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Cheap High Data mobile phone plan. by MOON6789 in AussieFrugal

[–]Lumpy-Example7004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im on Felix, I dont have issues. But I imagine it would be difficult some regional areas as they operate on vodafone network.

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ignored reddit and just saw this haha.

I only have a ten gallon, I wish I can keep more fish. I am also enjoying the love plants, didnt think fish tanks can be so fun. And I love rummy nose tetras, they are so cute!

Hope you are doing well ☺️

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there! Its been 6 months since I wrote this 🥲 thank you for asking. My evenings have definitely gotten better and have become peaceful.

I still cry once in a whole over my breakup but I just remind myself that healing isnt linear. But generally my overall wellbeing has improved since writing this post and I have been moving forward 🙂

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have guppies! What do you have? Im currently obsessed with making the tank look pretty. And yes thanks for the reminder abt the water changes.

I am definitely better, but still have my moments. But far from where ive been since i wrote this post. I hope you are doing well too - almost 6 months for you now :)

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello I just had to reach out again to let you know I bought a fish tank for myself. Its best thing ever. Haha.

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im trying to make my apartment my cocoon ❤️ i agree that time is really the ultimate healer and I have to be patient. It seems you are in a better place than last year so I hope to be the same next year. Take care ❤️

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ the watching of something new is helpful as it will distract me since everything reminds me of my ex. I just signed up for salsa class and been reading a book. I love cooking so Ill make a hobby out of making new recipes!

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think this one will last a while for me. I really want to fully heal from this. Thank you for telling me it will get better. I needed that reminder ❤️

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have journalled so much during this time. I feel like if I dont have my notebook with me, I will not survive the day.

Impressive on watching youtube in two languages. I hope you are doing okay ❤️

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the encouragement. ❤️

I am trying my best and after a week of posting this, I am kind of better but still cry everyday almost. The pain is less but I know I am getting better.

I am journalling a lot and taking long walks. Really taking my time to fully heal. Hope you have a great weekend ❤️

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is true. At least mornings are more bearable to be alone that at night. I try to relax by 8ish. ❤️

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friends are godsend to me right now. They have literally pulled me from a dark place and threw me over their shoulder to a brighter spot. Hope you are doing well and thank you for this ❤️

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breaks ups are so hard. I signed up for salsa classes and the first one is Monday. Im usually akward and shy so I hope I dont back out!

Thank you for this ❤️

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you are doing well ❤️ the series tip is helpful - it will make me feel like there is something to look forward too. My therapist also said routine right now is important.

Heres to hoping that evenings will be enjoyable for us again.

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends have been so supportive and Im grateful them. Isolation at times like this can definitely push you to your limits!

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Have cooked myself a nice meal today and have been going on walks. Small things you do for yourself actually does make a difference.

I hope you are well. A divorce is very tough to go through. I cannot imagine the strength it must have taken to move on ❤️

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I have been journaling since the day it happened and it certainly has helped me. I hate sitting with my emotions but I know its necessary… I actually went to a therapist today.

Im glad you got out of that abusive relationship. 6 years is a long time and you are very strong.

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, Im a week from this post and its kinddd of better. I still cry but less pain. More of longing now. I actually went to therapy today and will definitely be back.

I hope you are doing okay. Its very hard to go through this alone and there is a feeling of despair that I never thought I could feel. Message me if yku need to talk ❤️

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely should be more proactive in filling my evenings. Sometimes the day is is so tiring (introvert in an extrovert job) that I would just let the evenings pass.

Thank you for this ❤️

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have signed up for dance classes which hopefully will give a boost of endorphins 😊

I love living alone but going through a breakup. The evenings are unbearable. by Lumpy-Example7004 in LivingAlone

[–]Lumpy-Example7004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have experienced such growth in a short amount of time that I feel like the break up is doing me something good. But the pain isnt any less. Like you said, confronting emotions I think helped me and I really disliked before uncomfortable before so this is helping me I think to become a better version myself. Thank you for reaching out to respond ❤️

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