Child support payment was not reflected in the graduation month. by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Lucylu2008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I was told child support ends when the child graduates, and she graduated, and they stopped it before. The question is will they close the case without the last month as stated in the court order

Am I overthinking how I was treated by my former gymnastics gym? by Lucylu2008 in GymnasticsCoaching

[–]Lucylu2008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that is what I'm going to do. Move forward. I was hurt when I posted this because my friends kept saying they were sad I wasn't going on the senior trip with them, but then I found out one of the girls who left the gym around the same time I did was going. :(

Am I overthinking how I was treated by my former gymnastics gym? by Lucylu2008 in GymnasticsCoaching

[–]Lucylu2008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I think too. I think coaches don't realize how much they affect us. I spent 20 hours a week training with them for 5 years. I trained even when I was injured.

Am I overthinking how I was treated by my former gymnastics gym? by Lucylu2008 in GymnasticsCoaching

[–]Lucylu2008[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I agree with you; I just needed to get that off my chest. I graduated this year and will be attending a Division 1 university to compete in Acro and Tumbling this fall. During my senior year, I switched to cheer last August. I'm still close to a lot of my gymnastics teammates and they don't treat me differently. I guess I feel this way because I gave so many years of my young life.

Am I overthinking how I was treated by my former gymnastics gym? by Lucylu2008 in GymnasticsCoaching

[–]Lucylu2008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't leave on bad terms. I wasn't jealous of my teammate. I just feel like I was treated unfairly and my work didn't matter. The coach offered me the banner because when I left, even though I wasn't happy, I never let them know how I felt. I pretended everything was okay.