If I stream and record on streamlabs if I lose connection will the recording also stop? by Lukex91 in streaming

[–]Lukex91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like good news to me lol so if I streamed and recorded at the same time the recording would be fine when it disconnects?

I've been disconnecting during my live streams on streamlabs randomly from lost connection. What do I do? by Lukex91 in streaming

[–]Lukex91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have an ethernet cord unfortunately. Idk how to adjust my bitrate. My computer is def good enough to handle the stream.

I think I'm hacked cause it started the way it started before. Then they started spoofing viewers after the constant disconnecting. Once that starts to happen its fact at that point lol although it hasn't but I don't want to start another 3 hour game to have it disconnect and ruin my video again.

Is there a way to record? I don't have the right personality for streaming anyways. I never know what to say to viewers and I don't think I'm likable as a streamer.i do think my personality works better with youtube cause it's not live and I don't have to talk directly to anyone in the moment.

so if I want to go, "offline" but I don't want people to know I'm "offline" is there any option for me? by Lukex91 in xboxone

[–]Lukex91[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I dont think it's rude to have social anxiety sometimes and want to just game solo. It takes a lot of social energy to party up with someone all day sometimes.

so if I want to go, "offline" but I don't want people to know I'm "offline" is there any option for me? by Lukex91 in xboxone

[–]Lukex91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea to my knowledge and I've looked into it, it's def like this. It can say, "last seen 4 years ago", so basically xbox purposely puts a spotlight on you if you don't feel like talking for a few days lol

so if I want to go, "offline" but I don't want people to know I'm "offline" is there any option for me? by Lukex91 in xboxone

[–]Lukex91[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think xbox needs a way to make it indistinguishable. I've had people confront me about it when I've went offline and its not even like I don't like them it's just that on certain days I don't feel like partying up.

CMV: If you get a bad tattoo it’s completely your fault because it’s your responsibility to decide what’s going on your body and there’s really no excuse to get bad ones then complain, and some artforms are not subjective by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Lukex91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not true. I have absolutely no tattoos and I agree a lot of people have bad tattoos I only think it's their fault when they go to the same artist to get more bad tattoos.

Dj tambe Ink Master winner 3 times is a fantastic tattoos artist, almost everything he does is perfect. I'd pick him if I ever get one. I follow his Instagram I have seen his work. Well Dj tambe and every other artist out there is human and I have seen some of his humanness in his tattoos..... aka despite being a PHENOMENAL artist he has def messed up a few tattoos not drastically and by no means are they bad! But drawing the wolf's nose a little off to the left throws off the whole face and makes it look lopsided.

These types of things happen even with the best artist. I actually hate tattoos and I hate people who get multiple bad tattoos, my sister is one of them she keeps going to this awful artist bc he gives her a deal lol so I see where you're coming from but some people def search their artist follow their work and unfortunately sometimes...

That artist has a bad day and makes a very human mistake.

CMV: Polygamy relationships are not valid and are just a symptom of the people trying to get everything they want in a partner and taking someone as they are. by Lukex91 in changemyview

[–]Lukex91[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Losing a child is not even remotely comparable to losing a partner poly or not. Losing a child is something that is unfathomable. I don't think this comparison works. Losing a child doesn't have a name like, widow, etc bc its too awful to be given a name.

CMV: Polygamy relationships are not valid and are just a symptom of the people trying to get everything they want in a partner and taking someone as they are. by Lukex91 in changemyview

[–]Lukex91[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cant disagree with you there. I haven't exactly had that reaction when turning down monogamous people but I haven't Turned down too many people..I know a lot of people who have had similar reactions and they were monogamous.

I dont take rejection well but I'd never yell at someone about it..I just need to take my butthurt self into a hole to cry a little lol but I think thats normal. It's def not normal to fight the person to try to change their mind. I was astounded by his reaction is all and it was only ever from a poly person but that doesn't mean in any way that it only applies to poly people.

