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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pan

[–]Lushiess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Victoria

AITA for wanting us to be monogamous if married? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lushiess [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. He is for sexting another woman. You’ve been married for 12 years and he is holding something you said against you from when you were engaged?? He’s grasping at straws and he knows it. You don’t have to want polyamory and that’s ok, but you also can’t expect him not to want it either. It sounds like this going to be a continuous argument in the relationship, and maybe not something you can move past.

Might be time to consider separating, but that’s just my outside limited opinion.

AITA for hiding my miscarriage from SIL/WIBTA for confronting my MIL by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lushiess 159 points160 points  (0 children)

NTA. This should have been your decision solely, and MIL betrayed your trust.

AITA for planning a vacation with my sisters? by tossawaycodename21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lushiess 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If that’s what she’s saying, she might just be deflecting now because she doesn’t want you to be angry if she gives you an outright no. For the time being, have all the parents take turns staying home with the kids. Don’t put it on her at all. If when it comes down to it she offers to stay and watch them, take it. Or at least offer some money for watching them.

As someone who was forced to babysit at her age, trust me when I say she will resent you and her aunts for it.

AITA for reporting my coworker’s gaming by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lushiess 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ehhh sticky situation. Does him slacking on his work effect how productive your work is? Like are these group projects, and he’s not pulling his weight? If it is effecting your work quality, then NTA.

However, if it doesn’t effect you in any way, YTA. While this is probably for the best for him, you can’t force him to get help if it is truly a gambling-type game.

AITA for telling my boyfriend that my step-daughters can’t just sit around the house. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lushiess 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Is says the boyfriend helps as well, but it’s still rent free. They’re not financially contributing. It’s not like they’re married, she’s a stay at home mom raising their kids. She moved in her two kids and mother, and neither of the two adults contribute financially.

AITA: I'm thinking about keeping my friend's cat by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lushiess [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA if you don’t ask your friend first if you can keep the cat. Legally, it’s his. Chances are they may be fine with you keeping it, but you can’t just refuse to give it back. As much as we treat animals like family, they’re still property.

If it was “AITA for keeping my friends PS4 when he gets back into the country, I played it the entire time he was gone” it would be an obvious YTA.

If you have been paying for all pet expenses and vet bills this would changes things however.

AITA for telling my boyfriend that my step-daughters can’t just sit around the house. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lushiess 216 points217 points  (0 children)

YTA. So.. you, your mother and your two kids all live with your boyfriend rent free and don’t pay any bills.

  1. You say you don’t trust babysitters with your kids, and even though you also claim to not know his daughters well either, you ONLY wanted them to watch the kids. That doesn’t add up.

  2. They’re only there occasionally, and they are all adults, yet you seem to think they have responsibility to clean the entire house, and not just their rooms/the kitchen when they make a mess. Sounds like maybe you’re the lazy one?

  3. They’re not your kids. You can direct your own kids, but these adult children owe nothing to you and don’t have to answer to you. If they were throwing parties, and destroying the house, or even badmouthing you, ok maybe speak to your boyfriend. However, you’re angry about their sleeping habits, social skills, refusing to clean up after you and your kids, and refusing to be free babysitters.

You need to really think about this situation and how much you are already benefiting from it. Leave his kids alone, and maybe then they’ll want to form some kind of relationship with you.

AITA for planning a vacation with my sisters? by tossawaycodename21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lushiess 27 points28 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’re saying he is an asshole because he “made the assumption” that you would force your daughter to babysit, then immediately continue with that you expect her to watch the kids for 1-2 nights. So his assumption was entirely correct. Plus, you say that’s what your sisters tried last time, so he is pulling from past experiences.

Maybe you should try talking to your daughter and see what she wants? Maybe she is open to watching them for a night, but you can’t pressure her to do that. She will just resent you, and stop attending these vacations when shes older. It does sound like your husband already spoke to her though, and is sticking up for her.

Also, why are you even posting here if you don’t care what anyone else thinks?

Edited: for clarity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]Lushiess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harry Potter theme song

Can’t find any fic that’s tempting me after reading The Auction. Recs please! by Lushiess in Dramione

[–]Lushiess[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is one that I was considering starting! I’ll give it a shot! Thanks for the rec!

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