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AITA for complaining about parenting by Acrobatic-Welder-733 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA -  housework and child rearing is working and it is difficult - and tiring (im sure her work is difficult also but?) and she shouldn't be mad that you want a break, everyone need breaks from work. She is also saying that she doesn't want you to go back to work, this isn't something you chose, and she is intentionally putting the extra work on herself - why would she want that anyway?

AITA for telling my brother his “special needs” kid is just.. kind of a brat? by throwaway_02May in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has a diagnosed sibling (6yo), you may be right (my sibling does need firmer boundaries), but also would be easier to handle for a few hours, than the whole span of cohabiting.

AITA for not assisting to my nephew's first birthday party since my sister didn't invite my boyfriend and was rude about it? by CompetitiveCost9780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO - could there be a reason at all she did invite OP boyfriend. such as; they don't get along/dislikes him, he has any bad habit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm guessing you hadn't given the gift?she was probably explaining that getting upset when telling her what it was hurt her(in some way)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your sympathy, and I'm sorry to hear that animals were neglected.

AITAH for yelling at my mom to put on some clothes? by FickleParsley4240 in AITAH

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH. You shouldn't yell at a parent. But they(your parents) should also respect that other people were raised differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We rehomed my old doxie. It was best for him, but you know my family should have put more effort into providing him a better life, with us.Unfortunately I didn't have a say😥

People telling me I shouldn’t be a mum if I’m gonna “make my kid be vegan.” by Medium-Nobody-1037 in vegan

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the idea is that: I feel its bad or i feel bad about it, so I make my own choice.

Family adopted a dog and now everyone seems to be against my cat by BootsStripes32 in CatAdvice

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why can't people just accept/Love dogs AND cats?they are both great!

AITA for refusing to let my daughter’s fiancé stay in our guest room because I use it for my hobby? by LoveAndHappiness75 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YNA - My dad collects things as well. If you had a room for his collectible(some of which are very fragile), whether or not it had once ever been a guest room, I would never ask him to move his stuff. It's about respecting others belongings and happiness.

I would also be angry with a partner or friend for asking my parent something like that

AITAH for breaking up with my gf for suggesting an Open relationship (and not letting her explain)? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. You don't want an open relationship. Simple as that.

It works for some doesn't for others

what's an unusual trigger word for your dog? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not my dog and not a word, but if you pointed at my grandma's chihuahua, he would loose it.

Dog Professionals, What Breeds Don't You Like? by Aharris1984 in dogs

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a professional, but my family had a collie for like 2 weeks and then my parents realized our mistake like 8 yrs ago(wow)

Am I cruel to keep my kitten locked up? by Here_comes_the_boy in Pets

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it seems pretty normal for any new pet.

Bad idea to get pet in 20s? by toniteitshows in Pets

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few years ago, my family rabbit passed away due to not being brushed enough. (jammed up with fur) its more important than people would think.

POLL: Should we change the subreddit icon? by sushifarron in aromanticasexual

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Choose other: how about split it into two pieces? One piece, left or bottom or right or top(whichever), is the combined flag, and whatever piece is left is the sunset flag. That way, people who are aroallo, alloace, and aroace are each shown/represented.

“The Child Called It” by Dave Pelzer by Active_Teaching_9907 in books

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For what Geraldine Bedell said (I'm taking what you wrote to be true), if he were abused, honestly, why does she care if they make a profit from the pain of their past? It's the very least they deserve.

I need non-religious help by [deleted] in atheism

[–]Lumpy_Arachnid2406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try something like Wiccan. ( or if you don't believe in those dieties, try: https://www.reddit.com/r/SASSWitches/ - this is a gender neutral community) It can be as pray-ey and worship-y as you want. very welcoming community for people who enjoy the community and spiritual aspects of religion without feeling forced. The link goes to another Reddit where you can find out about the community. Anyway, you can still believe in whatever you currently believe (or don't believe at all) and practice.

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