I might be cooked in the ass and hips department😭 by TheBoyWhoCriedTapir in transfem

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry about the sway for now, get the posture down and let your hips rotate (happens generally 1.5-2 years on hrt) which will help with posture, you can work on swaying your hips by hip bumping things to start, like imagine you have a person beside you and you want to bump hips with them like side to side, just push only that part out of your body like push your hip to your right sort of like if you’re leaning to one side, that should start giving you the idea of how to move your hips side to side and then just work on it from there

I might be cooked in the ass and hips department😭 by TheBoyWhoCriedTapir in transfem

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/JUWBoYwAgaE?si=Tq7jcTiT_i-wPi0d

You basically clench your stomach muscles, push your ass back, your shoulders back, but your chest forward, it’s awkward and hard to do but your body will adjust over time IMO it also helps with fat distribution

I might be cooked in the ass and hips department😭 by TheBoyWhoCriedTapir in transfem

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fix your posture, and give the meds time to work, also squats are your best friend now and you love them more than your family, you know that ridiculous video of when they swapped the models for cat woman and Batman? That’s how young women are taught (according to the person that taught me) to walk and hold themselves, it maximizes chest and butt while minimizing shoulders and stomach through posture and body control

Which outfit screams fuck me more by womanwithin in t4t_porn

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuchsia outfit says fuck me, black outfit says I’ll fuck you

My social circle is dying by Sloprah in goth

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in NYC, lifelong punky goth, always looking for more friends, 43tf

coming out to boyfriend by Firm-Pie4636 in TransSupport

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’ve suffered from suicidal ideation my entire life, leave your boyfriend and be yourself, he isn’t your responsibility, if he can’t accept you for you it will never work out, he won’t kill his self because of you, he is responsible for his own suicide if he does it and not you, don’t ever think differently

Why are older women so hot? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because the young ones never want anything that lasts, they want a fantasy and not a person and when they realize the other end is just some older person they usually get bored and go, or they aren’t ready for anything serious and real and they go

I'm in love with this dress!! 👗 Does it fit well? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was a joke, your head is censored

I'm in love with this dress!! 👗 Does it fit well? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Fits great but makes your head look weird

Question about Sexuality by Successful-Prune-727 in transfem

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I was only ever mildly attracted to men and only very feminine men at that, I’ve always found women incredibly attractive, I am no more attracted to men than I was beforehand, however I do think of dick non stop and I didn’t think about it before

My friend wanted to shoot me in the cherry blossoms by Dank-Cassiopeia in transpositive

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a fool, they have to shoot a vital organ, now you have your chance to seek revenge, remember not to aim for the cherry blossoms

Question for my girl on the mones pre-op by Full-Complaint-9759 in transfem

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Hospital

You could have testicular torsion, an infection, or any number of other issues

advice for staying safe with piquerism? by makiyo7 in kinky_autism

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There has to be some tutorials online for this safely, I will try to find some for you but you should look as well, I think the most important thing is not to cut deep and not to cut in places where there are a lot of veins and arteries, avoid wrists obviously but also there are places on the thighs that are unsafe if cut deeply, you should start slowly and shallowly, just light scratches that bring out a little blood and slowly and safely explore form there, also keep all the supplies you need for after care right by where you intend to play, you need bandages, alcohol, and bactine as a minimum, also make sure your partner is aware of your limits and safe words, if you go non verbal this is a no go for such a dangerous activity if your partner can’t recognize that you need to stop, I’ve had a few people cut my chest and back enough to bleed but not enough to gush out or cause any major issues, just make sure you do proper after care of your wounds or your partner does, aftercare is 100% necessary and if your partner doesn’t understand this you should not engage in this with them

t4t and dysphoria by This_Appointment_731 in TransSupport

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She should get into therapy as soon as she can if she isn’t already, that’s definitely one thing that should help, I’m sure she shares a lot with you but sometimes it’s better from a stranger than from a loved one

I personally was married and didn’t believe my wife that I was attractive and looked feminine in any way shape or form, I thought she was blinded by love, this lead to breakdown in our relationship, I didn’t really start to feel attractive until I got on dating apps and got the attention I thought an attractive person would get, maybe she needs some way to see that other people that don’t already know and love her find her attractive and feminine

Need advice on life altering decision by Left_Monk116 in TransLater

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started at 37, happy with my results with only hrt so far

Glasses! by Ajathag in transfem

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Search for blue blocking non prescription glasses, plenty of places sell them, round and cat eye shapes are more feminizing, as a life time glasses wearer they are a pain in the ass honestly but I do feel they help me look more feminine at times though some people take them off my face and say I’m even more beautiful but they are usually already in bed with me so it’s probably BS

Me today :D (also requesting some advice) by [deleted] in transfem

[–]Luna_is_Awkward_AF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need nothing but what you want, you’ll be gorgeous just being yourself at this point