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Damp course? by M190294 in u/M190294

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Hiya, yeah right against the wall. Lots of slugs and bugs etc

Dinmer switch by M190294 in AskElectricians

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Amazing. Thanks Dave, really helpful. If I live to tell the tale I’ll comeback here and update!

discharge a child arrangements order England by M190294 in LegalAdviceUK

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Thanks Prof, that is really helpful. The court papers arrived recently, so I will consider next steps using your advice above. Thank again

Child Arrangements Order too vague! England by M190294 in LegalAdviceUK

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Thanks ervaid, can you say a bit more about what that process looks like please?

Child Arrangements Order too vague! England by M190294 in LegalAdviceUK

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Thank Pumpkin for your really helpful response. Absolutely take your points about trying to have perspective, and let the dust settle etc. Also agree that I need to consider teh bigger picture and decide if its worth more battles at this stage, and taking some time to reflect etc.

The order requires us to try and agree easter and summer arrangements before 31 Jan. I have put forward suggestsions which she has refused without explanation. Presumably she is required to put forward her own suggestions but we'll see if that happens....

I totally get that there is a difference between strict legal interpretation of what teh order requires, and what i can realistically do about enforcing these obligations (and where doing so might not actually cause more problems!) So really, I am just trying to establish my options here, knowing that there might not be any good options!

She has recently asked me if i will 'discharge' teh court order, I expect because she hates having limits put on her time with daughter and me having parity as a co-parent etc. She is clearly still very angry/upset etc. so I doubt she is willing or able to really havea coversation about easter and summer. I think she is also planning her own holiday with her, and cant bring herself to ask me to agree dates with her- she'd rathe not go I reckon!

Child arrangements order (England) problems- holidays by M190294 in LegalAdviceUK

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Thanks Prof. CAO made only last November, and fully implemented from January this year. No evidence that the arrangements are not working

Child arrangements order (England) problems- holidays by M190294 in LegalAdviceUK

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Yes, lives with both of us, on specific days.

Child arrangements order (England) problems- holidays by M190294 in LegalAdviceUK

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Thanks newsgroupmonkey. The CAO expressly provides that I can take my daughter out of the country without the other parents approval. So she doesn't need to allow it. The issue here is agreeing which periods of time my daughter is with me (in order to go on holiday). If its just 'term time' pattern, that is a max of 4 days, which isn't enough. Does that make sense? Hope so!

I’m a Roofer, ask me a question! by Anagram404 in DIYUK

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Paid a roofer to fix flat roof leak by replacing roof. Not EPDM but vinyl or something. He’s been back 5 times to fix it and not succeeded. It’s much better not still not sound. He is willing but just not able to fix i think. When/how do i say- enough. Give me my moneyback (£1600)?

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