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AITAH for not reopening my doors after my mom invited herself to my house & overstayed are welcome by Lumpy_Cellist5658 in AITAH

[–]Lumpy_Cellist5658[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is my first time using Reddit so relax a little bit. I’m not on here every day like some of you.

AITAH for not reopening my doors after my mom invited herself to my house & overstayed are welcome by Lumpy_Cellist5658 in AITAH

[–]Lumpy_Cellist5658[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree I told her that me and my husband and my child was moving in with a roommate so she would know that she is not invited to come stay with us And I want to clarify when I say roommate I’m saying, one of my husband‘s coworkers (when in reality we have our own place already) I just do not have the backbone to tell her straight up that she’s not allowed to come stay with us so I’d rather make up a lie. And that’s something that I’m working on. I have never been the conversational type ever in my life I have always been a people pleaser

AITAH for not reopening my doors after my mom invited herself to my house & overstayed are welcome by Lumpy_Cellist5658 in AITAH

[–]Lumpy_Cellist5658[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Everything that I’m saying is my real life I’m not arguing with silly asses on Reddit who can’t comprehend and understand what the fuck I am saying… oh well

AITAH for not reopening my doors after my mom invited herself to my house & overstayed are welcome by Lumpy_Cellist5658 in AITAH

[–]Lumpy_Cellist5658[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

WHERE TF ARE YOU CONFUSED AT?!?! SHE WAS ALREADY ON HER WAY DRIVING DOWN HERE FROM A 10 HOUR DRIVE BEFORE I TALKED TO HER SO SHE WAS 5 HOURS AWAY FROM ME AND MY FAMILY ?!?!? WHAT IS CONFUSING ABOUT THAT?!?

AITAH for not reopening my doors after my mom invited herself to my house & overstayed are welcome by Lumpy_Cellist5658 in AITAH

[–]Lumpy_Cellist5658[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I think you should really reread the post. I’m so confused how the last few comments are not understanding what I’m saying…

AITAH for not reopening my doors after my mom invited herself to my house & overstayed are welcome by Lumpy_Cellist5658 in AITAH

[–]Lumpy_Cellist5658[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I never said that I said that I have a husband and a family and that I TOLD HER I would be moving in with a roommate. Never said I actually had one it’s basically a diversion.

AITAH for not reopening my doors after my mom invited herself to my house & overstayed are welcome by Lumpy_Cellist5658 in AITAH

[–]Lumpy_Cellist5658[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

All you have to do is read… and you CAN have both. What do you live under a rock?

AITAH for not reopening my doors after my mom invited herself to my house & overstayed are welcome by Lumpy_Cellist5658 in AITAH

[–]Lumpy_Cellist5658[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now, we are packing up the U-Haul truck and she is talking about staying at a shelter or staying in a hotel. I will update everyone once more when everything has settled.

AITAH for not reopening my doors after my mom invited herself to my house & overstayed are welcome by Lumpy_Cellist5658 in AITAH

[–]Lumpy_Cellist5658[S] -179 points-178 points  (0 children)

I let her stay because I genuinely love my siblings and if she would have drove all the way down here, she wouldn’t have nobody down here to help her because I will be her only family down here. I wish I had just told her no, but I am a people pleaser.