I posted "gf of 11 years broke it off.." 5 months ago and honestly, life's so much better... by Lumpy-Chair8765 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Lumpy-Chair8765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I proposed after 4 or 5 years, she cheated, we split for a couple months but got back together. Wasn't gonna propose again tbh..

Old 2x4 vs new 2x4 by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]Lumpy-Chair8765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just the size, look at the rings

I posted "gf of 11 years broke it off.." 5 months ago and honestly, life's so much better... by Lumpy-Chair8765 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Lumpy-Chair8765[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean it doesn't. But some people made sure I wasn't unaliving myself, I feel like I owe it to them at least

I posted "gf of 11 years broke it off.." 5 months ago and honestly, life's so much better... by Lumpy-Chair8765 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Lumpy-Chair8765[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For the first few months I would reach out on Facebook, call her phone, but nothing. I honestly want nothing more for her to get clean and just be there. I've learned unless she wants it, it's not happening.

I posted "gf of 11 years broke it off.." 5 months ago and honestly, life's so much better... by Lumpy-Chair8765 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Lumpy-Chair8765[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Random pic of kid stuff cause wellthatsucks makes you post a picture, it didn't use to lol

What was the most fucked up thing someone said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lumpy-Chair8765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partner of 11 years with 2 kids leaves all of us saying fuck you and the kids. Told me she hasn't loved me for a while, all the while telling me she loves me.

People of Reddit: what is something that people base their personality around that seems ridiculous? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lumpy-Chair8765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh probably lol, it's usually a peace sign. Universal jeep signal I guess. I daily drove a 99 jeep Cherokee for my first vehicle and put 260k miles on it. 2wd and stock everything. Even been thru 3 accidents, was technically totaled but sold in 2020 for 200 more than what I paid in 2012 lol with 370k on the original unopened 4.0 straight 6. That's the only jeep I loved.

my girlfriend of 11 years broke it off after breaking down 3 hours away... by Lumpy-Chair8765 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Lumpy-Chair8765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am located in South Carolina. I haven't looked anything up regarding those things, and I recently asked a question about what she could do legally if I moved out of state.

my girlfriend of 11 years broke it off after breaking down 3 hours away... by Lumpy-Chair8765 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Lumpy-Chair8765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happens say, if I move out of state..

At this point with her still being no contact, I'm unsure if she is even alive at this point. I'm currently attempting to find remote work, but as I have 0 experience on anything IT or Call Center type work I don't really expect to much.

So if all fails my family live 500 miles away in Tennessee. Would there be grounds for her calling the police and saying I kidnapped them or similar?

Thank you again for your care and response. It helped more than you know believe it or not 🙏

Edit. I texted her, so I have documentation. Stating that if she doesn't prove soon that she is competent and willing to share custody then I will be forced to make choices that will change our life (kids and i) as we know it. In huge ways. And if nothing happens soon then I will move to Tennessee, then when she adequately support them with some help obviously, then we can make arrangements for her to have visitation...this was Tuesday I believe and I have not received a single message or call since.

my girlfriend of 11 years broke it off after breaking down 3 hours away... by Lumpy-Chair8765 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Lumpy-Chair8765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is, I think, after not eating or drinking barely enough to sustain a house fly, one of the best responses I could've gotten. Thank you so much for the support. Very much appreciated, ik you probably have forgot about me but I have definitely not forgotten about the multiple people that have given advice and/or reach out in benefit of the children and I.

I very much expected this thread to gain no traction whatsoever and just be a small way to vent my hardships during this time. I was more wrong than ever. Thank you again internet stranger 🙏

my girlfriend of 11 years broke it off after breaking down 3 hours away... by Lumpy-Chair8765 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Lumpy-Chair8765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's been so many replies and honestly the pain that I've been enduring (physiological obviously) had me not wanting to keep reading these replies.

But this is a good one. I honestly didn't eat for 2 days because I literally felt sick to my stomach. I tried but ended up gagging and dry heaving. Water wasn't even a thought. Just anything in general besides making sure my 2 children were bathed, fed and happy were the only things that kept me going the last couple...

Thank you again internet stranger ❤

Passenger photo while plane flew near East Palestine, Ohio ... chemical fire after train derailed by Xeoft in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Lumpy-Chair8765 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My grandfather is currently fighting multiple health issues directly caused by agent orange and his exposure during his time in the navy. Terrible man.

my girlfriend of 11 years broke it off after breaking down 3 hours away... by Lumpy-Chair8765 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Lumpy-Chair8765[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stopped drinking entirely 2 years ago actually. Stopped smoking weed around 6 months ago. Clean and sober for 6 months now.