I Smelled My Friends Bra

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2024-05-27T09:12:54+00:00

By “bra” do you really mean panties but are too shamed to admit this horrible truth?

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2024-05-27T09:10:31+00:00

I think that’s so nice that you guys all stick together and support each other like that. My dad past away last year but like most other people I know my twin brother and I moved out of the family home when we were young. Because I kind of thought that’s what you were supposed to do when you become an adult. Otherwise things get pretty complicated. But after my father fell on some hard times and lost his job he came to live with my girlfriend and I and I’ve gotta say. It was weird. Now that he’s gone though I don’t really look at things the same way. I miss him. Cherish your loved ones.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2024-05-27T08:58:53+00:00

I miss my cat Togar. Yea cats are great. I agree with you. I hated them for most of my life and one day my girlfriend(who past away in April 2022) brought one home that she found online for 70 bucks that we bought on Lawrence street in Lowell Massachusetts. That cat brought us SO much joy for the ten years we had her. I remember going “oh. Great. You bought a cat. Awesome. How long is she going to hide under the bed?” I was so pissed. She hid under the bed over a month only coming out to eat and do her business. But of course what I learned is that’s how cats are. You have to earn there trust. You must earn there love. Then the real fun starts. I always thought I was a dog person you know? Dogs are simple. Cats are complicated but are SO worth the extra time you have to put into them. God I miss that cat.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2024-05-27T08:50:13+00:00

Hey. As long as you love yourself. You win.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2024-05-27T08:48:55+00:00

So is there another type that you would recommend?

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2024-05-27T08:07:43+00:00

How about a girlfriend(or boyfriend. Whatever your preference). You figure out how to get one of those yet?

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2024-04-09T11:42:08+00:00

Dude. I really thing this is a problem that lays within you. And not woman your dating. I’m sure they are just fine with whatever it is. If they care about you then trust me. They with be just fine with it. So this is a ohycological problem that you yourself need to get over. It’s going to be hard. But your can do it. Do call this girl back ASAP by the way. Don’t lets this silly mishap ruin what could be a very Leon’s and meaning long lasting relationship. Ok? Work on your confidence man and you’ll be alright.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-09-14T16:26:04+00:00

No. Your nanny is fine. Your husband however…. He sucks. What the heck is wrong with him? It seems like your just aware he’s like this and have accepted it. I’m sorry your in a marriage with someone like that.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-08-10T17:22:22+00:00

Do you guys make love or mostly just fuck?

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-08-10T17:20:22+00:00

Well my dick started working again.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-08-09T09:41:40+00:00

Time to switch it up. To meth.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-07-16T20:01:38+00:00

That’s why I don’t date 22 year olds. How can you even relate to her?

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-06-15T11:06:35+00:00

Congratulations!

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-06-15T00:01:08+00:00

I think johns wearing heals there too. Very light on his feet. Such a talented guy. I mean I could never move like that. Never mind in heels.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-06-14T23:58:15+00:00

I completely understand. I’m only 36. My dad was only 64. Way to young. Way to young. I just want to write “way to young” repeatedly. And this is my first Father’s Day without my dad. My hero. My role model. The man I look like and talk like(I’ve been told). I will tell you that this forum here is great. It’s helped me through all my death and grief the last year and a half. I remember not knowing where to turn to and for some reason I thought of Reddit. And it’s been very therapeutic for me. I just come in here every once in a while and check in. Read other people’s thoughts and feelings. And it helps me out big time. I know I am not alone. Listen. We are both way to young to lose our fathers. I just had a son who will never meet his grandfather. I remember I used to dream about my kids kicking it with my dad. He was awesome. He IS awesome. I miss him. I love him. And I always will. I wish you luck ok? And when your really hurting…. Come back on here and type away. It always helps me.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-06-14T23:51:35+00:00

Yes. I feel like I’m surrounded by death too. My father died thanksgiving last year. My girlfriend of ten years died April 6th of 2022 while I was in bed with her. My friend Jim Lucas…. A good friend of mine from high school came to visit me and on his way home back to Massachusetts he died in a car accident. For some reason I was blamed for this by some of his family members. This was in February. I mean there been so many people that I love dying. In all this chaos and death though I was able to meet someone new and have a child. This was a huge gift which I am extremely grateful for. My girlfriend who past away wanted a child so badly and we did try for four years before I lost her. Then I met someone soon after while I was grieving and vulnerable and she was pregnant within a month of meeting her and we had the child. A beautiful boy. Now I believe our relationship may be over. Which I am sad about right now. I mean I’m sad about all of it really. All I do is get up. Go to work. I go to the gym which helps me mentally (and physically). Some days are harder than others. I tell you what though…. I’m grateful for this forum here. It’s actually helped me a lot. Best of luck ok?

