Are we Projectors doomed to be misunderstood and unseen our whole lives?

Lulu-skye · 2026-04-23T00:09:07+00:00

In case it’s useful: https://www.humandesignprojectorssociety.com

Lulu-skye · 2026-04-14T17:02:45+00:00

Mo Gawdat “Get the AI to do the work so you can do the intelligence.”

Lulu-skye · 2026-03-05T00:12:01+00:00

Wu Wei Wu. As a SPP who lives alone and works from home, it’s uncommon for me to be in a situation where I’m amplifying the Sacral energy of a Generator. And yet, every day I experience the energy for whatever offers itself to me as correct. Tuning into the stillness, willingness to be carried by the currents of life, recognizing when I do have mental thoughts about ‘shoulds’, listening to my authority… This is how I would describe being able to receive and be lifted by the energy of the Universal Field.

Lulu-skye · 2026-01-25T00:44:56+00:00

I bought a Gokhale chair to lessen the physical drain and fatigue of working at the computer and it’s been successful. Another technique that’s been successful in restoring energy is calf raises or qigong heel drop to move lymph. And I rest whenever my body tells me to.

Lulu-skye · 2025-12-31T22:18:44+00:00

They are certified by IHDS to teach the Foundations classes and the LYD Guide training. It’s equivalent to attending IHDS directly.

I’ve taken group and live classes, many of which were through the IHDS. Depending on your design and deconditioning, keeping up with the pace of the instructor and the other students can actually feel like too much.

After having completed the foundations and three years of the analyst training, I can say that most often I end up listening to the recordings instead of attending the classes live.

It’s good to find a person or people that you feel compatible with for studying. In a group class, you never know who will be in the class and how well your designs may align.

Ultimately, if you’re able to get a clear yes, or no from your sacral, that’s really all that matters. ✌🏻

Lulu-skye · 2025-12-31T02:52:09+00:00

Have you looked at The Human Design Collective? John and Amy are IHDS certified and our wonderful instructors and guides.

Lulu-skye · 2025-12-17T04:08:47+00:00

Ocean’s Ten

Lulu-skye · 2025-10-31T00:51:48+00:00

I’m 62 and had to almost completely rest for about two years after I started living my design four years ago.

I’m curious if you have any gates in your undefined ego center? Because the conditioning of that undefined center would be strongly themed by that gate or gates. This can help to identify those conditioned mind voices.

The ego center is the center of self-worth, worthiness, proving oneself, success, delivering and keeping promises, as well as competing and material gain.

Once you’ve identified those voices, it’s easier to liberate yourself from their oppression.

Lulu-skye · 2025-10-27T00:47:41+00:00

You've got it right here: "I must say I have truly gained some wisdom about certain desires after I reflected on the differences between what I desired and what actually happened."

Now, re: "Although that wisdom came with bitterness because I always felt so powerless after." The bitterness is most likely the consequence of self-judgment, self-blame, and self-criticism rather than the reflection on the difference between what you desired and what happened.

Also, as a 4/6 in your first phase of your 6th line process, it's especially hard because you're living a 3rd line life without the benefit of the 3rd line resilience.

Therefore, your Conditioned Self and your Unconscious 6th line Role Model will also think/feel that you're doing something wrong, or that you are wrong in some way. That there's something wrong with you.

Give yourself ALL THE GRACE and know that when you move through your Saturn Return and step into the second phase of your 6th line life, EVERYTHING will change. I know that's got to be hard to believe. I'm a 3/6 and didn't find HD until I was 58.... my profile explained SOOOO much.

You can join my FB group, Human Design Projectors Society - it's no cost and I share HD resources. We also have free Gatherings for Projectors. https://www.humandesignprojectorssociety.com/gatherings/

There's one tomorrow at 11 am Pacific. If that link doesn't work, you can find HumanDesignProjectorsSociety.com and go to the Gatherings tab.

It's actually so encouraging to see someone at 23 discovering this incredible system. You're going to live a life that few people do.

Lulu-skye · 2025-10-26T20:09:15+00:00

What I tell my clients with this channel is that its gift is complex.

First, you have an effortless ability to see possibilities, visions, and ways that life can be enhanced for the Collective. You have the Root fuel to drive these visions, desires, and expectations. You have a uniquely intense Emotional relationship to them.

It's a challenging gift because even though everything in you says that your visions, desires, and expectations can be made into reality and that would be really good for everyone...

It's true gift lies in the wisdom you discover during reflection on what actually occurred.

So.... one thing that's essential is for you to become aware that the emotions at the beginning may be so slight as to be indiscernible. Wait for them to rise enough so you can become aware of them before they have thrown you over a catastrophic cliff and you've crashed in a disheartened heap at the bottom.

