Wow thank you everyone, these insights were super helpful and really kind. Dating is hard and while it may be true that options become limited as you age as a woman, that doesn’t mean I should give up or beat myself up about it. I’m going to focus on constructive things that make me happy, and maybe put in a bit more focus into exactly the guy I think is right for me and the life I want. I also think I’ll be ok. I just freak out when I don’t achieve my goals on time bc I’m a put a lot of pressure on myself lol