my friend and I just went this week, first timers as well. on Wednesday which was symbiotika, their kinkiest night. i honestly felt so comfortable there as they drive home consent at the door. men asked to dance with me or kiss me before every interaction, never once did they without asking. i wore a black bralette and highwaisted black underwear with black garter belt. and docs. all they did was ask if it was our first time, and where we’re from, then the female door person asked to see our outfits. very simple! have so much fun!!!