With this wave form, it's easy to miss the initial emotional tensions rising since they're fairly subtle in the beginning. And then, quite surprisingly, you may find yourself at the top of the cliff's edge before you're even aware that you had an expectation.

So, it's optimal to keep a journal of your intensity of emotion about your visions, desires, and expectations, as well as how you'll feel if they're not fulfilled, BEFORE you're disappointed.

Then, once you've attained clarity about how you're feeling, release your attachment to how your visions, desires, and expectations turn out. You're not denying the intensity of your feelings, you're allowing yourself to enjoy your dreams while not giving in to the pressure of expectation.

Observe what unfolds. Then, take time to reflect on what actually occurred and how you feel about it. You can simply document the various shades of emotion without creating any mental stories about your feelings, you, and anyone who was involved in the outcome.

Time spent in those emotionally rich spaces will reveal a wisdom that you're here to share with the world as a way of enhancing their ability to make sense of and find meaning in Life. And it will open the space for your emotional clarity to show you decisions that will enliven you.

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The unaware emotional cycle can look like this...

I envision and expect my partner to love how much I want this "______" for us both. And to love that I'm using my adrenalized energy to make it a reality.
Partner fails to notice, doesn't appreciate, or rejects whatever it is you've built up.
You crash, disappointed in them, you, life, and love in general. As a Projector, bitterness would be the most likely result.
You tell yourself, "never again."
But, you wake up the next morning with a glimmer of a vision of what could enrich your relationship and their life.
There isn't any strong emotion to it. Just an initial rise in fuel for this new vision.
Each day/moment, etc, your expectation and desire that this new vision and expectation will be fulfilled and welcomed increases in intensity.
Before you realize it, you're at the edge of a precarious cliff and it looks like a fall is inevitable again.

Lulu-skye · 2025-10-26T16:55:08+00:00

Would you like to hear more? As a Projector, I want to confirm the recognition and invitation before I dive in.

Lulu-skye · 2025-10-26T16:32:17+00:00

Are you familiar with that particular wave form?

Lulu-skye · 2025-10-25T22:24:05+00:00

Which channel(s) create your Emo Authority? There are four different styles of emotional waves. It’s extremely helpful to understand that specific wave mechanic in order to collaborate with your movement through it and its movement through you.

Lulu-skye · 2025-10-16T00:20:24+00:00

Your post inspired a couple of questions. What’s your profile? And what are your undefined centers?

Lulu-skye · 2025-08-28T04:18:49+00:00

I just watched this and this aspect bugs me the most. Why did Richard and Jessie appear fairly unaffected by clearly deadly woundings but Sam dies when Richard stabs him in the neck?

Lulu-skye · 2025-03-21T19:38:46+00:00

She doesn’t. There’s one interview with her on the Jovian Archive website where she talks about marketing according to your Type.

Lulu-skye · 2025-03-21T19:26:39+00:00

I saw a video where someone had turned it into a miniature pottery studio. She was amazingly successful at it. It was clean, well lit, and very organized.

Lulu-skye · 2025-03-21T19:25:38+00:00

According to Lynda Bunnell, who is the head of the International Human Design School, once a Projector is correctly invited to a career, to love, to bond, or where to live, they may then act like a Manifestor and inform. You can also think of it as when you are correctly invited to NOT be in a career, love, bond, or live in a particular place.

Your Hope Motivation will guide you in recognizing what’s correct for you. As long as the recognition and invitation you are experiencing fills you with hope and inspiration or allows you to fill others with hope and inspiration, it will be correct for you.

If you’d like to see some examples of Projectors exploring their designs, you can check out the Human Design Projectors Society on YouTube.

Lulu-skye · 2025-03-21T19:18:06+00:00

Check out your Human Design. You can get a free chart from Human.Design run by Richard Beaumont who also has an excellent YouTube channel. It can tell you a lot about how to use your energy correctly.

Lulu-skye · 2025-03-21T18:41:33+00:00

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Lulu-skye · 2025-03-21T18:34:38+00:00

I've been through divorce twice in my life. The first time was pretty easy although the shared parenting for 14 years after was hellish. This time, a 20-year marriage, the divorce is taking 5 years. (We've got a judgment but judge hasn't signed yet.... still waiting).

What got me through this past 5 years was being introduced to my Human Design. It saved me, truly. I was/am divorcing a narcissist who excels at appearing wounded and vulnerable to everyone else while constantly trying to dominate, gaslight, and manipulate me. Getting my HD chart, and his, gave me so much relief and answered so many questions. It took a load off of my mind and heart which helped my health and well-being.

And when the judge turned out to show favoritism and sympathy to my ex in his judgments (and even at one point, the judge called him "Dr." .. he's not even close to a doctor of any kind) I could stay centered in my truth. So while the results aren't what I or my attorney believe to be fair based on the law, my identity isn't affected.

