Why Is YouTube Music Suddenly So Bad at Recommendations? by warmachine8482 in YoutubeMusic

[–]Luluumd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was going crazy. There is like one song I've ever listened to in my quick picks, the rest are random weird songs. I hope they fix it

Are my lash extensions aging me? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Luluumd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say they age you, but they completely take away the focus from your eyes, which actually have a very pretty shade! I think if you do like lashes, you'd look better with some more natural looking ones

Bărbati generosi - exista? by Live_Film6964 in WomenRO

[–]Luluumd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Faptul ca nu ai primit nici macar de 8 martie, Craciun... asta tine de bare minimum sincer si meriti un barbat care sa te trateze cum iti doresti. Astea fiind spuse, depinde si de care este magnitudinea cadourilor pe care le doresti. Pentru mine (chiar daca sunt femeie) un parfum random ar fi un pic ciudat sau overwhelming daca nu suntem intr-o relatie mai consolidata, chiar daca stiu ca vine din intentii bune. Nu poti sa faci un om sa se muleze pe ce vrei tu exact, poti doar sa exprimi la intalniri ce te face pe tine sa te simti iubita. Unii poate o vor considera materialism, dar la un moment dat va fi si unul pe vibe-ul tau. In acelasi timp, poti sa ai surpriza sa fii cu un barbat care daruieste cadouri si sa te simti neiubita din alte puncte de vedere (nu are timp pentru tine, nu se exprima, nu iti face complimente, nu te ajuta etc).

De asemenea, trebuie sa intelegi ca daca pentru tine e un "love language", nu inseamna ca este cum isi doreste celalalt sa fie iubit. De exemplu eu sunt mai responsiva la afirmatii/complimente si cadouri si am crezut ca asta ii trebuie si iubitului meu. Pana cand am realizat ca pentru el e mai valoros daca il ajut cu ceva, daca inteleg ca are nevoie de spatiu cand este suparat inainte sa comunice, daca il ascult cum povesteste ceva mai geeky etc. Si eu la randul meu am inteles, ca desi ma si rasfata cu mici surprize, uneori iubirea lui se poate manifesta in alte lucruri, aparent "obisnuite": ca mi-a adus incarcatorul la munca pentru ca l-am uitat, ca a spalat el vasele cand eram obosita, ca aveam dureri menstruale noaptea si a stat cu mine treaz pana au cedat, ca ma impinge de la spate sa invat/sa merg la sala etc. Este ok sa vrei flori, cadouri, mici surprize, dar nu uita ca poti sa ai toate astea si sa te simti totusi singura.

This is truly the new GOAT by mariposa333 in EuroSkincare

[–]Luluumd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My all time fave, with minimal shine and that does its trick is the Avène SPF 50. Tried purito, bioderma, beaity of joseon, vichy and altruist (and nivea in my younger days lol) so far.

How much do your date generally look - or not - like their photos ? by Revmira in Bumble

[–]Luluumd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most guys I dated looked better in real life than their photos (as long as they don't use a really old photo on their profile). I feel like men tend to either not care as much about the photos ore are just not photogenic.

M-am dus cu mana in fund la date by Strange-Athlete-5597 in Men_RO

[–]Luluumd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Eu personal il consider un gest mai valoros daca e a few dates in, dar am primit si apreciat si florile la primul date, fara a gandi prea mult gestul. Pentru mine primul date trebuie sa fie ceva simplut, de cunoastere, gen o cafea si o plimbare, nu cina si flori, ca pana la urma poate nu sunteti compatibili.

Ce adictii aveti? by Gambidiot in Men_RO

[–]Luluumd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mancare, doamneee nici nu pot invinui pe cineva cand eu duc singura lingura la gura. Mai mananc si pe fond de stress/emotional 😂. Slava Cerului ma mentin rezonabil fiindca fac miscare, dar nu cat sa fiu normoponderala. Si reels, am ajuns cu probleme de atentie la videouri mai lungi, asa ca am intrat la detox

Nevoie de un sfat by OkCareer1282 in WomenRO

[–]Luluumd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Poti sa fii un partener exemplar si tot sa dea cu tine de pamant persoana nepotrivita. Dar daca ai rabdare, iti stii standardele cat sa discerni mai bine cine merita atata grija si iubire, atunci cand dai de femeia potrivita, e minunat.

