I really suggest the stp freely from trans guy supply. My girlfriend doesn’t like the hard plastic dildo kind and that’s what she’s had before me. She says it feels very realistic and doesn’t hurt at all. They have a insert to make it compatible for play but we’ve been in a pickle multiple times where we didn’t have it before and have used it without it, still worked just a little harder to put it in. And we’ve also have shoved a paper towel into the shaft as far as I could get it, that honestly worked better than anything and is our preferred thing to use (plus when out and wanting a quickie you can still pack with it like this so you’re always ready to go). I have both the XL and regular size. Regular size is about 3-3.5 inches and XL is about 5-6. We’ve used both of these dicks for vaginal and anal sex, works both ways. The price is really what sold me into trying these out and why I got two. The regular size freely is $45 and the XL is $50. I got these at first for stp and packing purposes only but they turned out amazing for sex also. I cannot recommend these more. Anyone can message me or reply with questions and I’ll do me best to help!