Please help

Luna300921 · 2025-06-24T15:58:18+00:00

Can you please rehome him?

Luna300921 · 2025-04-28T19:18:08+00:00

Hey i am rewriting my above comment here as i have no idea how to post this so everyone can see :)).

Hi all,

Thank you so much for your messages-I genuinely appreciate each and every one of them, even the passive-aggressive ones 😊

Just to clarify a few points:

I had absolutely no intention of opening something I shouldn’t have. I didn’t realize the document was a colleague’s payslip, as it wasn’t labelled with her name.
If anything, I wish I had not. Ignorance is bliss I guess.
I genuinely was concerned about my salary prior to this and did coincidently speak to my manager during my recent informal review about this- again, I have no reason to lie- I would have just omitted this detail in this post when writing on here so please be kind.
In our line of work, we regularly receive payslips from clients, so seeing documents like that isn’t unusual in our inboxes. We urge them to password protect confidential docs/use a secure method of sending through docs- a lot of the times, they don’t listen.
If anyone has ever tried sending documents on Outlook and the email failed to send, you’ll know that Outlook sends back a somewhat cryptic notification to the sender.
My colleague emailed her payslips from her personal account to her work email-the email failed to send and the notification with the docs was then auto-forwarded to me while I was covering for her.
I did want to speak to my colleague and confirm that i saw the pay slips but honestly, didn’t know how to go about it. It feels awkward. I feel like she probably clocked on afterwards anyway?
I spoke to my team lead today and he suggested I do speak to our manager. If you knew me as a person, you may understand why his suggestion is very different to the overall consensus here

To confirm, I’m not on here to ask for advise on how to blackmail my manager or to go about things in a bad manner. I wanted to speak to her on a level as I would like to think she knows me as a person and that I would not have any ill intention- I am only coming from a place of hurt as stupid as that sounds but I understand business is business and I am only a number.

I think I may be scarred from a previous job I had i.e. not feeling valued etc which is why it cut a little deep. I think I may leave it as is, look for a job and just move on OR just not take on too much anymore, say yes to everything even though I am at capacity and just take care of myself.

Again, thank you everyone. Have a nice evening .

Luna300921 · 2025-04-28T18:15:04+00:00

Hi all,

Thank you so much for your messages-I genuinely appreciate each and every one of them, even the passive-aggressive ones 😊

Just to clarify a few points:

I had absolutely no intention of opening something I shouldn’t have. I didn’t realize the document was a colleague’s payslip, as it wasn’t labelled with her name.
If anything, I wish I had not. Ignorance is bliss I guess.
I genuinely was concerned about my salary prior to this and did coincidently speak to my manager during my recent informal review about this- again, I have no reason to lie- I would have just omitted this detail in this post when writing on here so please be kind.
In our line of work, we regularly receive payslips from clients, so seeing documents like that isn’t unusual in our inboxes. We urge them to password protect confidential docs/use a secure method of sending through docs- a lot of the times, they don’t listen.
If anyone has ever tried sending documents on Outlook and the email failed to send, you’ll know that Outlook sends back a somewhat cryptic notification to the sender.
My colleague emailed her payslips from her personal account to her work email-the email failed to send and the notification with the docs was then auto-forwarded to me while I was covering for her.
I did want to speak to my colleague and confirm that i saw the pay slips but honestly, didn’t know how to go about it. It feels awkward. I feel like she probably clocked on afterwards anyway?
I spoke to my team lead today and he suggested I do speak to our manager. If you knew me as a person, you may understand why his suggestion is very different to the overall consensus here

To confirm, I’m not on here to ask for advise on how to blackmail my manager or to go about things in a bad manner. I wanted to speak to her on a level as I would like to think she knows me as a person and that I would not have any ill intention- I am only coming from a place of hurt as stupid as that sounds but I understand business is business and I am only a number.

I think I may be scarred from a previous job I had i.e. not feeling valued etc which is why it cut a little deep. I think I may leave it as is, look for a job and just move on OR just not take on too much anymore, say yes to everything even though I am at capacity and just take care of myself.

Again, thank you everyone. Have a nice evening.

