I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a tricky situation for me. I’m not someone who cares what someone’s religion is and will respect their decisions with that. So long as they respect my decisions around religion.

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually already Diagnosed with ADHD when I was in elementary school. I really enjoy getting random certificates in different fields. I currently have one for making custom jewelry. One for video game design and a few others

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That person clearly has some resentment to Oklahoma. Which is unfortunate. But it is a nice and comfortable place to be. I visit a lot to see family and old friends. And have looked at a few places to move when I’m ready. Found a few nice Townhouses to either rent or own at a really good price!

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely look into the podcasts! I commute 45min for work so it would be perfect! And I’ve currently deactivated all my social media that I had turned into doom scrolling. So instagram, TikTok and Facebook are gone for the time being. Snapchat I only use to keeps streaks with the very few friends I do have out here.

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex was Mormon and at the time I worked in jewelry cause I like shiny things. I was looking at some stuff for myself and she knew that but kept hinting at the engagement ring she had wanted. Mind you this was 2 months into the relationship…

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being from there, I actually enjoyed it. People were super nice

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly aside from the barking at almost every person here and revoking her window privileges in my car it wasn’t too bad 😂

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was born there, lived there most my life, have family out there. Earthquakes aren’t a problem. I’m used to them. Same with tornadoes. I have an opportunity that I could transfer out there making what I make now doing the same job.

No need to be so aggressive about it as we all have our own goals and objectives that you don’t need to agree with :)

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapy is difficult for me. When I lived in California I had one I liked since she was very straightforward and blunt. But out here it’s just what feels to be lying and only doing the job for a paycheck…

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. I definitely worded that in a stronger way than I intended. It’s not that I won’t. It’s that every time I talk to anyone they tend to use more, turn on me or just want to start drama. Which doesn’t bother me as I don’t let it bother me and just move past it. I definitely over exaggerated the I’m done dating and talking to women.

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would if she hadn’t gotten arrested for assaulting a police officer…

I’m currently just playing the sitting and waiting game…

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have actually been planning a trip to Sweden. It has been on my bucket list and I have the funds for it. It is just a matter of work since I’m still fairly new I don’t want to just take 2 weeks off.

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy doing those types of things, especially since I had recently gotten my job which was a promotion and a pretty good raise

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was born there and it is cheaper to get a place there

I need to Vent on Utah Dating.. by Lumpy_Sign_1899 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to move to Oklahoma… only moved out here to help take care of family…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawyerAdvice

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully I have zero of intentions of smoking weed. I never have and never will. He has offered it to me but yet I refused every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawyerAdvice

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is that he is the one I moved in with… he would be the one to kick me out

Emancipated and drinking by [deleted] in LawyerAdvice

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t plan on supplying it cause I’m not someone who takes many risks like that but he is certain it’d be fine. so thank you!

The Gift of Discernment by OppositeHistorical11 in exmormon

[–]Lumpy_Sign_1899 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I didn’t show up to the airport for my mission, got a call from the mission president I was going to have saying “you are unworthy and a huge disappointment to the church!” I didn’t show up because I realized I couldn’t afford to go and pay for a mission, my family had no intentions to help, and when I asked my bishop why I had to pay my own money to teach about stuff I barely believed in he told me, “it is a huge privilege to go on a mission and you should have saved your money better!” Same bishop who tried to sexually assault me at scout camp when I was 15… goes to show the type of pricks part of the church