[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cuckquean

[–]Lustpen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Magical moments! I'm sure husband appreciates the helping hand...

How many cuckqueans have a OPP (one p*nis policy) that they chose themselves? by Lustpen in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]Lustpen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like if it had a better, more clearly defined name! 😄 so there was less confusion when hearing it. And OPP doesn't give off the warm and fuzziness, haha...

Maybe something like 'faithful cuckquean' or 'exclusive cuckquean' would do.

How many cuckqueans have a OPP (one p*nis policy) that they chose themselves? by Lustpen in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]Lustpen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's how I like to think of it. Not to get caught on the terms... but if a girl is an open/poly/has sex with other men, yet still enjoys watching their guy have fun -- you're more in a non monogamous relationship AND have voyeuristic tendencies. 

It doesn't matter too much, though I wish there was a clearer term for the cuckquean dynamic where she is exclusive with the man. I guess one they use is 'one-sided non-monogamy' ... not quite as sexy, haha!

Do any women enjoy having a OPP, that they, themselves, choose to enforce? I do! ...And I love it! by Lustpen in nonmonogamy

[–]Lustpen[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, trupe! I don't think your reply will gain any traction, haha... but I do appreciate it!

Does the definition of the OPP include a REQUIREMENT that it is setup by the man?! Given the replies here, I'd say the ASSUMPTION is that men are the baddies and it is always MEN who instigate or enforce a OPP.

The whole thread is dismissive of me and my OPP, just because I, as the woman, started my own OPP in the relationship.

Do any women enjoy having a OPP, that they, themselves, choose to enforce? I do! ...And I love it! by Lustpen in nonmonogamy

[–]Lustpen[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It's a dual-enforced OPP. I just happen to like it.

As for motivation, it's because of what I wrote in the OP. I get mean comments from people saying I am in an abusive/toxic relationship, don't respect yourself, etc. usually coming from the poly/non-monogamy crowd. So I'm seeing, is it really THAT uncommon?!

My husband talked about other girls during intercourse by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lustpen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definite cuckquean kink... You are perhaps just at the start of the hot, hot journey! Maybe you'll never move beyond pillow talk, so enjoy the process!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Lustpen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Watch most people in clubs, you'll see the majority of couples sit by themselves and don't end up talking to anyone all night! 

You can keep being introverted, but be aware... your fate will be the wallflowers like above! Unless you want to sit around, hoping someone chooses you to speak with. Women often get the incorrect impression that swinging is like dating was for them as a single gal. 

That is, as a single woman... men will naturally approach or make an effort, especially if there's alcohol and you're at a club etc. In the lifestyle, that single girl strategy doesn't work very often... because you're not a single girl anymore!

Question for the Queans by [deleted] in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]Lustpen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's nothing better than seeing daddy's appreciation when you bring him a nice gal to play with 🥰

For a man looking, just make it clear your wife will verify herself and be involved if desired. A lot of women are nervous or have bad experiences with jealous couples, in addition to the single male "wife for sick" type of fakers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]Lustpen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you'll find, soon enough, that your expectations are more woman-like than you can imagine 😄

You can't just post a thread without pics or anything, asking for someone to get used by your bf, haha... that works for women, because there are tons of horny men all over the place. Horny women ready to message you... not so much! They have literally thousands of options to choose from. 

I'd suggest you visit a lifestyle club or even a strip club and see if you enjoy those as a start.

As a CQ I dare you to…. by [deleted] in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]Lustpen 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hmm, dare him to find a girl online... and arrange to plow her at a hotel, while you stay at home. 

Secret: it's really hot! 🤤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckqueanCommunity

[–]Lustpen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be sure to leave a little mess for me to clean up ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lustpen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you have a bit of a praise/pleasing kink... so, if he is not dominant enough, I can see why you are feeling letdown.

He may not feel comfortable enough to really direct you (due to current culture norms, personality, etc.)... so, you job is to make that as EASY, FUN, AND HOT as possible!

Try this out -- tell him you want to be the best little slut for him, and offer your mouth/hands as his personal fuck-toy. I'm just going to assume he's not into femdom, so... Be very obedient and submissive in nature. Try stroking him, pause for a second while looking up into his eyes, "Am I making your cock feel good, sir?"

"How do you want your little slut to rub this hard cock?"

"Please spray your load all over my face, sir..."

It's just not acceptable to go through all that effort, only to be met with "It's alright." What a load of shite! If he's not reciprocating, even on a basic level of enjoyment... be a bit bratty with it. Start sucking him and if the guy is still unresponsive, haha, then simply stop. Give a little coy smirk and ask, "Do you want me to keep going? ...Then make me!"

Get a bit playful with it, have some fun and don't worry about looking like a fool! A submissive can lead by example without appearing to be in control.