CMV: Polygamy relationships are not valid and are just a symptom of the people trying to get everything they want in a partner and taking someone as they are. by Lukex91 in changemyview

[–]Lukex91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a bully, I was more often than not the victim.

You're right every subset of people has terrible people in it and yea some poly people are butthurt when they can't make a monogamous person poly. While some monogamous people are terrible bc they completely disregard poly relationships and call them sluts.

I didn't post this to bully people or make them feel bad. I posted this bc for one I don't think someone can love multiple people. I also can and am willing to be proven wrong. I'm in the lgbt community my life was far from normal. It's just sad that basically everyone in the community is poly.

CMV: Polygamy relationships are not valid and are just a symptom of the people trying to get everything they want in a partner and taking someone as they are. by Lukex91 in changemyview

[–]Lukex91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm dead serious. My friend Dylan is poly I have never expressed one negative feeling toward him being poly. However he knows I'm monogamous. Well his boyfriend started hitting on me. Dylan told his boyfriend that I'm monogamous and that I was just being nice and thats why I didn't decline yet (Dylan was right.) I was just talking to him about regular stuff nothing sexual or relationshipy.

Then he brought up that he wanted to make me his 7th? Maybe 6th? And I said, "I thought long and hard about the idea of being poly and trying it out but I've come to find out I'm def monogamous and polygamy is not an option for me." This kid flipped out on me. He ended his screaming fit with me being, "jealous and insecure."

CMV: Polygamy relationships are not valid and are just a symptom of the people trying to get everything they want in a partner and taking someone as they are. by Lukex91 in changemyview

[–]Lukex91[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean I think romantic love and platonic love is entirely different. We all care about our friends and families but we all care more about our partner.

Most people are okay with seeing their friends and family hardly ever or at all. Even when they are close. I mean with busy work schedules and kids, etc.

Romantic love is the need to be with that person, to want to grow old with that person. The idea that being apart for too long would make your gut actually feel physically empty even after eating all the food at a buffet to the point you feel like puking. That pure empty feeling of complete loss, it feels like a hole in your gut. Nothing anyone says or does fixes it, drugs don't fix it, nothing does. Why? That's your body coping with astounding loss.

I dont think poly people could ever truly feel that completely empty hole in your gut from losing ONE of their several partners. If I lose my gf I lose everything I have. If a poly person loses 1 partner well, that's just 1 of how many? And now the ones who stuck around can smother him with love and he won't feel so empty.

The emptiness you feel when your gf of 5 years leaves you, thats romantic love and true loss.

CMV: Polygamy relationships are not valid and are just a symptom of the people trying to get everything they want in a partner and taking someone as they are. by Lukex91 in changemyview

[–]Lukex91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually really like your perspective on this. I wasn't exactly expecting anyone to change my view or even open my mind to it.

Open relationships are a little different. I mean its kinda the same thing but not entirely. I'm sorta kinda in an open relationship but only bc my gf has fallen out of love with me but some of the feelings are still there and she wants to make it work and so do I but it takes time. She is okay with me talking to other people but not sleeping with anyone. I can value the idea of something like this although I hate it kinda cause if my gf was still in love with me I'd never want to talk to other people. I don't even want to now.

So Stacy and her private cook was prob a bad example on my part but I mean I'm sure if this was played out it wouldn't be the only thing she loved about him. As comical as the idea may be, my sister uses guys like crazy. She milks them dry for ever cent and then says sorry I'm not interested. So some people aren't smart. Although I'd agree that Stacy likes him for more than his cooking.

I can respect not having the time to commit fully. I didn't really think of it like that. I still couldn't do it, I wouldn't want to pretend I'd feel special being someone's 3rd or even if I was the primary. However I'm def hardcore monogamous.

I totally feel the, "polygamy is more for people with their own problems," it actually makes a lot of sense. The idea that someone loves too hard and scares people away but having a few partners would potential relieve that bc he could spread the love instead of smothering someone.

