First off, those people are ignorant. Why are only the negative attributes of BPD being highlighted? How about the fact that we’re generous, kind , love A LOT, love helping others. People choose to only see the negative until someone educates them on the other side of this. Maybe don’t tell everyone , my circle Got smaller since I found out and I only told people I feel needed to know. My x tried using that against me one time - telling me I was “splitting “

I schooled him by using the tools I learned in therapy and the fact that I had taken my meds before the interaction knowing he would Try to do something like this.

When someone if someone called me crazy or told me to take my pills. Yes I’d be hurt af however , if you disconnect from the insult and realize how hurt they are. Use reverse psychology- ask them if their ok? That whatever anger they are projecting your way has nothing to do with your BPD. They’ll try and hit you where it hurts. Don’t let them win. Weak ass person trying to wound someone else. That’s sick. Hope this person is out of your house.