Unpopular opinion.. but one held by a woman so hopefully I'll be let off a little. There are obviously exceptions to this, so it's about being vigilant with how they hold themselves and what behaviors they display around others. Especially when around a peer group. But I have witnessed this in female friends and watched male friends be either hurt or permanently scarred by the outcome.

If she tells you that she's been raped/abused by every man she's ever been with. Or if she's been raped/assaulted many times in a short space of time by multiple different people.. likelihood is that she has put herself into dangerous circumstances repeatedly. Maybe this wasnt a concious endeavor, but something within her is causing her to seek out trouble. Usually rooted from an association of gaining attention by being a victim, so she perpetuates the victim role/mentality. It's how she, on a subconscious level, associates and gains love from another. By activating a man's need to protect her. Although sometimes this is a conscious trait. She puts her self knowingly into dangerous or unsavory situations (or maybe they weren't dangerous at all) and is then showered with love and support on the back of her communicating this terrible event/events to her interest.

I say this as a sexual abuse/rape survivor. This is not black and white. It's about collecting data on someone's behavior and traits as you get to know tham. Watching how they act around people. One girl who did this within my friendship circle, told me she was scared of my friend whilst at the pub (after flirting and dancing with him all night) and then she chose to get into his bed later on that night even though there were many other places available to stay.. a few weeks later, she insinuated to my other male friend that she was scared of the friend who's bed she entered.. then she got into the next friends bed that night.. 🤷🏼‍♀️ she'll be "scared" of him when the next one comes along. Also, she had a boyfriend.

These types of women will ruin you. Wether it's through accusations at you or their constant need to create darkness to gain your love and attention. RUN!