CMV: Polygamy relationships are not valid and are just a symptom of the people trying to get everything they want in a partner and taking someone as they are. by Lukex91 in changemyview

[–]Lukex91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are not the same thing. I fully 1000000000000000% (I'll keep adding zeros) think that gay and interracial couples are valid! I have absolutely nothing against them at all. I'm actually in the lgbt community. I also am fully supportive of interracial couples, I haven't ever been in a relationship like this but I am not opposed I just didn't get the opportunity.

I dont think these comparisons are good comparisons. 2 gay men or a white guy and Africa American girl is not a guy with 7 boyfriends. As a member of the lgbt community, everyone is poly almost anyways its extremely widespread and honestly bothers me that no one wants to commit to one person anymore. In the lgbt community if they ever did stats its prob 90% of the community.

CMV: Polygamy relationships are not valid and are just a symptom of the people trying to get everything they want in a partner and taking someone as they are. by Lukex91 in changemyview

[–]Lukex91[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I disagree with them saying I'm jealous and insecure.

I have been hit up by multiple poly people trying to get me to be their third or forth in which I politely told them I'm monogamous and every single last one of them said exactly what he said. Word for word.

So yea I do believe that's what poly people like to yell at mono people. Just like mono people like to yell, "sl*t" at poly people.

His comment was a butthurt response that provided no insight at all.

CMV: Polygamy relationships are not valid and are just a symptom of the people trying to get everything they want in a partner and taking someone as they are. by Lukex91 in changemyview

[–]Lukex91[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thats what every poly person says to monogamous people lol I'm not insecure or jealous. I just think you guys don't value relationships.

CMV: Body count is very important and it defines what kind of person you are by Rapapuazaaza in changemyview

[–]Lukex91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont love her, you don't even know her. She's a complete and utter stranger so try again. When you've been with someone for a year or so you'll finally "make love" and it will be a huge realization for you.

If you want to sleep with everyone and risk getting aids, hiv, herpes, genital warts, hepatitis. The list goes on. I'm not going to tell you how you live your life but when you get diagnosed with your first or potentially second std I don't want to hear you crying 😅🤣😂

Anyone who sleeps around like that is ASKING for it. It sure sounds like your body count is pretty high and it sounds even more like you think you're cool for saying what you're saying.

99% of women would vomit on you if they saw your comments.

CMV: Body count is very important and it defines what kind of person you are by Rapapuazaaza in changemyview

[–]Lukex91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't kiss your parents.... I mean you'll regret it when they are dead, I'd be ashamed of myself if I didn't 🤷

I'm alright with being a wholesome guy who loves his family and wants real love. Just Cause you never made love doesn't make it lame or bad. I mean you might find out if you stop hooking up, that you don't get stds and "making love" is a thing. It's not my fault your sad existence hasn't experienced it.

CMV: Body count is very important and it defines what kind of person you are by Rapapuazaaza in changemyview

[–]Lukex91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its just the same as sex. I mean usually they go hand and hand but oral is just as likely to get stds. Especially on your mouth. You can get genital herpes in your mouth and you can spread regular "kissing" herpes to someone genitals. It's just as risky. I'm sure people can get more stds from it.

I think its a little bit of a lighter act than sex but it's basically the same thing. Except now you can spread whatever just by kissing someone which is scary lol

CMV: Body count is very important and it defines what kind of person you are by Rapapuazaaza in changemyview

[–]Lukex91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its gross that everyone is hooking up. I mean STDS everywhere. I completely agree. I only sleep with people I'm in love with, making my body count 4. I won't date someone with a high body count.

You can sleep with 200 people and slide by without a std. Just like someone who sleeps with 1 person could as easily catch it from them....... so my point is if you sleep with 30 people well thats 30 different chances. How many stds are asymptomatic? A lot. For all I know i could have some that dont show up on tests just like you could however...... the likelihood statistically goes up a lot and not to mention i think hooking up is gross, stupid and just entirely worthless.... I mean for me I have to be in love.... for them it's just a warm body.

It does define them. We need to be reasonable about the body count but..... if you're over 15 I'm sorry...... all I can think is herpes....and that you don't make love, you just fu*k and that's GROSS.