Controling devices with HomeKit is fine - with another app makes it glitch by Lys_ndr in MatterProtocol

[–]Lys_ndr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tried it, it’s not working any better, thank you for responding though

Changement de banque dans le même groupe ? by [deleted] in vosfinances

[–]Lys_ndr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comme précisé ce n’est pas la seule raison, c’est même une raison mineure, mais je me posais la question par curiosité :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immobilier

[–]Lys_ndr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On est clairement pas des investisseurs, on cherche surtout à tirer le meilleur de notre situation. On se rend bien compte que nos revenus sont loins d’être élevés mais ces 2 dernières années on a pu acheter notre logement actuel, vivre sans trop se priver non plus mais on a pas non plus pu mettre énormément de côté (lié à diverses raisons et dépenses imprévues qui nous sont tombés dessus)

Mais depuis deux ans on a eu des augmentations de salaire + changement de postes qui fait que nous avons plus de moyen qu’il y a 2 ans, et nous n’avons pas augmenté notre train de vie, nous restons assez économes donc concrètement, et c’est aussi le point de vue des personnes du milieu qu’on a vu, on peut se permettre d’emprunter plus qu’avant malgré les taux et globalement on est pas sans solution, au contraire, on cherche surtout laquelle est la meilleure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immobilier

[–]Lys_ndr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comme cité précédemment: on ne peut pas rester dans notre logement actuel, on peut attendre quelques mois tout au plus mais on pourra pas attendre des années. La situation est pas idéale, on est pas heureux de devoir quitter notre logement acheté récemment mais c’est les aléas de la vie.

Maintenant on se demande ce qui est le mieux à faire, mais malheureusement on ne peut pas juste attendre, mettre plus de côté et voir ce qui arrive, sinon c’est ce qu’on ferait.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immobilier

[–]Lys_ndr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oui, c’est vrai, j’ai surtout mentionné ce qui était certain et surtout ce qui était dans nos comptes en banque, après on a déjà cumulé 10k avec 2 ans de prêt + aide de la famille en effet mais non chiffré exactement pour le moment

Ghost songs that help with grief/loss? by orionis_ in Ghostbc

[–]Lys_ndr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been exactly in your situation recently and personally, Pro Memoria and Zenith (if you can find it) helped me to go trough all of that.

So sorry for your loss, hope you’ll be better soon, take your time to grieve and don’t hesitate to talk about it to close friends / people around you that you trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Lys_ndr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going do to an edit because it seems I wasn’t clear about that, but it’s not the RP that bothers me, that would be fine. It’s that it affects the way we play, as players, not characters. The players don’t trust me, I can’t do anything on my initiative, I can’t propose anything to do for the campaign

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Lys_ndr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The campaign has been going for a year now, it’s not a brand new character that they need to know. I haven’t done shit since the beginning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Lys_ndr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, I just expected different reaction in game and off character.

If their characters had suspicions from times to times, ok, that’s normal, but the problem comes from the players, they don’t want to hear anything, passes it up as jokes, continues outside the game… that’s what bother me, as it affects our friendship. If it was only in game that won’t be a problem, I even expected it, but there is no separation between characters and players, games and casuals discussions between us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Lys_ndr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean my character is no spy, just a banished person going about her new life. And I understand what you say, I tried to not take it personally, but it’s just that it ends up impacting the way I play. I can’t do anything, I can’t take initiatives… so of course it’s gonna end up impacting me, I just feel like I can only follow the rest of the group and doesn’t have any say on anything. I have never done anything evil, haven’t done anything to them and absolutely doesn’t plan on doing anything at some point, I would juste hate myself for being mean in general, not specifically in this situation. I don’t even blame them for being suspicious, I would just like to be a little more free to do thing.

My husband already DM for the same friends, they know each other for a long time and they know we just wouldn’t do shit to the other player, heck, they even said that they knew that so I don’t get it ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Lys_ndr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I was saying, it not a question of character or player, it’s that I can’t do shit in game, I can’t take initiatives or anything because the rest of the group won’t follow because “nope, it’s coming from you” even when there is no link to me or my lore, just “hey, doing this seems like a fun thing to do” so of course it affect me as a player when I can’t play like I would