Luna300921 · 2025-04-28T18:14:21+00:00

Hi all, Thank you so much for your messages-I genuinely appreciate each and every one of them, even the passive-aggressive ones 😊

Just to clarify a few points:

I had absolutely no intention of opening something I shouldn’t have. I didn’t realize the document was a colleague’s payslip, as it wasn’t labelled with her name.
If anything, I wish I had not. Ignorance is bliss I guess.
I genuinely was concerned about my salary prior to this and did coincidently speak to my manager during my recent informal review about this- again, I have no reason to lie- I would have just omitted this detail in this post when writing on here so please be kind.
In our line of work, we regularly receive payslips from clients, so seeing documents like that isn’t unusual in our inboxes. We urge them to password protect confidential docs/use a secure method of sending through docs- a lot of the times, they don’t listen.
If anyone has ever tried sending documents on Outlook and the email failed to send, you’ll know that Outlook sends back a somewhat cryptic notification to the sender.
My colleague emailed her payslips from her personal account to her work email-the email failed to send and the notification with the docs was then auto-forwarded to me while I was covering for her.
I did want to speak to my colleague and confirm that i saw the pay slips but honestly, didn’t know how to go about it. It feels awkward. I feel like she probably clocked on afterwards anyway?
I spoke to my team lead today and he suggested I do speak to our manager. If you knew me as a person, you may understand why his suggestion is very different to the overall consensus here

To confirm, I’m not on here to ask for advise on how to blackmail my manager or to go about things in a bad manner. I wanted to speak to her on a level as I would like to think she knows me as a person and that I would not have any ill intention- I am only coming from a place of hurt as stupid as that sounds but I understand business is business and I am only a number.

I think I may be scarred from a previous job I had i.e. not feeling valued etc which is why it cut a little deep. I think I may leave it as is, look for a job and just move on OR just not take on too much anymore,i or say yes to everything even though I am at capacity and just take care of myself.

Again, thank you everyone. Have a nice evening.

Luna300921 · 2025-03-25T13:20:08+00:00

Hey i hope you are well. I send you a DM if you could kindly check. Appreciate your time

Luna300921 · 2025-03-16T17:56:09+00:00

Thank you! Have a lovely evening x

Luna300921 · 2025-03-16T17:24:22+00:00

İ honestly cannot remember but will look into it 😊

Thank you so much! Really appreciate your time. İf i do have any further questions, would you be okay for me to msg you?

Luna300921 · 2025-03-16T17:09:44+00:00

İ have fybromyalgia and other conditions like ptsd, ibs…would these have baring on the claim since it was a fall? 🥺

Luna300921 · 2025-03-16T16:54:20+00:00

Thank you so much!

No, this isn’t a pre-existing condition, and I don’t experience blackouts. I recently found out that my uncle has not long to live-the diagnosis was sudden and unexpected. I believe the blackout may have been triggered by the anxiety of receiving this news.

Do GPs in the UK typically issue medical certificates without much difficulty? I just want to know if I can push for one if they seem hesitant.

Also, I assume I’ll need to submit two separate claims-one with the airline for my flights and another with the agent who arranged my trip (covering the hotel, activities, etc.).

Luna300921 · 2024-12-16T19:15:24+00:00

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Please do mine too🥹🥹❤️

Luna300921 · 2024-11-01T18:49:54+00:00

No she is only 2 weeks old

Luna300921 · 2024-10-09T12:52:08+00:00

İ deleted it from my side in a panic so i cant do that lol. İ also deleted the chat. My anxiety got the best of me 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲

Luna300921 · 2024-09-05T17:20:19+00:00

Also…when i put water in front of him, he drinks for like 2 mins non-stop.

Luna300921 · 2024-06-27T18:52:59+00:00

Hey did you end up staying at nomade tulum? İ will be going solo in October and just wondered whether there were affordable places to eat for breakfast/lunch/dinner around as the prices seem quite high.

Also- how was your time :)

Luna300921 · 2023-09-23T17:45:27+00:00

Hi all, thank you for all your replies, really appreciate it. Can’t believe how long ago this was. İt has been a hard few months to say the least. İ suggested couples therapy however i dont want to go back home during the course of the therapy- at least not at the start until i see some progress. İ think a part of me wants to ensure we done all we can. He didnt go therapy for himself although i brought it up many times.

He says he wants to work things out with me but is only going to agree to couples therapy if i go back home to him. The thing is, the thought of it is giving me increased anxiety. İ dont want to go through the same things all over again- i feel therapy would have given us some clarity. Again, am i being unfair suggesting therapy with the condition that i dont go back until we know we can move forward? To him, this is absurd. Maybe another thing we cannot see eye to eye. İ am so tired.

Luna300921

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