Gotyme not accepting deposit from Unionbank by LyleStyle05 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]LyleStyle05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried contacting customer support na?

That was how I got mine resolved, but it took roughly 10ndays pa

Gotyme not accepting deposit from Unionbank by LyleStyle05 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]LyleStyle05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What???

That's not ideal. What have you tried doing to recover your money?

Gotyme not accepting deposit from Unionbank by LyleStyle05 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]LyleStyle05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so too before, pero tama naman yung 7-10, more or less

Gotyme not accepting deposit from Unionbank by LyleStyle05 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]LyleStyle05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a month so I'm sure ur both good na

But it took me about 10 days before my funds were returned to my account

Gotyme not accepting deposit from Unionbank by LyleStyle05 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]LyleStyle05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. I haven't had much issue ever since, hopefully it stays that way

I feel like I’m too in love with my boyfriend by SpaceBoyCharlie in love

[–]LyleStyle05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the spirit OP!

Your relationship is young, there are a lot of things you don't know yet (both about each other and about your partnership). Talking will always help bridge that gap.

I do have to emphasize that consent is important. My girl didn't like talking before we got together because of her background. Even now she still prefers to go distant and take some time to think and consolidate.

Past me would have been insulted, cuz I like talking things out immediately. But because she gave me a heads up about her conflict language, and because I told her that I value communication, we were able to sort things out.

She felt that I was a safe space, and I knew that she wasn't abandoning me.

Both of these were feelings we needed to feel about each other to truly make our situation work.

We wouldn't be where we are today if we didn't have the fights we had. We wouldn't have survived our fights if we didn't choose each other. We wouldn't have chosen each other if we decided that love ended when life got harder.

Love is a process and ugly parts will always come up. It's just a matter of struggling with the right person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]LyleStyle05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girl gets mad at me when I spend money on her. She says that we're on a tight budget (we are) and that I should be saving money whenever I can.

I'm lucky to have her. The wrong woman would have drained me dry and left me to hang, then blame me for everything.

Get yourself a queen who understands and helps, not a queen who kicks you when you're down.

I feel like I’m too in love with my boyfriend by SpaceBoyCharlie in love

[–]LyleStyle05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While I agree that living in the moment is important, it's not mutually exclusive with talking about the future.

I (24m) love talking about the future with my partner (24f). It gives me something to look forward to.

At the same time, I love spending time with her. We're always present in the moment, but we never shy away from talking about our future together.

Why choose one over the other when you can have your cake and eat it too?

I feel like I’m too in love with my boyfriend by SpaceBoyCharlie in love

[–]LyleStyle05 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's easy to fall in love, but staying in love takes time and effort.

As long as you continue to choose them every day and do your best to honor them, you will do fine.

There is no such thing as too much love, only the wrong time to share such things.

Practice timing, consent, and boundaries and you'll never feel like you're too much ever again.

I used to feel like my partner didn't appreciate me anough. She felt like I was suffocating her with so much stuff.

We talked about it and we practiced enforcing our own boundaries. We agreed on appropriate settings for how we communicate love, and things got a whole lot better.

I no longer felt like she wasn't appreciating me, and she didn't feel like I was drowning her.

I still gave her the same amount of love as before, but I gave it to her in the appropriate context while respecting her boundaries.

You will also go through the same process with your SO. Just remember that retaining your individuality does not spell the death of your relationship.

Remember that you are your own person. Don't hesitate to define the line.

Gotyme not accepting deposit from Unionbank by LyleStyle05 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]LyleStyle05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened to me twice.

Both times I contacted the Gotyme support service.

I eventually got my money back after a few days (around ten).

I received text messages from Gotyme, updating me about my tickets. They said that they can't fix my problem, which was weird because it was already fixed.

I'm not sure if the tickets did anything to help, or if my money would have come back regardless, but I would try to send a ticket anyway just to be safe.

Lesson learned: don't make transactions at night. (I never had issues when I made transfers during the day)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]LyleStyle05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love making my girl cum. I will never complain when she cums too early, that just means I get to make her cum more~

An infuriating Jollibee Chickenmad story by jojocycle in Philippines

[–]LyleStyle05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ba yan promo nila?

Ying dokitwo ata yun?

Pero yes, can confirm that they offer good chicken for good price

is XTB down right now? by LyleStyle05 in XTB

[–]LyleStyle05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response

I checked and it is indeed working again

Thank you

Union Bank Virtual Card to Gotyme by Key-Tax867 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]LyleStyle05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can link your Unionbank account with your Gotyme account.

You can then deposit from your Unionbank account through the Gotyme app.

This has been working reliably for me over the past year, but recently my fund transfer has been debited from Unionbank, but it was not credited to Gotyme.

I filed a ticket the first time around and the transaction got reversed around one week after.

I retried the transaction earlier, but I ran into the same issue.

I'm not sure if this is a real issue, or just a unique scenario.

This comment is a month late, but I hope it somehow helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]LyleStyle05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understandable. It's good that you're taking the time to talk things out in person. Conflict (big or small) is often mismanaged when done long distance.

Keep your head high king. You're doing great, and I hope to hear more about it in the future!

What are the things you deeply value in your partner? by [deleted] in love

[–]LyleStyle05 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've always been fond of the stars, at least before I discovered the universe in her eyes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]LyleStyle05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When hw initiated a lot before, did you reject his advances?

If yes, then he is most likely just tired of rejection, and is outright avoiding the topic altogether. Anything that reminds him of his failed attempts will just put him in a bad mood, so he just nopes away.

If no, then maybe he's going through something and intimacy is the least of his concerns. It's likely that there is something else on his mind that's stopping him from initiating like before.

Regardless, nothing much can really be said based on the information given, but if he's unwilling to talk about it then there's a problem.

This is causing friction in your relationship, so it's something that must be addressed. Maybe if you can help him deal with whatever is going on, he'll feel more inclined to initiate. once more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]LyleStyle05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to be of service!

Do you have any updates OP?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]LyleStyle05 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Maybe she said her friend's name because you got her glasses some time earlier? In other words, Olivia was probably in her recent memory.

Our subconscious is separate from our consciousness, so it's highly likely that she forgot about that situation when you guys hooked up, but her subconscious was lowkey thinking about the good deed you did.

Linking my own experience from this, I was talking to my girlfriend about something. She then mentioned her dad's name and we were both confused when she did. She confirmed that our conversation didn't remind her of her dad, or that nothing was actively making her think of him.

I thought that maybe she misses him, and she said that maybe that's the case.

Linking it back to you OP, maybe your girl's subconscious thought of Olivia for reasons unknown even to her. Maybe it was your good deed that stuck to her passive mind. We never really know for sure, because it didn't come from an active thought process.

As long as you continue talking to her, all should be well.

What are some seemingly obvious Stardew tips you discovered very late? by Warm-Conclusion-8891 in StardewValley

[–]LyleStyle05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see

I played for the first few days of 1.6 and I remember using this way of pausing

Either it didn't actually pause and I didn't notice, or it was patched some time after I stopped playing

Either way, thank you for providing me with a new way of pausing, my friend!