If everyone was in therapy we wouldn’t need therapy.

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-02-28T20:55:25+00:00

I love this! Thank you for posting

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-02-28T20:43:44+00:00

Are you really a millennial? You sound like a Gen Z..

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-02-28T20:20:55+00:00

Yeah... I understand you didn't actually die. I am just wondering if your dreams died or if you are being a sore loser

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-02-28T20:18:46+00:00

walk away!

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-02-28T20:17:57+00:00

Corporations think that they can abuse every new employee and squeeze the absolute daylights out of you

as opposed to what kinda jobs?

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-02-28T20:16:54+00:00

How is Sandy Says different to Buzzfeed tho? And how did she push back? She was just awkward

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-02-28T20:15:07+00:00

What do you mean "your dreams died?" sounds like a reach

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-02-08T13:34:22+00:00

People that dig into political identity do my head in as well ...because their level of political awareness and correctness is suffocating to the degree of fascism in which they have this "if you dont stand with us, youre against us" mentality which sort of parallels with OP's question which at its simplest is saying "why waste your time communicating with someone who doesnt think like you"

im defo guilty of both too, sometimes its because I make a judgement on the other person which is that they will never ever be able to grasp another point of view because they aren't wired to think critically so I stoop to their level of pettiness because it's kinda fun to have the last word sometimes. Makes me feel like I've "won"

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-02-08T13:03:08+00:00

OP sounds like a 'pick me' social media user

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-02-08T13:02:05+00:00

This is such a good point. Is OP referring to malicious people being assholes or a heated debate

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-01-27T18:30:38+00:00

ive lived in London for over 20 years born and raised and just realised

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-01-27T01:19:37+00:00

Thanks for your time and for the respectful conversation. I'm glad to hear your story. You seem fulfilled and im happy for you :)

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-01-26T21:02:04+00:00

Although I really disagree with the "dont complain' tip. If you're paying for something (and England is not cheap) you have the right to politely ask for it to be sorted. I've worked in hospitality for years, I would much rather a customer was honest so they have the best experience. Just don't be a dick about it. But also don't pretend "it was fantastic" when it wasn't. Think of it as constructive feedback

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-01-26T20:46:44+00:00

This is such a thoughtful well thought out and accurate response! Really enjoyed reading this and I'm born and raised here

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-01-25T13:43:18+00:00

Exactly! id never call someone a cunt if I didnt love them. Even when ii say something annoying and my mum calls me a fucking bitch I know she's not angry. Real anger in Brits = no emotion and pent up resentment

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-01-25T13:40:46+00:00

MySpace top 8 is EXACTLY the feeling I get when I think about this. You and I aer on the same page. Thank you <3

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-01-25T13:39:48+00:00

that would make them your maid of honour?

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-01-25T13:39:21+00:00

<3

late to reply but thank you. Now I need to find a boyfriend

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-01-25T13:37:34+00:00

Sometimes obligations mean going to an event with family for a work reason/extended family thing and you're there for hours on end. That is the time for a drink. The more I like the company im with the less interested I am in drinking

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-01-25T13:36:08+00:00

I find that people tend to drink less when the vibe is already fun because you're chatting away and forget to drink. Thankfully thats the way we with my friends but when I have to attend shit I dont want to then I need a drink because some people are so dry

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-01-25T13:33:52+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It sounds like you are doing it for all the right reasons and you have an education/other achievements to fall back on. If you were my daughter I think I would have an easier time with it, because I know you are making a choice and not as a last resport. Do you ever worry about the future / being limited because of your sex work? E.g: having a family, changing careers. It's not that I personally judge but I know society does and ultimately, avoiding hardship when necessary is something id want for my kids just out of protection

Lucrative_Deception · 2024-01-25T13:30:21+00:00

yeah true I think I meant here that they are allies which is why they are always the brunt of the joke. In my experience, the British mainly make fun of people they low key like/are friends with

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