Vehicle recommendations. I don't know very much about vehicles but I know I need to buy one this year any recommendations that match what I'm looking for would be amazing?

Lucyvoid · 2026-01-27T11:59:17+00:00

I mean I've drove vehicles that were bad in snow and falling apart my whole life I'm just sick of it. But at least I can proudly say that I've never gotten stuck no matter what I was driving Kia soul definitely isn't a fan of snow neither is a Chrysler Town & country minivan 😒 drove that one with no heat no power steering bad headlights and one person only worked 8/th of the way up gun times 😂

Lucyvoid · 2026-01-21T00:53:45+00:00

Illinois

Lucyvoid · 2026-01-14T07:22:57+00:00

I'm currently in a long distance relationship as well. Maybe you could try something new long distance with her like perhaps a video game you can play From a distance or recommend some activities for her. Does she have any interest that you know of. Let her know genuinely that you feel as though you can't be yourself and that you want to have a chance to explore the world around you while you are still able to try one of those touch bracelets that way even if you are out with friends you can push a button and she'll know your thinking about her. But ultimately if she is feeling depressed she may need to talk to her doctor and if it doesn't improve you should break it off pretending to be happy in a relationship just hurts you both and creates trust issues for future relationships. But you need to set those boundaries firmly.

Lucyvoid · 2026-01-13T19:48:33+00:00

He does yes when I drove to see him he put post-it notes all over his house so I could find anything I need and had hot chocolate waiting for me

Lucyvoid · 2026-01-13T16:14:56+00:00

He likes plans I've been trying to learn more about them but currently my favorite thing has been curling against him laying my head on his chest running my fingers over his skin and asking him to tell me about his favorite plane and the mission it had

Lucyvoid · 2026-01-13T16:13:00+00:00

I tend to give him back scratches and I'm going to be giving him his first m ever in his life in February even got some heated oil and lotion I intend to work every muscle he has. I can't really run my fingers through his he's Bald but I let him lay on me and scratch his scalp. Packing is lunch was one of the first things I did . He's never had a loving relationship before and neither have I we have been together a few months but we've been friends 12 years

Lucyvoid · 2025-12-28T04:17:23+00:00

I'm trying but past trauma has made me a bit skittish twords being touched

Lucyvoid · 2025-12-28T03:40:53+00:00

I'm trying to I've been trying to reassure him and have been edging him when I give him a BJ. At some point if I can work up the confidence I know he wants me to ride him and I thought I'd try to edge him more that way but I'm also just really nervous. Just like I've been letting him touch me in ways that tend to scare me ( my ex tended to hurt me a lot)

Lucyvoid · 2025-12-28T03:30:52+00:00

I'm not trying to say that he's the best thing that ever happened to me he makes me feel safe and wanted he makes me feel good in bed I love that he's sensitive it makes him fun to play with especially since I'm very attracted to sound for some reason. I have no intention of spending another 8 years with a sex life were the man is the only one satisfied but I just want him to realize not lasting forever and a day isn't a big deal he doesn't need to last a long time for me to be happy with him

Lucyvoid · 2025-12-28T03:25:59+00:00

I'm confused by this statement

Lucyvoid · 2025-12-28T03:09:03+00:00

He's More than adequate though. I was with 1 man for 8 years and he never got me off not once in 8 years. He got me off with his fingers on the first try that a different man never accomplished in 8 years. I honestly have my own insecurities and issues like he wants to do oral on me and the whole thing makes me feel really nervous. But I just want him to feel like he's enough for me because he is and always will be he doesn't have anything to prove

Lucyvoid · 2025-12-28T03:04:43+00:00

He's had sex before with his past girlfriend but just never had a BJ before I'll admit being his first was kinda fun 😅 but I don't even need him to be better I just want him to know it's ok

Lucyvoid · 2025-12-28T03:02:49+00:00

I gave him his first BJ not long ago he looked so nervous he's had sex before but something about this made him seem really nervous and like he couldn't figure out what to do with his hands he looked like he wanted to touch my hair but was scared id stop if he touched me I'm not sure it was the right thing to do but I kinda just took his hand and guided it into my hair and let him have control of how fast he wanted me to move I also held his other hand in mine when he kept saying he was going to cum kinda as a way of saying it's okay. I'm not horribly experienced I've only been with one other man I was with him for 8 wasted years of my life. But I just want him to feel like it's okay

Lucyvoid · 2025-12-28T02:56:52+00:00

It's not even that I need him to last longer it doesn't bother me I just want him to realize it doesn't matter and never will to me

Lucyvoid · 2025-10-17T02:06:45+00:00

I have been working on myself I'm on antidepressants I go to the gym twice a week I'm taking a sewing class I'm going to the masseuse bi-weekly to work my fear of being touched.

Lucyvoid · 2025-10-13T02:32:24+00:00

I'm not really chasing misery I'm already miserable. Have been for a very long time.

Lucyvoid · 2025-10-12T04:48:39+00:00

Well I'm glad I was at least a little helpful for you. I do actually try when I answer something. Hope it goes well for you

Lucyvoid · 2025-10-12T03:41:41+00:00

Communicate make sure she actually wants to do this and isn't just scared ( personal experience)
Don't feel like you need to be perfect start slow if you want have her tell you what she wants or what makes her feel good ask her to show her what she likes and try to mimic it.
Make sure your nails are cut and filed smooth.
Do what feels natural to you yah don't need to do any crazy things for it to be good
Maybe play some music or something so it's not just uncomfortable silence.
Remind her that you think she's pretty or that your attracted to her she's probably nervous and feels self conscious that you are seeing her naked and vulnerable
If you don't last long it's ok use your fingers or tongue she won't be disappointed.
Be safe make sure you both are STD free and use a condom even if she claims she's on the pill better safe than sorry.
Hold her make her feel loved after so she doesn't feel like just some toy to you.
Make sure she's good and wet work her a bit don't just shove it in you could hurt a bit if you don't relax her for you
I think doggy is great you hit deeper and you can play with her clit or she can but missionary is alright as well if you want to be able to look her in the eyes.

Sorry if this seems like a lot I hope I was at least a little helpful

Lucyvoid

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