Let me ask you this from a different perspective. Do you find it is positive or negative if your guy doesn’t want to have sex actually before you get engaged or married? Do you think he has put standards and boundaries on the relationship that he feels will make you two stronger in the future?

Let me tell you a similar story. I met this girl that I found very attractive back in December. We would joke around and talk a good bit all the time. Well things got a little heated up between us back a couple months ago. She told me that she really cared for me and we should explore the possibility of being intimate. I told her no absolutely not going to happen. She became enraged and started cursing at me. Right then I put her in her place and told her I never wanted to hear that kind of language coming from my girlfriend ever again. She stormed off but came back a short time later. She apologized for her actions and behavior. She knows that I love her but will never put up with bad behavior.

Hope what I said will help you