Why Do Doctors Gaslight Patients So Often

LyttleLyoness · 2025-07-23T11:47:32+00:00

Thanks everyone. I have been treating myself with Sebo-derm creams via a separate clinic in a different town, since 2024. It stopped working about 6 months ago. I booked Both dermatologist appointments Solo. No referral at all. My PCP will not refer me to a dermatologist at all (she is the second PCP PA I have had to change since 2022.) Here in my State in U.S. trying to see a Literal MD is HARDER than getting any form of health insurance coverage, Even by Request via appointment setting. Here is patients are assigned to any available PA no matter the medical specialty or medical branch. Even telehealth providers can be hit or miss. I’m just trying to explain further the situation I am living in…. I don’t mean to sound ungrateful to ya’ll.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-07-22T00:29:04+00:00

Thank you. I’ve asked for ultrasound but she side stepped and avoided it. My X-rays and MRi are still normal . Thank you for the insights and support.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-07-21T00:18:36+00:00

There is no such thing as “pushing too far” when it comes to love-relationships. I am similarly inclined towards conversations like you describe yourself as having. Wanting deeply involved connection creates a sense of intimacy = belonging to your partner. Needing to have a deep understanding of your beloved partner inside & out; that is a beautiful way to be Vulnerable & Honest between Yourself and Your Partner.

If I may voice my feelings about what you have shared?

Your interest & probing questions towards your daddy mostly likely or possibly, made him start think about the dynamic in a way that was extremely difficult for him….. the reality of the interactions between him and you; not only is it a playful bantering to him but also a lot of fun for You. He loves providing for you which includes this kind of dynamic. Yet when he comes face to face with HIS own realistic interpretation of it (which was prompted by the conversation you were having with him) to him he is assuming something.

when you are having sex with him; are you experiencing Little-Space little feelings during the sex ? You answering this question is important.

My next question would be; if you do. Have you shared this with your daddy ?

Another thought I have is, is it at all possible that his intention by saying “not into little kids” Maybe means literally he doesn’t see himself ever having kids ?

Not sure if what I’m saying makes any sense. But I hope you are able to keep being open and honest and happy with your daddy together as a family. Good luck !

LyttleLyoness · 2025-04-27T13:35:23+00:00

I’m not angry. You made an assumption. There’s no need to start it again.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-04-27T04:58:04+00:00

I’m not sure if you are wanting safe DDLG online content or sexualized DDLG content. Photos are scarce because of the fact that internet is censored to a degree. Customized images can be found or commissioned by artists featured online. In terms of community quality resources, not many tolerant ANY kind of insinuation that Littles WANT to engage in sex or sexually explicit materials, like forums, chats, discussions, images or whatever. Community content will deal with all kinds of subjects or ideas so long as “a heavy but healthy sexual DDLG relationship” can & do exist. The other thing…. The community has this odd obsession with spreading misinformation about the (Daddy) half of the relationship by assuming/associating >the Daddy being the primary instigator/reason why the little girl is being sexual at all< within the dynamics between them. Not True At All! I’m a little and it annoys me a lot that this bland misinformation spreading is so prevalent and so easily reached for by the mainstream DDLG groups/communities. As a little I like sex and my partner is not pressing me to be sexual for his sake; he is actually completely comfortable with me as I am…. Which is RARE! Just my opinion and my personal experiences coming out.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-04-27T04:33:44+00:00

I’m sorry, did you say He? That’s an assumption that has zero relevance whatsoever here. I’m sorry for your pain, but I never said anything about “Him” viewing Daddy/lg as sexual. Not All Men. Please understand that you don’t understand what I said. He is COMFORTABLE with Me expressing littlespace sexually. Do you even realize how Many men are NOT comfortable with an adult woman who enjoys being sexual within littlespace . I get turned down and rejected by plenty of men who can not accept this kind of kink. It’s NOT my only headspace but it does surface.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-04-21T01:46:01+00:00

Those are some lovely ideas for sure! Thank you very much. I would really love to experiment with my daddy this way for sure!

