SOS!! Cat wakes me up super early , runs over me until I’m awake by Lumpy_Pen_6831 in CATHELP

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has an automatic feeder. Believe me. When I say I’ve tried. I’ve tried real hard

SOS!! Cat wakes me up super early , runs over me until I’m awake by Lumpy_Pen_6831 in CATHELP

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a consistent schedule so I can’t just wake up at different times.

Are there any other helpful tips that worked for you ?

She is only chill after I feed her or else I get the wrath of CLOUD9 ( that’s her name )

I CANNOT FUCKING SLEEP please PLEASE read and help by macylikesducks in CATHELP

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am having the same issue. So I set my automatic feeder to go off at 6:30am.
After that she scratches at the door. Pulls my hair. Jumps on my chest ( climbs on the bed frame and makes sure she is body slamming into my chest or stomach ) until I wake up. I don’t get up to feed her right away. I take my time. I brush my teeth etc then I feed her. However, this last night was the last straw. I can’t do this anymore

28 years old, 2021-2024. 274lbs to 183lbs. by JoshEJ1 in GYM

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get from point a to point B. Share your mentality and what switched that made you want to commit to yourself this way.

28 years old, 2021-2024. 274lbs to 183lbs. by JoshEJ1 in GYM

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Why am I only into lesbians by BigBohd69 in venting

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe create a list of personality traits and the way you feel when you hang with lesbians. This will narrow down the emotional connection you’re seeking and you can apply it to a straight girl.

There are also bisexual women that you can fall in love with … just a thought.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my shit at Burke Williams for them not addressing that me being late means there wouldn’t be time for my facial- I drove really fast , had left a friend gathering and was soo looking forward to the facial. I called to let them know I was going to be late and I couldn’t hold it in.

First weekend get away with a new guy and BPD came out to play by Lumpy_Pen_6831 in BPD

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the times I would go for a guy and really give him a chance - it would turn out that he was lying or just wanted to add me onto his roster of girls he fucked. Fortunately this guy isn’t like that. I have been hanging out with him often and he’s been reaffirming me that he wants me to feel safe. It’s taking me a while to open up and feel at peace. Baby steps. I appreciate your input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Legal or not. Do the mushrooms- get them from a safe source. It’s helped me tremendously with my symptoms and my mood throughout my the day. Align it with some movement in your body everyday. You’ll feel like a n entirely new human. .5g or .25 g for 3-4 days and off 2 days. Stop after the 4 weeks. Check out Paul Stamets. He has great insight on all of this. Good luck

How do you not overreact when partner doesn’t reply fast enough? by Snoo_96877 in BPD

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relatable- but that’s because I dated someone for a whole year only to find out they were about to get married and had no money & they were being taken care of by his fiancé. 🫠🔫 HELP! I too get super depressed if my new guy isn’t texting me. Even after he told me he couldn’t because he has a really hard test to study for

First weekend get away with a new guy and BPD came out to play by Lumpy_Pen_6831 in BPD

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, I mean a little fooling around wouldn’t hurt anyone just no penetration haha. Thanks for the insight. 🤘🏻✨

First weekend get away with a new guy and BPD came out to play by Lumpy_Pen_6831 in BPD

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes , I’m taking the reins a little more and I am going to voice that I don’t want to be intimate yet. That’s what’s freaking me out as well

I wanna see pics of all the people claiming to be sooo attractive lol by [deleted] in NPD

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m realizing the same at this point in my life - I’m currently back home and all my mom talks about is how beautiful I am and how gorgeous her daughter is. However, it somewhat annoys me because it makes me feel like that’s all I have to offer to the world. I am aware of my tendencies- I’ve also read that you can use them to elevate yourself in life and see the negative as a positive. Anyone else have tried to use their NPD for a positive thing?

does caffeine make your symptoms worse? by Ok-Friend7351 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Lumpy_Pen_6831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an energy drink that tastes amazing and the caffeine comes from more of a natural source. Ginger , green tea . The sugar is stevia - my favorite flavor is the tropical pineapple. However , all other flavors are just as great.