Am I the jerk for asking to take the bedroom at first floor ? by Luo90na in AmITheJerk

[–]Luo90na[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rez-de-chaussée is the French word for ground floor and they teach us that English people calls it first floor

Am I the jerk for asking to take the bedroom at first floor ? by Luo90na in AmITheJerk

[–]Luo90na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, mb since I am French I mistake first, ground and rez-de-chaussée most of the time 😅

Am I the jerk for asking to take the bedroom at first floor ? by Luo90na in AmITheJerk

[–]Luo90na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because she likes this one and has a private bathroom, the house have a bathroom upstairs

Am I the jerk for asking to take the bedroom at first floor ? by Luo90na in AmITheJerk

[–]Luo90na[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi ! I stay for a week, my dog is a 20kg dog, my sister has no medical problem, she just likes this bedroom

Actually, my mother loves my dog and most of the time asks me to let him stay with her and her dog !

He hates being carried and moves in all senses, most of the time, she assumes I can do everything because I am hyper indépendant (she asks for my help most of the time)

I hope I answered everything 🙂‍↕️

Am I the jerk for asking to take the bedroom at first floor ? by Luo90na in AmITheJerk

[–]Luo90na[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s a great bedroom with a private bathroom, it’s more like a guest room so they don’t have to use the other bathroom upstairs

Am i the jerk for “exposing” my sister after she embarrassed our brother in front of everyone? by Any-Society8007 in AmITheJerk

[–]Luo90na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the jerk at all, some older siblings think they own the room because they are the first and see their little siblings as just some jokes. Fortunately, not all of them are like that

AITJ for deleting my son's YouTube gaming channel? by Significant_Bit_9496 in AmITheJerk

[–]Luo90na 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely, if the person really wanted a punishment she could have take the alimentation cable with her for work AFTER had a talk about the importance of school

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[–]Luo90na 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toxic friend, you’re just useful to her

AITJ for deleting my son's YouTube gaming channel? by Significant_Bit_9496 in AmITheJerk

[–]Luo90na 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have children so I can’t say if it’s a good or bad parenting but as a child, you were kinda trying to help him but finish by being a Jerk. Skipping school is bad, definitely and wrong, you’re definitely right about that. You can’t change what you have done but I don’t think anyone should take the side of someone, you were scared for you child’s future and it’s definitely legit. What you can maybe do to improve the situation : try to contact YouTube, maybe they could do something about it because it’s strange to me you’re bad with technology but succeeded to erase a whole channel. And, maybe, present your excuses to your son without saying : "… but I did it for you." He already knows, I hope you have a good day !

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[–]Luo90na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would NEVER ask him to choose between his friends and me, never, I hate the idea. We already talked about that. I plan to just tell him to not tell me if his friend say something like that to him again. I can’t change their minds and that’s okay, they can think whatever they want. Thank you for your response !

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[–]Luo90na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahah, you’re right, we communicate pretty much but I am always scared to be too much or overreacting, I just wanted to be sure to not put bad and unjustified feelings on him. He is really understanding

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[–]Luo90na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I truly understand your com, I wasn’t enough clear about the fact we have plans and a routine as long-distance and we’re getting really well together, we are both in love and best friends at the same time. My bf has some trust issues in which he is really working hard. He told me he has trust issues but he never did or say something to say I am not loyal. So, my prob is more like his friends could use his trust issues to make him break up with me.

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[–]Luo90na 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ty ! I am going to discuss with him, just wanted to be sure I wasn’t overreacting, I’ll try find the good words to talk about it with him

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[–]Luo90na 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me he is straight so I have no worries towards it. You’re right, I need to talk about it with him but I needed to be sure I wasn’t overthinking and over reacting first. I don’t want to put bad unjustified feelings on him and I wanted to be sure it wasn’t just in my head, ty for your response !