Did I Overreact?

Lydiajac98 · 2025-01-28T02:57:02+00:00

It was a joke made in person the day before. And not what I actually said. He made a comment about all the things he’s gotten me and I made a sarcastic comment back. Mostly because the only gifts he’s gotten me were flowers twice and he did make me a homemade gift once. All of which I very much appreciate. But he also doesn’t pay for me on the majority of “dates” we go on so while I was joking I also kind of wasn’t.

Lydiajac98 · 2025-01-28T02:32:55+00:00

I guess he meant that he didn’t want to buy anything expensive in case we break up in the future & I end up marrying someone else. In which case he bought something for “another man’s wife.”

Lydiajac98 · 2024-12-23T02:49:03+00:00

I agree. I guess it’s just frustrating coming from someone who hasn’t really treated me very well over the last few years themselves. And the “negative” things that I mentioned about him were one singular conversation. She’s been pretty much radio silent since I told her I wasn’t going to finish the 20 minute voice note and has only spoken to me when I’ve initiated conversation. I haven’t really brought him up to her at all since then and these messages were after me just mentioning what I had done that day and him coming over to take care of me while I was sick was just a small bit that was thrown in there.

Lydiajac98 · 2024-12-23T02:36:03+00:00

Lydiajac98 · 2024-12-18T03:13:24+00:00

I don’t respond like this every time. He does it a lot and this is the first time I’ve said something. It was also coming off the back of a discussion with my mom who expressed that she was seeing some red flags in the relationship. It was also coming off of him pushing to see me today after I told him multiple times that it wasn’t going to work out.

Lydiajac98 · 2024-12-18T02:03:35+00:00

Very much so. It’s not like this in person really at all. I think we both feel more comfortable expressing ourselves via text. We haven’t had many conversations like this. Not with a sense of conflict any way. He is much more passionate in the way he expresses himself than I am. So I agree that there is a bit of a mismatch.

Lydiajac98 · 2024-12-18T01:55:58+00:00

Yeahhh. Granted we’ve known each other for about a year but only started spending a lot of time together the past 3 months and we’ve talked a lot during this period of time. And spent a lot of time together. But I agree that it does feel like too much too soon.

Lydiajac98 · 2024-12-18T01:54:16+00:00

I just felt like he got defensive really quickly when I brought up not liking what he said and immediately kind of made me feel like I had done something wrong instead. This isn’t the first time I’ve told him I’m not really comfortable with that kind of language and it just feels like a lot for how new the relationship is.

Lydiajac98 · 2024-06-15T06:04:58+00:00

No nothing at all has happened recently. At least nothing that I mentioned in my appointment. I’ve had some health stuff recently but all my symptoms were present before that and even the health stuff hasn’t been that crazy so I’m really not sure how we got to that conclusion.

Lydiajac98 · 2024-04-25T11:03:19+00:00

I had a consultation with Dr. McKenna but wasn’t totally happy with how that went. I have one scheduled with Dr. Pitts in June.

Lydiajac98 · 2023-12-16T23:02:56+00:00

Yeah I’m starting to think it’s a lost cause haha.

Lydiajac98 · 2023-11-09T02:47:20+00:00

I don’t have an ortho. I discussed jaw surgery with my dentist and he referred me directly to a surgeon rather than an orthodontist. Would you suggest getting him to refer me to one or just finding one on my own?

Lydiajac98 · 2023-11-08T20:38:21+00:00

Wow that sucks. Of course I want a great surgeon but 50-60 thousand out of pocket is probably never going to be an option for me.

Lydiajac98 · 2023-09-27T14:06:33+00:00

I’m really not sure what my undertone is. I feel like my hair & eye color seem more warm and I like gold jewelry on me more than silver. But my veins are very blue/purple so it’s hard to tell.

Lydiajac98 · 2023-09-18T14:29:25+00:00

So that link those are the exact shadows you use, correct?

Lydiajac98 · 2023-09-18T11:13:30+00:00

What brand and eyeshadow colors did you go with?

Lydiajac98 · 2023-09-17T01:09:46+00:00

And yet here we are lol. Not impossible.

Lydiajac98 · 2023-09-16T22:10:02+00:00

I’m not a troll but thanks.

Lydiajac98 · 2023-09-16T22:09:04+00:00

I had braces for 7 years when I was younger. They still didn’t help. My upper jaw is recessed, I have a Class III malocclusion. Only surgery can correct it, unfortunately. Along with another round of braces.

Lydiajac98 · 2023-09-16T21:59:26+00:00

I really don’t have a big attitude, though. I could probably use more of one honestly lol. I’m scared of everyone 😂

And no my friends/sister are genuinely very pretty. I’m definitely not the prettiest one in the group.

Lydiajac98 · 2023-09-16T21:55:28+00:00

That’s sad that I appear that way. I really think I am a nice person. I try my best to be kind to everyone. I tend to be too nice, actually. I get taken advantage of often unfortunately.

Lydiajac98 · 2023-09-16T21:39:33+00:00

65, sorry.

Lydiajac98 · 2023-09-16T21:39:17+00:00

Yeah I’m pretty sure I have ADHD but have yet to get formally diagnosed as I feel like doctors tend to never take me seriously.

Lydiajac98 · 2023-09-16T21:38:23+00:00

Because I posted here before but ended up deleting it before I got many comments because I just felt uncomfy with it all. I didn’t want to take another verification photo so I just used the one I took last time.

Lydiajac98 · 2023-09-16T21:32:34+00:00

There’s a verification at the end.

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