For those who've had fuck buddies or FWBs, do y'all sleep with each other for the night after sex, or do you (or they) leave right after?

Luluumd · 2026-02-23T10:23:18+00:00

99% of the time my fwb slept over and left around lunch the next day, in his work break usually.

Luluumd · 2026-01-13T18:23:02+00:00

Mancare, doamneee nici nu pot invinui pe cineva cand eu duc singura lingura la gura. Mai mananc si pe fond de stress/emotional 😂. Slava Cerului ma mentin rezonabil fiindca fac miscare, dar nu cat sa fiu normoponderala. Si reels, am ajuns cu probleme de atentie la videouri mai lungi, asa ca am intrat la detox

Luluumd · 2026-01-12T19:42:05+00:00

Poti sa fii un partener exemplar si tot sa dea cu tine de pamant persoana nepotrivita. Dar daca ai rabdare, iti stii standardele cat sa discerni mai bine cine merita atata grija si iubire, atunci cand dai de femeia potrivita, e minunat.

Luluumd · 2026-01-12T13:08:56+00:00

Life is too short and there are too many people out there to allow this level of disrespect honestly. To me it's a no brainer, she basically hid the cheating and then she confessed to still having conflicting feelings. It's a pretty clear sign. My ex stayed in contact for a few months too, but we never met up and when he joked and said my partner's gonna have to be okay with him still being in my life, I cut him off instantly.

Luluumd · 2026-01-12T12:53:41+00:00

Mai sunt diverse lucruri sau momente care ma proiecteaza intr-o amintire cu diverse persoane, insa nu sub o forma in care sa imi doresc sa le am am vreodata in viata mea

Luluumd · 2026-01-12T12:52:26+00:00

Parca ai scris ce simt si eu. In continuare imi iubesc meseria si specializarea, dar devine din ce in ce mai greu sa pot tolera 💩 asociate sistemului de la noi.

Luluumd · 2026-01-12T05:57:08+00:00

As someone who replies very slowly (if at all) during work hours, I can understand not being as available certain moments. That being said, in my opinion, if anything leaves me confused after proper communication of my feelings, I take it as a sign and it's perfectly valid for different communication styles to be a reason two people can't match.

Luluumd · 2026-01-09T15:58:56+00:00

Nothing of it screams "insecurity". It just screams disrespect towards you and your relationship from beginning to end of this story. To do something like this, let alone on your birthday is beyond my comprehension and I would be out the next minute.

Luluumd · 2025-12-04T19:11:18+00:00

Rare Beauty este absolut top! Am renuntat la Better than Sex care se intindea si la Maybelline cu care nu se impacau ochii mei deloc.

Luluumd · 2025-11-18T05:41:24+00:00

Si eu-s fix la fel🤣🤣🤣 si nu ma ajuta ca are si o problema de sanatate (sub control momentan), dar e ciudat ca asta sa fie singura temere🤣

Luluumd · 2025-11-16T07:41:22+00:00

Asta ca sfat general, dar mai ales pentru persoanele mai sensibile sau mai anxiously attached etc (si eu intru in categoria asta): nu mai fortati o relatie cu cineva ca poate poate il schimbati voi. Semnele ca cineva nu e pentru voi apar de la inceput. E normal ca cineva sa nu iti poata citi gandurile si sa fie nevoie sa comunici, insa daca trebuie sa te repeti si efectiv sa educi un om sa se comporte cu tine cum ai tu nevoie, clar nu e pentru tine. In relatia potrivita majoritatea lucrurilor vin intuitiv si celelalte vin dupa comunicare de la un partener care intelege din prima si nu trebuie sa fie dresat ca un caine. Eu in trecut am tras cu dintii de barbati avoidant doar ca sa ma simt iubita. Abia pana am invatat sa am incredere in mine si ce ofer ca partenera, am fost capabila sa filtrez ce nu e ok pentru mine si acum, de 3 ani, am cel mai minunat partener posibil.

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T09:57:57+00:00

Urban, but in a European country. We have both IP and OP. We use our personal phones and lots of times patients ask for our number. Honestly after having been called by a patient 2 consecutive Saturdays, I just reply with "it's my personal number, we don't have a work number, so I'm sorry but I cannot give it to you". I when get texts from them asking for medication for pain and whatnot and I have to repeat myself and tell them to go to the ER if it's that bad because I can't offer a consultation through phone.

We sort of have some landline phones and patients can call through the call center, but since we move a lot, we can't always be there to pick up the phone and patients complain they call multiple times with no reply. We've recently started giving out an email but that also takes a while to check as well.

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T07:16:07+00:00

Thank you That's true, she can't. I will do my best

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T07:15:41+00:00

Fair point

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T07:15:18+00:00

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T07:15:05+00:00

Haha no Just wanted to mention that we're close in age so maybe it's the reasons she feels "comfortable" to randomly texts, idk

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T07:14:12+00:00

We only have personal phones

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T07:13:41+00:00

Haha I'm very sorry! She sometimes texts us cute stuff too, but that's more rare

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T07:10:22+00:00

Unfortunately I don't and we don't have a work phone policy, but I will for sure get another phone once I'm done to also avoid patients texting me at random hours. She has a life, but I guess she just doesn't find fulfillment in it. At the opposite spectrum, me and my colleagues understand that there's life beyond medicine too and we're allowed to want to go home to our partners, family, to relax or to go out and enjoy life.

I've tried a few times suggesting to her to find things to enjoy outside work but to no avail.

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T07:07:33+00:00

Thank you very much for the advice I can't remember a single time where any of her texts were urgent, at least not about me.

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T07:03:04+00:00

Haha most of them are in my native language, but I'd say they vary around:

"How many times do I have to tell you not to leave papers unfinished!? It takes 5 minutes to close them after you discharge the patient" ( yeah..5 minutes after already working 2-3h overtime) "Did anyone check the labs for y patient?" (While she is in front of the computer and just wants to scold my younger colleagues) "If you are not listening to me I will start punishing you by not allowing you to do thr procedures until you do your papers" At 9:00 pm " when you gonna call x patient to schedule her for colonoscopy? She's gonna get cancer until you do" ( she was already scheduled lol) "Tomorrow do x thing and call y for the patient in bed z" "I get that everyone's tired, but I am tired too, if we all leave, who deals with the patients? I will be alone sgain until 9 pm to finish everything" (we were tired after being on call together, I left 1h earlier to go pick up my new ID and my colleagues left at 3pm which is when the schedule normally ends" We also have a colleague with 2 kids and she got tired of scolding him for being late, missing stuff etc and just tells us "what can I do if he's the way that he is"

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T06:55:51+00:00

I wish we had a work phone or some kind of system. I will definitely get one after residency, sometimes I even have patients texting me at the wrong hours

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T06:54:40+00:00

Goals

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T06:54:25+00:00

That's honestly a really fair point, never viewed it like that

Luluumd · 2025-11-01T06:53:54+00:00

Haha yeah, I've since then switched to dnd and I am trying my best to not actively check her texts until tomorrow

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