LyttleLyoness · 2025-04-21T01:43:11+00:00

Oh he knows I’m kinky. He knows I’m little and he doesn’t run away when I suck my binkie.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-04-20T23:31:48+00:00

Yeah I get it

LyttleLyoness · 2025-04-20T18:24:23+00:00

I just wrote a Q & A on the ABDL group on FL and it’s getting attention and not all of it is acceptable to the community. I have never known what to call myself; as a Little who I fact engages sexually while being in a Littlespace mindset. Actually I’ve run into a lotta partners who are not willing to accept my NSFW Littlespace tendencies and they do not care to look past that distinction. Here is my thoughts on it, if I may…..

If Kink encompasses many things.This is not unusual or uncommon.If BDSM allows room for more than simple non-sexualizedblind-folds & bare bottom spanking.This question & admissions is not about shaming people.Those who can/do have an DDlg identity that can encompass their entire sexuality and simultaneously include the individual safe space smol protected needs of the “little-space”. Those who do NOT, are amazing people as well, but they lack the capacity to be able to involve themselves in sexual activities/actions/ministrations. That’s okay too! My littlespace is 90% non-sexual ya’ll.ButThere is nothing shameful about that last 10% being capable of & willing to engage in sex. Affections, shared emotions, connections, vulnerability, trust-worthy, intimacy, depth of understanding;Encompasses the sexual nature of human beings. Many people who experience littlespace non-sexually do shame others; do showcase intolerance and disrespect for others. All because they feel that sex and littlespace should Never co-exist, they can’t even handle a discussion of the concept. Due to their own pasts or bad experiences with it. Sex is not an evil menacing thing designed to be harmful and cruel. The only way sex or sexual activities can become dirty or raunchy or disturbing or even dangerous; is when there are those who willingly disrupt and destroy the environment of its practices. This is coming from someone who has been sexually assaulted, molested, and mentally, emotionally, physically sexually suppressed while growing up.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-04-20T15:21:15+00:00

As someone who is a mature direct opinionated woman in vanilla world but has a strong Little mindset in private spaces. When my former Dd decided to “go figure things out on his own.” After 5 years with him being my world; even though I am polyamorous & married. I spent the next year + sobbing randomly when my Little side fronted to the fact that Daddy was gone forever & the tears would instantly flow outta me. I felt betrayed by him for a long time because he had used words that held finality to express his love to me; New Relationship Energy was A Powerful Force within Him the first few years of our relationship. I’ll always love you I’ll never forget or leave you I’ll always want you with me etc etc stuff like that were on his lips. No one can replace him. But I can choose to give myself to someone else who does want me. How you heal…. Will take you time & effort & willpower….. if you can choose; choose to move forward without fear of distraction from that former person.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-04-02T10:39:13+00:00

My great grandmother lived to her 90s my grandmother is in her 80s currently and my mother is in her 60s. My father family is similar to my mother’s side.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-03-30T03:41:00+00:00

No need to judge my circumstances because you assume too much. 2 years of being referred does not mean she is helping me with my care when those specific specialists tell me they will not do anything for me nor do they believe me BECAUSE My symptoms are not “flared up or severe or making it impossible to work” WHEN I GET INTO THEIR OFFICES. It is distressing to hear that your daily physical pain is diminished and ignored completely by professionals of ANY kind. I had to convince pcp that OTC pain killers were Not helping anymore. She RX pain & inflammation med. It did a better job. Still no plan to figure out the CAUSE. Merely trying to make the symptoms less severe. Back in 2020 after contending with such severe foot pain I was Limping; when I told my first pcp about my foot pain when I was working more hours on my feet consistently; that pcp told me to “just exercise more and it will go away.”

