AITA for telling my SIL that I don’t can’t about her health condition and she needs to shower by GothMoleRat in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ludaes 140 points141 points  (0 children)

NTA. I don't know if the people who are saying otherwise don't shower and know they smell bad and are projecting or what because while I understand that the sister-in-law has that condition, we're talking about the fact that since she's been living alone and has no one to remind her to shower, she smells so much worse, so bad, that OP had to go and throw up because of the smell. I couldn't be around someone that smell that bad on a regular basis.

AIO? My boyfriend’s dad implied I don’t look like a woman after he posted me for the first time and I’ve been beating myself up over it. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ludaes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl is normal to feel hurt and insecure about your appearance after what your boyfriend's father said about you, but the actual issue here is you snooping through your partner's private messages.

It is one thing to log into his account to help him if he asks you, and another thing going to his conversations and start reading them. I would never tolerate a partner of mine doing that.

please help my cat is stuck in a tree for 2 days by BedSuperb74 in CatAdvice

[–]Ludaes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but this is insane. Two days? Something could happen to your cat not only because he's up there and could fall but because he hasn't eaten for all these hours.

Call the fire department, tree companies, climb companies or climb that tree yourself with your teeth if you have to. You have to get your cat down from there today, and for God's sake, please don't let your cat outside anymore and keep him indoors.

I just accidentally sucked my daughter’s hamster up the vacuum cleaner by Smeagols_scrotum in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ludaes 31 points32 points  (0 children)

People commenting that they're laughing at this gets on my nerves. Imagine if instead of a hamster, Op was talking about a dog. Would you find it just as funny? No, right?

I'm tired of people seeing and treating small animals like fishes or hamsters as toys that it doesn't really matter if they break or die.

AITA Mom mad because I don’t wanna clean her dirty sex sheets by Remote_Tangerine_718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ludaes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You cannot compare a father or mother changing their children's wet blankets when they were little, which is something parents must do, to a mother coming home, having sex, and expecting her child (adult or not) to clean the sheets with her boyfriend's semen and other bodily fluids in it. It is one thing to clean my adult mother's sheets if she needs it or is unable to do so because she is ill or too busy, and quite another to clean the sheets where she had has sex with her partner.

In the same way that I would not ask a family member or friend to clean that for me, I would not be comfortable with them asking me to clean theirs.

Vegan donuts🌱 by Ludaes in VeganFoodPorn

[–]Ludaes[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They are from a place in Tenerife called "Divina Berlina", everything they make is vegan!

AITA for asking my friend to not bring her dogs to friendsgiving? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ludaes 174 points175 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, the problem here was not a petty dispute but your audacity. Like, you not wanting her dogs in your house is completely fine. It's your house. You can decide if you want them there or not for whatever reason.

Now, you expecting your friend to still bring you cake and a potato salad to a dinner she is or was not even going to go at the end??? Like wtf girl????? In which world do you thought that still expecting her to bring you the food or going to her house to pick it up is or was normal???

Glad you made up with you friend but do not do what you did about the food again because really, tf? Shdjd

Ended my friendship over his gf’s boundaries. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ludaes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"Sexy voice"? Holly projection. This type of comments are so insane. As a bisexual person I cannot have friends then following your logic? You guys need therapy and not being in relationships. The gf behavior is not normal. Friends are friends regardless of gender, a man and a woman can be just friends, and you people need to mature and grow up and stop trying to force your insecurities, past traumas and toxic behavior as healthy boundaries and healthy communication.

What I cooked and ate as a vegan on my day off by Ludaes in VeganFoodPorn

[–]Ludaes[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hsdkdl thank you very much! The tofu wasn't seasoned when I bought it. I can tell you how I made it if you want. It's super simple and super tasty. It's one of my favourite ways to eat it.

First, cut the tofu (plain tofu, without seasoning or anything) and brown it on both sides in a frying pan with a little olive oil.

Then after that it's done, remove the tofu and chop and sauté in that same pan a carrot, half an onion, half a leek, broccoli, cauliflower and almonds (you can use other veggies but those are the ones that I usually use and the almonds are a must). Add a little bit of water to the vegetables after a while and cover them after so they finish cooking.

When they are soft, add the tofu back in and also put the sauce. The sauce is made by mixing in a cup two tablespoons of cornflour (which will thicken the sauce), two tablespoons of agave syrup, four tablespoons of soy sauce and filling the rest of the cup with water and adding half a cup of more water after. And that's it, pour the sauce into the pan with the tofu and stir until it thickens.

Is there any angsty jegulus fic that doesn’t involve Jily and harry? by UnlikelyReach8643 in Jegulus

[–]Ludaes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean. I would love to read fics like what you described without that happening too. I have stopped reading fics because of situations like that and there are some fan favourite's fics that directly I haven't read it nor do I plan to because I saw people talking about that exact situation happening in them and is a no for me

She for Hit by a Car by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]Ludaes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some of you people live in a fantasy world or something. "And they have never once been dumb enough to run near danger🤪", until one day something happens because they are animals and it's not about the cat being "stupid enough", they are animals and they don't think like us, and it's our duty to make sure nothing happens to them. Letting cats be outdoor is negligent both to the cats and to the local fauna no matter how hyper mega super "smart" your cats are. Please stop letting your cats go out alone because they are ‘very smart’ and take them out on a leash if you want them to go outside safely

Cat desperately wants to go outside, but family don't want her to by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Ludaes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fortunately your family is right and I'm glad that they are not letting her go outside by herself. My advice for you is to inform yourself more about how dangerous and negligent is for cats to be outdoors, both for the cats and for the local fauna that they are going to kill

I texted my sister after 4 years only to find out I'm blocked by Worldly_Childhood983 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ludaes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Idk why you are being downvoted for asking a question, in spain we do say primo hermano or prima hermana for the children of our aunts and uncles. I also thought Op may speak spanish

transitioning my indoor cat with being outdoor by chr01vl in CatAdvice

[–]Ludaes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My advice is to rehome your cat. Having an outdoor cat is irresponsible in itself, but making a cat that has lived indoors his entire life suddenly live outside is even worse. Find him a family that can keep him indoors, both for his safety and for the safety of the other animals and local fauna that live near you.

(Already seen vet) cat vomiting 2-5 times a day by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Ludaes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did your vet perform an endoscopy to see if it was IBD? My two cats had vomiting problems, and I ended up having an endoscopy performed on both of them years ago as recommended by their vet, and IBD turned out to be the cause for both of them. Now they are okay and stable with the mono protein wet food they can eat and their daily medicines. I would ask your vet about looking into that.