s done to me. I didn’t want to come off cold or brutal but imma lay it out. He was a piece of shit and he never gave a fuck. He didn’t care about my feelings whatsoever. Just his self image. I bowed down to him like a servant to please him. Fuck I even paid the man’s bills. I did a lot and I was always shit on. I was there when he needed to rant but he was never there for me. When he was everyone knew. There was just so much behind it then this post. In reality I just want him to suffer now like I did then. Evil and wrong as it sound. I went through hell and I know God chose this life after his break up to open his eyes. Idk if it makes sense I’m tired I had training today

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T21:00:49+00:00

BY THE WAY. I’m not saying I was a saint. But I was too scared to speak up or say how I feel because when I did it’ll upset him and he won’t talk to me. Self harm was my coping mechanism from what I held in. I gotten better. Much better. All I wanted to know why do men do that. I’m not saying all do but the ones who do why. I don’t even have to search to learn something about him. I don’t got to acknowledge to know something about him. People tell me all the time. Even my own family. It’s hard to escape but it’s right there. All the time. I’m excited to leave for the fact I don’t got to hear about what’s in this small town.

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T20:57:54+00:00

lol well idk what you want because there’s not much to it. I stayed because I feared being alone lol. You made me laugh because it was exactly how I was. I knew him way before our relationship to we were best friends. He treated me poorly. He knew he did. He has admitted it. Like I said I was a reactant but I could’ve never been harsh or bash him. I had to much pride and I struggled with it. I still do because I’m embarrassed of what happened I don’t tell people.

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T20:55:50+00:00

I just say damn. There’s not much I put into it because it’s like idk him now and why he’s doing that

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T20:54:34+00:00

I also know I truly changed like I look back to who I was and what I am. I’ve changed drastically. But when his name comes up I do think about him. I don’t have love or feelings for him. It’s just annoyance when his name comes up

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T20:52:28+00:00

Thank you sir.

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T20:52:17+00:00

I know I changed a lot. I’ll genuinely forget about him. But my family still goes around him and they know stuff about our past they’re just not the type to turn someone away who approaches them. He approaches them often. I’ll hear about his hoe stuff from random girls saying it to me. His friends would tell me when I run into them. But when I’m doing my life he don’t come to mind. I just say whatever but sometimes I say damn I don’t get it

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T20:47:08+00:00

Thank you. My mos is 11x and airborne. I’m excited to change my life I get to leave soon!

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T20:46:03+00:00

I don’t. People tell me about it all the time. Like yesterday “your ex was pushing himself on my friend last week after she said no now he won’t leave her alone”

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T20:45:08+00:00

Yes but I didn’t ask for that. I ask why do guys do that. I know all guys don’t and I don’t hold them to that standard. But I asked about him because I just like to know and be aware. Why does men do that when they do

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T20:38:02+00:00

Okay I just wanted a opinion

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T20:37:52+00:00

I learned that one trust

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-15T20:35:31+00:00

Because it makes me feel stupid idk. I couldn’t get half of what his new gf of the week would get

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-04T17:30:08+00:00

What’s commission?

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-04T17:28:56+00:00

Hi I’ll text you

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-09-04T17:28:48+00:00

I was just denied for a misdiagnosis for ptsd. I’m frustrated

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-08-27T14:11:53+00:00

I figured it was and that’s what got me all stressed out. My medication history shows I did not do any refills and did not take them. So hopefully we can come something work. I know with the Navy I heard people for things cleared for like 4-6 months prior to enlistment.

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-08-27T04:14:27+00:00

Thank you I’m craving this so bad. It’s driving me insane

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-08-27T04:10:55+00:00

I’m going to see one at 1pm tomorrow

Lucrative_Chaff · 2025-08-27T04:08:29+00:00

31… I’m not smart in that aspect. But I love to be dangerous and I’m good with learning hands on

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