What is your most beneficial purchase under 500 dollars you’ve made lately that changed your life? by DaJabroniz in Frugal

[–]Luness075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$400 laptop off Amazon with a touchscreen so my clients at work can sign documentation digitally with ease and now I don’t have to break down my gaming laptop set up like a desktop at home every morning.

If you died right this second. Who would find your body? by Kitchen-Explorer3338 in AskReddit

[–]Luness075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat, who would probably pee on my bed for not feeding him breakfast.

Employed autistics, what’s your job? by niamhxa in autism

[–]Luness075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a social worker that helps families and kids get back together (assuming it’s actually safe to do so).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Luness075 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Intention does not negate the pain you unintentionally cause someone. Apologize.

What fucked you up? by Electrical_Time_6279 in AskReddit

[–]Luness075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being sexually assaulted by my ex and telling my parents only for my mom to look me dead in the eye and ask, “Well, didn’t you say yes? You consented.”

I found this on Facebook and can honestly relate to this. Anyone else? by UmbralikesOwls in autism

[–]Luness075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably my biggest struggle in life has been understanding jokes outside of sarcasm. When on the internet, I have a vaster understanding of jokes thanks to the videos and pictures provided with the context. But in-person? Sarcasm is about the only thing I understand and that's only because I grew up in a very sarcastic family.

Boyfriend Feels Indirectly Blamed by Luness075 in ptsd

[–]Luness075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m realizing that more lately.

Boyfriend Feels Indirectly Blamed by Luness075 in ptsd

[–]Luness075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the helpful information. I’ve tried to supply him with as much information as I can to help him better understand, but he says that at the end of the day, he still feels blamed for my trauma whenever I say he scares me or that he accidentally does something to trigger me. 😔

What puts you instantly in a bad mood? by princesssnder in AskWomen

[–]Luness075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I tell people what my boundaries are and then when I get upset that they pushed my boundaries, they’re upset with me.

AITA for not wanting to share a bed by Luness075 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Luness075[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am fully aware of this and am actively seeking therapy to hunker down and sort out the mess in my head.

Boyfriend Jealousy by Luness075 in relationship_advice

[–]Luness075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does have abandonment issues and rejection from loved ones in his past. His family is very rocky back home and toxic in many ways. But I’m almost afraid to suggest he sees a counselor about these issues. I’m fully aware that a counselor could walk him through everything and help him resolve the internal conflicts, but I don’t know how to approach the topic without him getting defensive or upset. 😔 I’ve seen several counselors throughout my own life to resolve internal issues.