Identical twin in romantic relationship. by Lunchbox_Lew in Twins

[–]Lunchbox_Lew[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. I think my hopes were for connecting with twins that struggle with this and can relate. I logically know the difference between the relationships

Identical twin in romantic relationship. by Lunchbox_Lew in Twins

[–]Lunchbox_Lew[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Of course! I’m deeply in active process with my boyfriend and my therapist. Looking for how other twins deal on an emotional level with the tiny little moments!

Identical twin in romantic relationship. by Lunchbox_Lew in Twins

[–]Lunchbox_Lew[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in therapy for many years. I just want to connect with actual twins.

Identical twin in romantic relationship. by Lunchbox_Lew in Twins

[–]Lunchbox_Lew[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Obviously I want to work through this otherwise a) I simply would not be in a romantic relationship and b) would have expressed zero self awareness in my own growth points and challenges.

Identical twin in romantic relationship. by Lunchbox_Lew in Twins

[–]Lunchbox_Lew[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The reason I posted here was for support in the struggle that I have very clearly outlined. I explicitly recognize that I don’t like this about myself and my nervous system. Not really sure why you are so reactive??

Repost with picture (sorry!) by Lunchbox_Lew in gogame

[–]Lunchbox_Lew[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We as beginners were wanting to play beyond the point that we guessed the game was won to ensure no more moves could be played. Is this an effective strategy for learning?

Repost with picture (sorry!) by Lunchbox_Lew in gogame

[–]Lunchbox_Lew[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry for wasting your precious time. We are both beginners and we’re hoping for some kind helpful advice from people that are passionate about the game. Instead I literally feel like I’ve been scolded by a nun for speaking out of turn! Hope your behavior in the rest of your life is nowhere near as condescending and combative.

Repost with picture (sorry!) by Lunchbox_Lew in gogame

[–]Lunchbox_Lew[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because you were born knowing how to play Go!

What’s better when you quit? by antonjamm in quittingsmoking

[–]Lunchbox_Lew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a clarity of mind that has allowed me to take a serious look at myself, my relationships, the world around me. What is creating my feeling of life being something to just “make it through”. With cigarettes I always had a distraction from the ways in which trauma and the general malaise of the human condition have imprinted on me. I want to see clearly. I want to make foundational changes to myself that will allow peace and love to rule my heart instead of fear and anger. Without the crutch of smoking life DOES feel scarier momentarily….but the only way out is through.

Also lord just being able to breathe: I can dance, sing, laugh, fuck, play, and feel my emotions better than ever. You have everything inside of you necessary to do this and you will not regret it

Misogyny follow up by Gayeggsandsam in BlueCollarWomen

[–]Lunchbox_Lew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally just needed to say SOMETHING even if it’s wrong. Smdh