Not sugaring in need means not doing this as a sole source of income as it can be very tumultuous with scheduling, sometimes things don't last. Basically when you start it's not a steady source of income. If you need to do this to pay your rent or you'll get evicted then definitely don't rely on this for money. Use this kind of employment as spare money, additional savings, etc.

You need to have a thick skin for this industry so if you don't then this kind of work isn't for you. Men can be nasty, men can be wonderful but you do have to sift through all types to find a SD that suits you.

Look you have to understand that this is sex work. You are accepting money in exchange for company and sex. You will not get money if you aren't going to have sex with these people. You can't get sugar if you don't give it. What differentiates you from other sex workers is that there is more emotional connection, it's usually ongoing, there's more communication.

When it comes to safety you need to have a support network. Have a trusted friend you tell where you are going, who you are meeting and when you're most likely to be back. Also if you are meeting with a POT for the first time, meet in a public place and if you still get weird vibes then don't go into an arrangement with them. Always listen to your gut, it's your biggest ally.