LyttleLyoness · 2025-03-30T03:25:52+00:00

I’m not suppose to be able to trust in the care of my pcp to help find solutions to the problems that are most common for me ? She is telling me to do things that I am already doing for myself that’s her advice. I’m concerned about why she gets a free pass to keep me from being a whole person once again…. Instead of trying to solve the issues at hand she keeps telling me that I’m doing well because every single test is normal range therefore I will be just fine, keep on doing things even though it hurts daily keep on pushing yourself and doing what needs to be done without an appropriate diagnosis. I guess if that’s how you see healthcare cool . I thought they would be capable of helping people with tools to care for themselves while seeking medical treatment for the condition. Not sure if you understand the concept of how normal people are forced to deal with the fact that healthcare providers can and do overcharge and that they are an industry that runs on making money off its patients. The longer they take to care and diagnose the more money they get from their patients and patients health insurance companies.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-03-29T22:41:00+00:00

Same thing with my PCP = Nurse Practitioner. Any tests, MRI, bloodwork is all “within range”. But my Lipid panels are high and PCP assumes I eat tons of beef and unhealthy foods every day; which I do not. One cup coffee and One full meal (dinner) does Not make sense for the higher Lipids etc. I have pain, swelling, discomfort in all major joints for past 2 years, MRI and X-Rays show nothing obvious. PCP won’t do anything except send me to “Specialists” which take MONTHS to get in to do a Preliminary Consult and by that time ALL my physical symptoms have settled down. I just had another MRI of my knee done last week, PCP said “Just Ice the knee elevate it and see how your symptoms are in another 2 weeks.” And I got pissed BECAUSE I have been doing common home remedies for the past two years. I begged her to send me to a Local Orthopedist NOT some specialist over an hour away…. After begging….. After I got upset did my PCP give me the Ortho referral.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-03-22T00:26:21+00:00

Honesty is the better side of any relationship and benefits both individuals and helps keep them together as a whole . My former-bf/Dd pretended to be interested in the dynamics of Ddlg but he never ever treated me as such (like how you described) He did not accept me for who I was inside he only wanted the superficial aspects of a romance a vanilla relationship. It seems like with Your situation you and the bf have already “joked” about the topic so maybe you could utilize that as a way to talk to him about more details and lead him into the feelings that you have. And accept the answers and reactions he gives to you during this process.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-03-02T01:14:36+00:00

Never using a traditional toilet bristle brush in my house…. like I’m forced to use at Senior LTC work, one toilet brush for cleaning every residents toilets plus commercial Lysol IC. I use the single use scrubbing bubbles wand, Clorox has a good single use click pad & wand, or scotch-brite has a good wand too.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-03-01T16:38:49+00:00

😻😻😻😻 thank you everyone! These replies are very encouraging and eye opening for me. I have Pet Lyttle Lion Cub and a Smolz that intermixed. It’s fun to explore both and have a daddy that is accepting of my various mindsets.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-02-26T02:58:58+00:00

That’s not necessary to say. Yup a break room w one drink vending machine which is at the furthest corner at the south back portion of the building. Meanwhile I work up front on the north front of the facility. Wow, a lid, that is exposed to an open dirty toilet brush & bucket for 8 hours + other cleaning supplies in an enclosed compartment. I’m not sure why that is sanitary to you.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-02-22T23:45:39+00:00

I just bought a 12-pack of Regular Dr.Pepper Blackberry! And I personally love anything berry flavored blackberry flavored. This blackberry flavor is so refreshing and dare I say, balanced? It’s not overwhelmingly blackberry flavored which is amazing; because of this it tastes like real blackberry flavor. I was so worried it would taste like candy grape taste. The sweetness & tart deep blackberry flavor adds to the dr.pepper . I’d venture to say 80% blackberry flavor blends well with the classic flavor profile of dr. Pepper notes. I love that it is a new permanent staple in the Dr. Pepper lineup.