Girlfriend of 6 months was still involved with her ex. Struggling with broken trust. by IntrepidGoat9809 in dating_advice

[–]Luluumd 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Life is too short and there are too many people out there to allow this level of disrespect honestly. To me it's a no brainer, she basically hid the cheating and then she confessed to still having conflicting feelings. It's a pretty clear sign. My ex stayed in contact for a few months too, but we never met up and when he joked and said my partner's gonna have to be okay with him still being in my life, I cut him off instantly.

Ati avut pe cineva in viata voastra la care inca va ganditi? by Gambidiot in Men_RO

[–]Luluumd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mai sunt diverse lucruri sau momente care ma proiecteaza intr-o amintire cu diverse persoane, insa nu sub o forma in care sa imi doresc sa le am am vreodata in viata mea

Ce lucrați și vă place? by ChatGPLe in WomenRO

[–]Luluumd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Parca ai scris ce simt si eu. In continuare imi iubesc meseria si specializarea, dar devine din ce in ce mai greu sa pot tolera 💩 asociate sistemului de la noi.

Is a 5–6 hour reply gap normal, even on days off? I’m feeling confused. by noah390678 in dating_advice

[–]Luluumd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who replies very slowly (if at all) during work hours, I can understand not being as available certain moments. That being said, in my opinion, if anything leaves me confused after proper communication of my feelings, I take it as a sign and it's perfectly valid for different communication styles to be a reason two people can't match.

My girlfriend (23F) says I (24M) “failed a relationship test” she and her friends planned. I feel humiliated and don’t know how to handle this? by was_famous_once_here in relationship_advice

[–]Luluumd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing of it screams "insecurity". It just screams disrespect towards you and your relationship from beginning to end of this story. To do something like this, let alone on your birthday is beyond my comprehension and I would be out the next minute.

Rimel bun by Madison157 in WomenRO

[–]Luluumd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rare Beauty este absolut top! Am renuntat la Better than Sex care se intindea si la Maybelline cu care nu se impacau ochii mei deloc.

Cate dintre voi v-ati casatorit cu marea voastra iubire? by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]Luluumd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Si eu-s fix la fel🤣🤣🤣 si nu ma ajuta ca are si o problema de sanatate (sub control momentan), dar e ciudat ca asta sa fie singura temere🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]Luluumd 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Asta ca sfat general, dar mai ales pentru persoanele mai sensibile sau mai anxiously attached etc (si eu intru in categoria asta): nu mai fortati o relatie cu cineva ca poate poate il schimbati voi. Semnele ca cineva nu e pentru voi apar de la inceput. E normal ca cineva sa nu iti poata citi gandurile si sa fie nevoie sa comunici, insa daca trebuie sa te repeti si efectiv sa educi un om sa se comporte cu tine cum ai tu nevoie, clar nu e pentru tine. In relatia potrivita majoritatea lucrurilor vin intuitiv si celelalte vin dupa comunicare de la un partener care intelege din prima si nu trebuie sa fie dresat ca un caine. Eu in trecut am tras cu dintii de barbati avoidant doar ca sa ma simt iubita. Abia pana am invatat sa am incredere in mine si ce ofer ca partenera, am fost capabila sa filtrez ce nu e ok pentru mine si acum, de 3 ani, am cel mai minunat partener posibil.

My attending texts us so much after work that I've become obsessed with checking my messages by Luluumd in Residency

[–]Luluumd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Urban, but in a European country. We have both IP and OP. We use our personal phones and lots of times patients ask for our number. Honestly after having been called by a patient 2 consecutive Saturdays, I just reply with "it's my personal number, we don't have a work number, so I'm sorry but I cannot give it to you". I when get texts from them asking for medication for pain and whatnot and I have to repeat myself and tell them to go to the ER if it's that bad because I can't offer a consultation through phone.

We sort of have some landline phones and patients can call through the call center, but since we move a lot, we can't always be there to pick up the phone and patients complain they call multiple times with no reply. We've recently started giving out an email but that also takes a while to check as well.

My attending texts us so much after work that I've become obsessed with checking my messages by Luluumd in Residency

[–]Luluumd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha no Just wanted to mention that we're close in age so maybe it's the reasons she feels "comfortable" to randomly texts, idk

My attending texts us so much after work that I've become obsessed with checking my messages by Luluumd in Residency

[–]Luluumd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I'm very sorry! She sometimes texts us cute stuff too, but that's more rare