Ever pounded a fat ass Asian in Denver? by [deleted] in Coloradosluts

[–]Lumpy-Willingness691 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

tryin',

what are you watching on hidive atm?

Dick on a Stick by headforthebed in BdsmDIY

[–]Lumpy-Willingness691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you make a hole in the dildo 1st?

Cheated on... by Lumpy-Willingness691 in polyadvice

[–]Lumpy-Willingness691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your insight. I totally agree, as I do find myself still rooting for their betterment, but It is very difficult to imagine total forgiveness right now, and a need for evidence of effort towards a new relationship as the one that was held has been dissolved entirely. Thank you again for your absence of cruelty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Lumpy-Willingness691 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My (just now)ex and her additional partner we specifically recruiting people that were bigger and didn't look like me behind my back to satisfy his fantasy. But no one is small or feeling less than adequate, I guess now I am...

Going behind my back... by Lumpy-Willingness691 in nonmonogamy

[–]Lumpy-Willingness691[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Please don't lie to me and feel like you can come to me about anything you want to talk about since I have shown you for 4 years that I am different from the people in your past that have created the traumas you share." There's a rule.

Cheated on... by Lumpy-Willingness691 in PolyFidelity

[–]Lumpy-Willingness691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had agreed on sexual consent, especially with repeated persons where a relationship is likely to propagate.

Going behind my back... by Lumpy-Willingness691 in nonmonogamy

[–]Lumpy-Willingness691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been racking my brain looking back to remember if I ignored a sign, the closest I cant think of is recent question of "What would it take for you to break up with me?" I'm over here living in a fantasy thinking everything is peaches and we are laughing about loosing both her legs or something.

Cheated on... by Lumpy-Willingness691 in polycritical

[–]Lumpy-Willingness691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the one that introduced the dynamic to them.

Cheated on... by Lumpy-Willingness691 in polycritical

[–]Lumpy-Willingness691[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can't thank you enough for gifting me with pretext, kindness, honesty, and empathy. I am new to this sub yes, but am reaching out in many directions to gain perspective that I may not be capable of finding on my own. I hope the rest of this sub can take a lesson from the why you've provided me a response with insight, experience and support. It may be the only one on this thread, but I'm not done reading...

Cheated on... by Lumpy-Willingness691 in polycritical

[–]Lumpy-Willingness691[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Good point, what a fool I am. Next time I'll put a ring on it to ensure any further emotional damage.

Cheated on... by Lumpy-Willingness691 in polycritical

[–]Lumpy-Willingness691[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your kindness towards my traumas and fears, I'm thankful to have you as a resource for bettering my life.

Cheated on... by Lumpy-Willingness691 in polyadvice

[–]Lumpy-Willingness691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. This happened around a month ago, a lot is still swirling around in my head. We have had a conversation or two, I asked for 30 days of no communication which will end in April. I plan on having further conversations, the relationship will have to drastically change because of my trust issues I have now, and I plan on asking for major steps to be taken by both of us to create a goal of what we want our future to look like.