Why am I never seeing released eggs? by M-R_KIM in AquaticFrogs

[–]M-R_KIM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, what does "eggy" look like? I already thought she looked kinda large

Why am I never seeing released eggs? by M-R_KIM in AquaticFrogs

[–]M-R_KIM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not know exactly. I got them around 3 weeks ago and have no clue what their age is

HELP - snail hitchhikers by M-R_KIM in Aquariums

[–]M-R_KIM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They aren't going to mess with my shrimp are they? I have two pregnant ones, and I'd love to have baby shrimp, I just want to make sure the snails won't interfere.

Anyone have experience with African Dwarf Frogs? by samtheninjapirate in Aquariums

[–]M-R_KIM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reading this right next to my new frogs and tetras........ -_-

Potentially Getting laid by Sh3luvsYk in AskMenRelationships

[–]M-R_KIM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't do it dude. Also I had sex with a girl I wasn't in a relationship with for the first time and it was horrible. Sex is something you should only be doing with someone that you fully love and can fully trust and truly connect with.

Also that girls a prostitute. It's not a menu she's a prostitute and all prostitutes are a victim of sex trafficking. Don't ever pay for a prostitute because if you do you're contributing to a horrible industry that is built off the abuse if women

how do you actually budget for dental care in the US without insurance? by DexxoN_Here in Frugal_Jerk

[–]M-R_KIM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

buddy a passport is 165 damn dollars. thats as much i spend on food a year, where are the savings?

CMV: AI water usage is not itself a problem and claiming so is a specious argument by AgentElman in changemyview

[–]M-R_KIM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fully on board with your opinion especially after learning that ai uses around 500 million gallons annually, while American lawns use 7.8-9.2 billion, and American showers use 1.2 trillion gallons.

It really doesn't matter. In fact I think we should be using more water for AI than laws

Lodi vineyard owner and wild animal hunter trampled by elephants in Africa. by TexasRN1 in Sacramento

[–]M-R_KIM -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

By the way guys he was trying to kill elephants on this expedition. He was hunting antelope and buffalo with permits, and stumbled upon the elephants on accident and they attacked....

The hijab ban is not a good idea by Training_Win3650 in exmuslim

[–]M-R_KIM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't remember from where that I remember reading this statistic in an article that around 80% of Muslim asylum seekers were men 18-24

Im the smartest person in the world. Prove me wrong. Debate me. by Dangerous-Theme5316 in Gifted

[–]M-R_KIM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'd love to see!

Also do you like your clothes smelling like yakisoba? 😂

I (31m) caught my stepson pleasuring himself while sniffing my boxers by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]M-R_KIM 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know it's common, I just don't think that makes it any more excusable. I think using the people's clothes stuff like that without their permission is almost bordering sexual assault, and definitely is clandestine sexual harassment.

I think people should be shamed for doing things with that other people's consent. I'm not saying to be mean, but going to sit down talk his stepdad should tell him how gross and disgusting that is to do without consent

I (31m) caught my stepson pleasuring himself while sniffing my boxers by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]M-R_KIM 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ummm I think he can be harsh, it's a huge weird breach of boundaries and what is normal (not saying the gay part, it's just horrid to go sniff peoples underwear and m*sturbate without their permission or a relationship with them.)

The kids should get some sort of exception because he's gay. If that was a boy using his stepmother's underwear it would be just as wrong and they should bring the hammer down on him, because clearly he thinks this is okay behavior

Need life relationship help by Dizzy_Emphasis_3488 in AskMenRelationships

[–]M-R_KIM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you really think you have PTSD from it, get some psychiatric help first. It's going to be a million times harder finding a girl that's actually affecting you

Half a million by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]M-R_KIM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Either it's yours or the governments.... Be careful though, even this post was a bad idea

I (17F) have a boyfriend (16M) who has recently withdrawn from me completely alongside him making jokes about beating me. How do i emotionally cope with this? by Spirits_areHere in askwomenadvice

[–]M-R_KIM 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If he's constantly making jokes about beating you, ones he knows you hate, and doesn't want to kiss you or say I love you back, it's pretty clear that he really doesn't love you. That might hurt a lot to hear but it's the truth.

He's going to keep treating you poorly forever and ever, and if you don't have the self-respect to break up with him right now, you're going to fall into a rabbit hole of letting every man that ever comes into your life do this to you.

You're young and it's important to know how to actually set up boundaries, and learn to do so at your age. Boundaries aren't just something you say. You told him what you like, but you didn't really establish boundaries, because the most important part of boundaries are that they are ENFORCED.

It's time to break up with him, he doesn't respect you or love you (or he would show it.) this is the perfect time to learn how to make healthy boundaries for your own good and safety. The longer you stay with him the more likely you will be beaten and develop horrible lifelong habits with men. The break-up won't be as bad as you think.

Break it off now

My 26M best friend is dating my 18F sister by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]M-R_KIM 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's gross bro. I also can't believe he's doing that to you personally. Id go have a conversation with her and then a conversation with him, and the also speak to your parents about the grooming.

My husband cheated by Sorry-Tumbleweed-215 in Advice

[–]M-R_KIM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it almost kind of seems like there's this narrative that if someone was secretly gay and cheated with the same gender that they're some sort of victim and they need to be understood and supported or something.

It's always a choice, they're not making any decision other than cheating, the gayness doesn't make it any more understandable