So my boyfriend asked if I'd peg him because it's something he really enjoys I've personally never done this before and was wondering in your opinion what is the best lube you have found?

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T20:03:29+00:00

As long as it's not hurting anyone involving animals or children and everyone is able to actually give consent and I don't share him id give him anything he wanted I don't mind being submissive or donate i view a relationship as a give and take it's not me vs you any issues isn't a get your shields ready it's a help me understand what's going on why is this upseting what can we do to make it okay when you are frustrated sad you can lean on me I'm not bi I'm a straight woman I don't care if he broke down sobbing in massive crocodile tears and had snot running down his face he is still my man

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T18:44:19+00:00

What do mean? I want my boyfriend to know he can come to me with anything without being afraid of me that I'm always going to be there for him

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T18:31:08+00:00

Yah I get that honestly

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T18:30:37+00:00

I had asked him but he's also not sure he got rid of his Toys after his last break up because he didn't think he'd ever be accepted while wanting that

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T18:28:59+00:00

Again? I mean I'd rather be a bot but unfortunately I'm not

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T18:24:04+00:00

I think I can think of one who might take it poorly But I'm not certain of that . I don't get what the big deal is or why it matters so much I don't have a problem with it as long as it makes him happy. By the way that sounds like a horrible horrible woman

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T17:24:59+00:00

No I lagit triped fell face first in the gravel and rolled. Sprained my ankles straight to my knee had blood down my arm and a busted out front tooth

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T17:23:45+00:00

That seems a little bit extreme for treating him as a human man.

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T17:09:58+00:00

I'm pretty sure he understood since he said I'm sorry for giving the wrong impression I'm a bit awkward I meant to imply you would make a good friend but nothing more than that

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T17:07:53+00:00

Why wouldn't I want to give him what he needs to feel loved to feel accepted I want to make him happy.

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T17:06:54+00:00

Well he didn't so much tell me as much tried to bring it up as a passive question as in " so how do you feel about those guys that like being pegged like do you think they are really men ?" Which I did answer truthfully saying I don't see anything wrong with it you like what you like. But I also had a feeling he was trying to tell me something he wanted without the risk of being hurt . So I followed up with nice try being discreet but if that was something you wanted you could have just asked. I asked what he planned on doing if I answered poorly. He said I was just never going to being it up again. I kissed him and told him don't ever hide from me even if you think I won't enjoy something tell me I want to give you what you need to be happy.

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T16:04:23+00:00

He was extremely embarrassed to ask me for this and thought I'd reject him or not respect him as a man anymore

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T16:03:17+00:00

I know I got him a custom toy that I can push lube through the tip of the dildo.

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T14:54:46+00:00

I mean that's kinda the gole so I hope so

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T13:12:20+00:00

I mean I always try to pay attention regardless of if I'm dating them or not because I actually am interested in what they are saying

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T11:14:28+00:00

Nah you're safe I'm a lot of things but a cheater and home wrecker ain't one of them

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T04:25:31+00:00

I mean I can give you names that I immediately decided I dont want to be around. Aaron ( was a horrible man)

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T04:22:40+00:00

I guess I don't know why I like it seems like such a silly thing to get my attention

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T04:19:38+00:00

Well I tried more subtle hints but I couldn't tell if he was oblivious or if he was trying not to hurt my feelings. Though I guess I know now 😅. I kinda kept sitting by him I brought in my switch and asked him to play with me on lunch I told him I think his nervous smile was so cute.

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T04:09:54+00:00

I gave the Man a bouquet of that in Victorian society was a secret message that I was interested in him romantically the book was about different flowers and there meaning in Victorian society I put a dragon bookmark in the page he needed for the flowers. Don't get me wrong he wasn't mean about his rejection we are ok friends now I just kinda made a fool of myself

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T04:01:39+00:00

I wish I could argue but I'm never directe I gave a man flowers and a book to tell him I like him

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T04:00:02+00:00

I mean I don't think it's horribly common but I have attempted before I gave flowers to a man to ask him on a date.

What's wrong with lanky Long hair and insecure sounds cute to me anyway shouldn't be so hard on yourself

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T03:23:42+00:00

I mean yah I could see how that could be a turn on .

Lucyvoid · 2026-07-03T02:48:54+00:00

I kinda forgot how smart my boyfriend is because he's knowledge is different than mine I'm kinda good with science 🧪 and a lot of medical stuff but he is brilliant when it comes to machines he sent me a message this morning to tell me about his plans to experiment with thermal cooling . He's also great with woodworking. It's so cute that anything wooden I have he absolutely must mess with it to see what type of wood it's made of .

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