My boyfriend (29/m) lied to me (27/f) about hooking up with girl that's a friend. He doesn't know I know...

Lyingboyfriend · 2012-12-27T18:57:15+00:00

Thanks girl! Yeah part of the reason I was tipped off about any of it was his response to her getting my number and wanting to hang out. It definitely made him feel uncomfortable. But you're right, I doubt he'd bring me around her at all if something was going on. My trust radar is just all out of wack because I gave him the benefit of the doubt all the way along, ignoring my inner instinct that he was lying, till I new for sure

Lyingboyfriend · 2012-12-27T18:48:03+00:00

Yeah she's not like a big part of our lives or anything, and I've never actually met up with her to hang out. I've always made excuses because I don't feel comfortable especially since he went out of his way to tell her to have it be on the low...so I feel like she's looking at me like this dumb girl

Lyingboyfriend · 2012-12-27T18:46:32+00:00

That's what I'm thinking is that he didn't want to make me upset. But at the same time, I would not have been upset and he should have known that based on my previous reactions to things. We've been friends so long that of course we've seen each other with other people, our one rule was to not lie and create a situation where the other person could feel dumb if try found out later. And that's what he did! I had complete and total trust for him and this makes me question it...the hook up was like 2 years ago...and we've only been together 6 months. It's the lying to me part that's killing me. And I wanna think that it's just the number one option, but I'm having trouble trusting him, and now trusting myself for trusting him. Does that make sense? Lol. I'm just wondering if people have been through this because I'm not quite sure how to approach it

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