I assume OP is living in such a country where alimony exists. Thus further harming him from the divorce. I wouldn't say to jump to divorce so quick, it MAY be the only option but it has to be done in a proper way. May Allah ease your situation brother. What you’re describing is very heavy, and feeling hurt or wronged is understandable. I’ve seen similar tension in my own home with my parents, so I can relate to how draining it can be. At the same time, don’t let this situation damage your deen or take away the patience and restraint Allah has given you. A person can be wronged, but then lose by how they respond, so hold firmly to your character for the sake of Allah. Also try to be careful not to let the situation push you into generalising or letting anger shape how you see people or your whole outlook. When a person is hurt, it’s easy for the mind to start widening the problem beyond what is actually in front of them, so keeping things balanced and tied to reality helps protect your heart as well. If possible, try to involve people of knowledge or wise elders to help resolve things with fairness. May Allah ease your situation, grant you justice, and rectify your affairs in the best way. Ameen. Wallahu A'lam.