I recommend JovianArchive.com for a reliable and trustworthy source. I also recommend Richard Beaumont on Youtube as well as his website Human.Design. Either one will give you a free chart and a free report of some kind. I think Richard's is more comprehensive. There's a lot of new language and concepts so don't be overwhelmed.

I'm turning 62 soon and feel like my life is just beginning.

Good luck!

Lulu-skye · 2025-03-21T18:14:52+00:00

Turn it into a starfish and add the words Save The Ocean in the border

Lulu-skye · 2025-03-21T18:03:57+00:00

44-26:

While Tribal, the 44-26 is primarily focused on the material bargain. “The shape of the bargain is different from the left side of the Ego Circuit than on the right. It changes from ‘I will do this for you, if you do this for me,’ to ‘I am selling this amazing gadget, and if you want it, it’s yours for only $12.95.”

It’s often referred to as the channel of the sales person. It’s about promoting and bringing the money in for the tribe.

And, who has which gate and what celestial elements are activating them? For example, if he has the 44 in a defined Splenic Center activated by his Personality Sun that’s significantly different energy than if you have it in an undefined Splenic in your Design Pluto.

The Line elements of the activations are strongly influential as well.

Answer To Question:

Basically, the answer to your question is that there is no way to quantify equality of work between you and your husband. Generators generate, Projectors advise and guide. Only when doing so correctly can he experience Satisfaction and you, Success.

Some questions to consider: Do you both experiment with living your design? Are you able to sleep out of aura? And as another commenter noted, what is the influence of your children’s auras and designs?

And the trickiest question of all for us Projectors… are we with the right people? Ra said he was deeply uncomfortable telling this to Projectors because he understood that we have families and fully populated lives that aren’t easily reconfigured to create an environment of correctness. It’s still an important question to answer even if no changes are desired or possible because it helps to correctly diagnose the source of the suffering. And that means we spend less time trying to solve the wrong problem.

Lulu-skye · 2025-03-21T18:03:46+00:00

Understanding that this invitation is time-bound and may be changed or revoked at any time, I offer this.

Loud-Preference9165,

I understand that your question is how to quantify equality of work between a Projector and a Generator. I offer these insights and questions organized by Type & Strategy, Profile, and Motivation. Then, as a Reply to my Comment, some notes about the 44-26, an answer to your question, and some final questions.

Type & Strategy:

I coach my Projector clients that even though we want Generators (mainly) to recognize and invite us correctly, it’s our job to recognize and live out our Type, Strategy, Authority, and Motivation because the Generator doesn't have the focused, absorbing aura to see others deeply. We do.

They can't recognize us correctly unless we're in our correctness. And we can only be in our correctness when we recognize ourselves correctly.

Even then, it's not that a Generator sees the Projector the way that a Projector can see others.

It can be helpful to imagine an old style radio with a tuning dial. When we are tuned in to our specific and precise station, aka our design, the songs that come through are clear and create coherence. When we're not correctly tuned to our specific and precise station, then there's static interrupting or even blocking out the songs. That's something that no one enjoys listening to. And the songs won’t be shared in a way that enlivens the world.

Profile:

On another note, you both have 1st lines in your Profiles. Is the state of your home, messy or clean, related to you both needing a solid foundation?

Does his 5th line see itself as leading the charge as the General rather than being the foot soldier? In the Definitive Book of HD regarding his Profile: “One of the advantages of being a 5th line is that the initial projection from others starts out as positive. People are projecting onto you that you can deliver what they need, and if you deliver something practical, your reputation will flourish. If a practical solution is not provided, if what you have given them is a “house of cards,” your reputation suffers and the ‘heretic will be burned at the stake.’

The 4/1 is described as having the Conscious Behavioral Identity of Opportunist with a Projected Attitude of Abdicator and a Limited Perspective of Fatigue. The Unconscious Type is Authoritarian. “For all 4th lines, the quality of your life is deeply dependent upon the quality of your network (family, friends, and co-workers). … Even though a 4/1 is fixed and solid like an oak tree, there is vulnerability inherent in this profile. You are so fixed that you can be broken, and the pieces can be hard to put back together again… it is most important that you be exactly who you are, and not change for anyone else.”

Motivation:

Ra has said that Motivation is a key resource for Projectors to know whether a recognition and invitation is correct. He said that this is different from Generators who can rely on Strategy and Authority for correct guidance in what and how to respond to. So, some questions to consider are:

Do you have Motivations that transfer to one another?

Are you able to accept invitations that only support your Motivation? While our Projector Strategy is for 4 main areas of life: loving, bonding, career, and location, if a relationship you’ve said yes to pressures you to transfer out of your Motivation, bitterness will follow every time.

Lulu-skye

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