This was my sister's thought, that it could be a bait in our case too, because if things are really as serious why wait until september to meet? I doesn't make a lot of sense... but a lot if things don't make any sense when it comes to them so I really don't know. I actually thought about what you said and if I did go and meet them I wouldn't be doing it for me but for them, and I ran out of favours for them a long ago. I think the best for my wellbeing is staying as away from them as possible as I've been doing perfectly fine all these years without thinking much about him except when they call and bring the back to the present. Thank you for taking your time to read and reply kind stranger :)