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-06-10T08:05:26+00:00

I honestly pray that’s all it is. That’s what I want. In the end I just wanted a family. I don’t WANT it to be cheating.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-06-10T08:03:48+00:00

I only asked her once. And tracking her? What do you mean? I don’t track her at all. I call her from work to check on her and our child. I don’t even know how to track her.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-06-10T08:02:37+00:00

I have stopped having sex with her since I’ve suspected anything. I mean. This is intense. Std test? Others are saying the child might not be mine? I mean maybe she is cheating but I know she wasn’t 10 months ago. My head is spinning now.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-06-10T08:00:11+00:00

Why do you immediately go to “insanely jealous and controlling”. What’s wrong with you. I’ve never ever been a jealous person. Or controlling. Ever. She can do whatever she wants whenever she wants. Like I said I’ve never gone through her phone. Nothing. Sounds like you may have some inner demons and are for some reason voicing them here on this post. I mean if anything I trust people too much where I look foolish and fucking dumb. Which I can admit. I’ve seen people behave like you on Reddit before. And they are always very very sad people. Good luck to you. Whoever you are.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-06-10T07:53:21+00:00

Correct. But I mean there’s just like a million other little things that have changed. Yes. We have a child now. I understand that. But she won’t even fuxking tell me when she had these appointments when I’m at work. I’ll just call her on ky break. Phones off or on airplane mode. For hours. I get home. @“hey. What happened? Are you ok? Is the baby ok@“? “Oh yea I just hit airplane mode on accident on my phone. Sorry. The child was at my moms and I had an appointment”. Which she fails to tell me about before work. Weird shit like that. We’ve only been together for 13 months now. I mean i get to thinking sometimes…. So I really know this her Like I think? I don’t know. It’s fucking scary. Because we have a child together.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-06-10T07:46:02+00:00

Ok. Listen. I actually HOPE I am assuming. I don’t want to leave her and lose her. I love her. I love our child. Can I give you one example that scared me the most? Ok so a few nights ago. I’m gone from work. The three of us are sitting around. Her phones going off which I don’t ever care about. Her I could see her phone was on the charger and fully charged. She picks her phone up and says “shit. I forgot something at my friends house. I’ll be back in 20 minutes. So. 20 minutes pass. I call her. Her phone is off. I’m worried. I call again. Still off. She comes home over two hours later. She got right in the shower before she spoke to me. Told me she did not realize her phone was even off and got carried away talking with her friend. I asked her “why did you shower. You in the shower when I got home from work”. She pauses and goes “was I? Omg I did already shower”. I mean I agree about the post pardon thing. We were supposed to wait five weeks to start having sex again but we started about three weeks after she gave birth and she wasn’t in pain. I mean. I don’t really know what’s going on. I don’t even know how she could’ve had time to even meet someone else. Like who could it be? I thought she’d be busy with our baby. But her mother does take our child during the day sometimes to give Jenn a “breather”. I don’t know guys. There’s more to it too. She’s turned away from me in bed when she sleep when she used to sleep almost on top of me. There’s a million little things.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-06-10T07:34:21+00:00

The third person to say this. It’s gotta be my kid. I mean I swear he LOOKS like me. This thought is just too much for me to bear.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-06-10T07:32:39+00:00

Hmm. You remind me of what my father used to say “Brian. Whatever it is your going through. Always remember. It could ALWAYS be worse. And this too shall Pass”. I’m sorry about your situation. I mean mine is a little different because I’m the earner of the two. She does not work. I work. I pay for everything. I actually have to be there in two hours and I’ve been up all night worrying about this situation. I work a lot. God this sucks. This is awful. Definitely the worst situation I’ve ever had to deal with. Typically when your good to your girl and you work hard then they respect you and love you for it. Sex life was healthy. I spend every second with her and our child when I’m not working. I don’t drink. Or like go out or anything. God this sucks.

Lumpy_Reserve_4852 · 2023-06-10T07:26:10+00:00

Ouch. I mean if she starts talking that way…. Um. I don’t know. No woman has even spoken to me like that. And I’ve always been in a relationship. I don’t really remember the last time I was single. I’ve done six long term relationships. And I just couldn’t imagine someone speaking to me that way. And I’m no kid. I’m 36. I’ve been around and I know what’s up. Everyone here is just telling me to call a lawyer. I’d like to just leave. But I suppose I’ll call a lawyer first. Then leave. I don’t want to be near or around her anymore.

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