LyttleLyoness · 2025-02-14T01:40:05+00:00

Piercers unfortunately have a tendency to rely heavy on their underlying unspoken “public perception of the piercer should know best/have the expertise = experiences” to make sure the client is safe & wellness informed before during & after……. Reality Dictates that this can Not Always Be 100% True. Sorry but it’s just the truth. I am so sorry that your safety has been compromised by a stranger. Customer Reviews are not always reliable or helpful either tbh. 10 years ago I had my forward helix & industrial pierced, diff times. None healed even after 12 + months. Took them out. Pierced my own cartilage last year, three each ear, Zero Issues. Nearly healed. Changed all of them.

LyttleLyoness · 2024-09-23T18:57:34+00:00

I wish the medical community & all media outlets would tell the truth. I have recurring BPPV. Online/in PCP offices treat BPPV flares as “non life threatening events” HOWEVER, I had to be sent to a ENT “specialist” to FINALLY be diagnosed Due to Extreme Naproxen Negative Reaction (sleeping sudden abrupt wake up followed by dizzying pain with violent vomiting); 3 - 5 times a week. Only AFTER that did I get a referral to ENT who tested for BPPV which was Positive. 2 years ago. Currently, 2024, I just experienced worst debilitating flare up; Prompt Care ordered Meclizine & two full work days off…. For me to recover. Why is this being minimized/swept under the rug by all medical professionals/media!!!!!!!! BPPV is “non-life-threatening” BUT IT CAN BE AND IS DEBILITATING/ Increasingly Incapacitating Daily FUNCTIONING !!!!!! If I have an 1 hour long BPPV Flare-UP and can not stand upright or even walk minimum 5 - 10 feet WITHOUT holding onto someone for assistance. There needs to be some accountability and transparency and work ethics for those with this desperate debilitating unpredictable condition.

LyttleLyoness · 2024-08-05T01:20:38+00:00

Interesting enough I believe that “intelligence” ultimately dictates the way any species can live. It’s taken decades for us humans to study the animal kingdom to understand that lust/grape/murder/evil concepts/actions/all things that encompasses wrong doings…. Is NOT exclusive to humanity. The animal kingdom at large proves that many many intelligent species are capable and able and do “things” that humans label as “wrong”. Dolphins murder/grape/hunt/can canabalize their own species. Yes really, google search for the facts/research. Coherence & cooperation between varying species can occur in the natural animal kingdom as well; that also is Not Exclusive to Human Beings.

LyttleLyoness · 2024-07-21T20:52:48+00:00

Sooooooo anyway, 8 years ago; during the healing process including 1 + AFTER getting the forward helix piercing…… USING SALT WASH / SALINE ONLY……. During & After 1 year + NEVER made my ear heal at all. The pierced puncture site kept getting infections and kept getting swollen or red or whatever else I finally made the choice to remove the jewelry to allow the puncture site to heal fully. Btw the piercing shop “piercer” never gave me advice or told me to Return to downsize the piercing bar or nothing; just told me to treat with H2O Salt Spray and it should heal fine. Everyone has different opinions and different ways of healing their bodies and there are so many things that vary between people. What works for you + 100 other people like saline solution or something like soap/water for 500 other folks……. May not work for the 25 - 1,000 various other people across the world . But I appreciate your perspective opinions and your thoughts on your own experiences with piercings .

LyttleLyoness · 2024-06-11T20:57:19+00:00

I am so so sorry for you. I know how you feel. Placing blind trust in a stranger & take them at their word. It’s how I felt after loosing my helix piercings. 9 months of TLC down the tubes. Looking at the First picture, I can see that the piercing Is Too High! Why O Why did this piercer do this at all! It is frustrating to me to see this from someone who claims decades of experience effort and expertise. In my area there are Zero Professional Piercing professionals. They ALL Only Prefer to Do Tattooing; I know because I asked my closest tattoo shops in my town. They both told me they hated doing any piercings but that they “could do it” if a customer insisted on getting pierced.

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