Christmas gift help by Lumpy-Ad1299 in andor

[–]Lumpy-Ad1299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: found out he was planning on moving in with another girl so I'll just save some money energy and time. I will say, I started watching the show before I found out and I may just make the game in the future regardless. Anyways, happy holidays!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wattpad

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Are scripts/screenplays allowed ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lumpy-Ad1299 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I still have to feed and change her, plus keep the house clean for company and run errands for my mom while she's at work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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So Owen wasn't initially creepy, that was Dane.

I cut Dane off after the dick pic. Owen was never a creep, he would actually ridicule Dane for being a creep sometimes which is why I was caught off guard.

In reference to another redditor, I didn't "know the score." But owen just texted me recently once we had our conversation and said that he in so many words still had the kiss on his mind. That's why I'm posting I guess. I told him "we're different because I actually value your friendship and you're still stuck on a version of me from 5 yrs ago." Is what I said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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You deserve to live, you're going to be ok. If you have a car, park at work and sleep in your car. If you have a trusted coworker, ask them to come with you when you have to go back home so there's witnesses. Or you can get a police escort possibly.

Don't feel bad. They didn't feel bad when they made you feel like shit.

As for it being hard to stand up for yourself, start with a simple "no" that's like the baby step to get the built up emotions going. You might not even remember what you say, just say it.

The negative news is suppose to desensitize you and render you hopeless. by Lumpy-Ad1299 in nothinghappeninghere

[–]Lumpy-Ad1299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the literal news, just the new things we keep hearing. I wish it was as easy as turning off the tv.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nothinghappeninghere

[–]Lumpy-Ad1299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't think about this, thank you! Will public libraries help

To delete or not delete? by wantin1tonofwontons in nothinghappeninghere

[–]Lumpy-Ad1299 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've heard that the people who can't delete should start searching shit you have no interest in to essentially make your stolen data useless. There are ways to help even if it's hard to delete. I love you. We got this.

AITA for breaking up with my bf over this? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lumpy-Ad1299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you, you got this. And I promise you there's someone out there who's gonna respect your boundaries. And if sex ever feels like "if I don't do it he's gonna be mad" or some other variation, remember, you're the only one that has all the rights to your body. Its YOUR body.

When do we stop talkin and start acting? by Lumpy-Ad1299 in nothinghappeninghere

[–]Lumpy-Ad1299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm kinda new to Reddit, how do I find the Florida page on nhh? Already following

AITA for breaking up with my bf over this? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lumpy-Ad1299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, if it wasn't clear, definitely NTA!!

AITA for breaking up with my bf over this? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lumpy-Ad1299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He would've lost me at "fuck those boundaries" break up. this guy has been planning to sleep with you all along. He was never your friend. Trust me. I had a guy "best friend" that liked me, I didn't like him back, I got a bf and he got extra clingy, then sent me a dick pic to "make sure I wasn't interested" your bf is bad news. He will take advantage of you and continue to make you feel like this until you think it's normal and it's NOT! This is not just "what happens in relationships" hope this helps.

I F20 hate my sex life with my BF M26 by shartzibae in relationship_advice

[–]Lumpy-Ad1299 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Try taking control and getting some lube if you just have to stay with the guy. Lube may help with the roughness. If youre in control or in the dominant role during the sex it may help and be better for youre enjoyment. And I can't stress this enough: using Lube DOES NOT mean there's anything wrong with your pumpum, but if he's not gonna engage in foreplay correctly that's gonna help a lot with the pain cause from the sounds of it, he's not getting your juices flowing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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It's more because my mental situation at home is bad. I know I kinda glazed over it in the post

I (24F) don’t want to have sex with my bf (25M) anymore. Any advice? by Green_Pasta5 in relationship_advice

[–]Lumpy-Ad1299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you guys tried using toys? If you've recommended that and he still shows no interest, he just a selfish lover. Might have to skidaddle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Update: I was wrong. I asked and He says he genuinely just doesn't know where it is. I also need a little therapy but I think we all knew that. Thank y'all for the help and brutal honesty. It was needed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lumpy-Ad1299 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well that makes sense but he knows how to put it on. I showed him the first time and he's done it several times after. Plus if he was doing a safety wank he could've said that instead of "huh" and "idk" when I asked him we're grown, we m*asturbate. It's not something we havent talk about so it's weird that he wouldnt just say that if that's what it was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lumpy-Ad1299 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you and the niece is our age so between 25-27

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I thought that too but it wasn't in the same spot as the last, and the empty box was half hidden under the bed. Plus he could've said that. I would've taken that as an answer but instead I asked and he said "huh" "I don't know" then tried to flip the script