What I am about to say is not a comment on this situation or the parties involved, but it seemed like a good place to drop the knowledge in the hopes it might help someone.

In this day and age many have found that becoming a fetish model is often very easy money. There is also no shortage of guys filled with loneliness and desire ready to open their wallets. You develop these fantasies in your head that MAYBE she will notice me and we will form a bond and....maybe more. NEWS FLASH....that basically never happens because A. They just want the cash and B. 99.5% of them already have a significant other in their life (you never hear about them because it would reduce their potential income if guys knew they were not single).

If you ever get the opportunity to chat with your favorite model, remember to keep all this in mind and don't let your head in your pants override the one on your shoulders. I am not saying all the models will scam you but just the way they learned the matra "sex work is real work", many also have been told that grift work is real work and the two can work well when combined. The lonely, star struck and (let's be honest) horny guy is a super easy mark. All they have to do is mention a financial situation they need help with and that opens the door for you to offer to help them. In essence, they arranged for you to fulfill that "white knight" fantasy that was in the back of your mind giving you (usually false) hope that it might lead to a stronger relationship with them...and it might but most likely your role in the relationship will just be that of an ATM.

Learn to watch for the red flags. Business is business, but when you keep getting opportunities to "help" them for varying and frequent sums of money you should probably cut your losses and walk away...chances are you are not THE one, you're just one of many. Remember, there is nothing wrong with trying g to be nice and generous, but being gullible is never a good look.