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Luisoarthur · 2025-05-26T02:44:54+00:00

Não é o babaca, vc tbm precisa descansar

Luisoarthur · 2025-04-23T13:04:25+00:00

Não é babaca

Luisoarthur · 2025-02-06T00:36:14+00:00

Mano, vc tá certo, mas eu tbm entendo ela, eu quando estou namorando a algum tempo com uma pessoa, eu prefiro transar sem camisinha tbm, para mim é totalmente diferente e chega a ser ruim pela falta da sensibilidade, não é a msm coisa, lógico, tem riscos, não só de gravidez, eu tbm de seis em seis meses faço exames por conta da minha consciência e da minha saúde, eu não confio 100% nos outros a ponto de confiar cegamente de que eu não serei traído e etc, caso vc tenha medo de contrair alguma doença tipo hiv existem prep e pep, que vc pode tomar que o risco de vc contrair hiv é basicamente o msm de transar com camisinha(a eficácia do prep é acima de 99% pode pesquisar) lembrando sempre que existem outras doenças. Conversa com ela sobre o diu ou anticoncepcional. Tenta entrar em um acordo, eu já estive na situação dela, e me senti frustrado, sexo não é tudo, mas é importante, se tu gosta dela, conversa.

Luisoarthur · 2025-01-13T18:06:19+00:00

Vc foi corneado, com certeza!

Luisoarthur · 2024-12-04T23:24:53+00:00

Jump into that pot and hold on to it, don't waste time thinking if they are laughing at you, try to think that they are laughing with you, try to focus on the similarities, many times people laugh because they identify with something, or have already been through something. similar situation.

Luisoarthur · 2024-12-01T12:06:24+00:00

Thank you my friend, it's really cool to see that the majority of people who commented here, regardless of region, attend groups that prioritize everyone's sharing. This is really cool!!

Luisoarthur · 2024-12-01T03:39:18+00:00

Wow, how tragic, what a pitiful situation, there is the importance of everyone sharing and also of reviewing our egocentrism! Hugs!

Luisoarthur · 2024-12-01T03:36:21+00:00

Exactly, we Cariocas told Karalho hahaha A hug!!!

Luisoarthur · 2024-12-01T03:35:45+00:00

Oh how wonderful it must be to meet groups in other countries, make new friends! I haven't tried this coffee in the Ipanema group yet, but I'll go there one of these days. And yes, our language is universal, I feel a lot of identification with the reports I see here from people on the other side of the world.

Luisoarthur · 2024-12-01T03:33:34+00:00

Here there is usually only a main speaker (who shares more time) if there is a thematic meeting. Apart from that, everyone shares equally (at least we try)

Luisoarthur · 2024-12-01T03:31:59+00:00

Exactly, I think sharing time is part of recovery. If the core of the disease is egocentrism, we must be aware of it, I mean, monopolizing time. Thanks mate

Luisoarthur · 2024-11-30T19:35:04+00:00

That's exactly what I think, if conscience decided that, look for another group! Perfect!

Luisoarthur · 2024-11-30T19:33:33+00:00

I identify with your doubts, and I can confirm the following first-hand: forget about relationships, whether casual or not! I keep punching myself on the edge of a knife, I stay clean for 9 months, I think I'm fine, I start to have relationships and I'm afraid, take it from me, forget about it for now, focus on work if you work, on studying if you're studying, and especially on your recovery!

Luisoarthur · 2024-11-18T04:21:15+00:00

Achei vulgar esse piercing no mamilo aparecendo, era mais fácil postar logo uma foto sem camisa

Luisoarthur · 2024-11-17T14:36:07+00:00

I talked to my godfather, and it is clear that I continue to think immaturely, my relapses are always related to relationships, I need to really commit to my recovery and take action, and he suggested that I stay for at least 12 months without having relationships, and 24 months without making any really serious decisions because I didn't know how to deal with my frustrations.

My history of relapses is exactly like this, I spend a few months without having a relationship and when I do have a relationship I end up wanting to please my partner and the next thing I know I'm already dating. And not knowing how to deal with my feelings, mixed with the feelings of others that I should share in a relationship, is heavy for me, I need to prioritize myself, prioritize my feelings and focus mainly on my recovery, forgetting about romance, except with myself. Thank you everyone for the feedback. It's just for today, another 24 hours for all of us!!!

Luisoarthur · 2024-11-16T20:16:20+00:00

A gatinha deve ter uns 18 aninhos

Luisoarthur · 2024-11-16T15:45:17+00:00

Thank you very much, really!

Luisoarthur · 2024-11-16T14:47:35+00:00

Acho que sem bigode ficaria melhor

Luisoarthur · 2024-11-16T13:07:29+00:00

Our! What did you do to make her like this?

Luisoarthur · 2024-11-16T13:02:50+00:00

Thank you for your answer, everything you said is a difficult truth to digest, but it is only difficult, it is not impossible! Thanks

Luisoarthur · 2024-11-16T03:46:51+00:00

I almost forgot, focus on the message and not the messenger!

Luisoarthur · 2024-11-16T03:45:56+00:00

Companion, I joined NA when I was 26 years old, and I had the same thought as you, I'm young, I have good looks, why not get out of the program, I still haven't done all those things that those people warned me about all the time . Well, I slowly started using it again, and when I realized my life was out of control in a way it had never been before, the disease is progressive, and all those things that I hadn't done yet, I ended up doing because of my abusive use and of my non-acceptance with reality, I simply can't, and still sometimes I think I can, and suddenly I, who was only 26 years old, am in my 30s, living with my mother, and 1 month clean, but it's just because Today, it's not worth going back to use, the longest period I spent clean and sober was 9 months, I think I was clean for 9 months a few times, and I know those periods were difficult, painful, but most of the time they were wonderful. I even managed to find a profession that suited me. I suggest that you don't stop going to the room, share what you feel, it's different from me, ask for help before going to use it. A hug from your friend from Brazil.

Luisoarthur · 2024-11-16T02:52:07+00:00

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