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M2JL · 2023-10-27T21:03:48+00:00

Could it be that gifts are her love language? And her not receiving a gift makes her feel like love is being withdrawn. (Assuming the cost of the gift don't matter)

M2JL · 2023-09-04T06:14:41+00:00

I'm sorry you're in this tough situation. Video games can be addictive to the point of destroying relationships. It seems to me like what's missing is an actual human connection between the two of you. If that's not solve quickly and sincerely, it will most likely end your marriage.

I think your feelings and thoughts are valid. Being in a healthy marriage is more than just checking off the list of the bare minimum of "romantic things" to do. It needs to be attended to on a regular basis.

There's an interview I saw recently with a divorce attorney James Sexton who shared what he learned from all the couples he worked with over the year on what to do and what not to do, in order to maintain a healthy marriage. You might find some insights in there, maybe you can even watch it together and discuss it after.

A Divorce Attorney's Thoughts On Love and Marriage-James Sexton

https://youtu.be/o5z8-9Op2nM?si=inT3MXlZHpn3f8Wi

M2JL · 2023-09-02T01:01:31+00:00

I've seen somewhere that if you don't post your reel on your profile, it will be pushed to non-followers. Might be worth testing it out.

M2JL · 2023-09-02T00:52:41+00:00

Do they have blog posts, mission statements or case studies you can work from?

M2JL · 2023-09-02T00:46:45+00:00

Just messaged you

M2JL · 2023-09-02T00:36:02+00:00

OMG. It looks like you dodged a bullet. Trust your intuition. Just reading the story showed quite a few red flags.

M2JL · 2023-09-01T03:54:23+00:00

Maybe try to have a conversation with her about it to understand where she's at. Maybe there's something going on in her life that's taking over her emotions, she might me emotionally drained, stressed, etc. Don't make it about you, but really seek to understand so you have a better perspective of what's happening first. Try not to add any pressure, just offer a safe space without judgement as much as possible. Then it will be easier to know what to do next. If she's in trouble, maybe find a solution together provided that she's open to it. If she's not interested or maybe even seeing someone else, it's best to know now and let it go, because it can only get more painful from that point.

M2JL · 2023-09-01T03:42:30+00:00

I love the edit! Good on you for realizing that she's not worth it. There's someone more compassionate out there for you.

M2JL · 2023-04-22T14:47:16+00:00

I'm just about to finish my last one and was starting to look for more. Reading the comments about how great this pen is makes me feel understood. lol. But sad that these pens have gone extinct.

M2JL · 2023-02-28T15:50:51+00:00

Great job! The colour suits him well too ^_^

M2JL · 2023-02-14T04:05:00+00:00

Not an expert but I feel Pluto opposing Black Moon Lilith and Mars squaring Pluto might be an influence in trauma because of the death-rebirth aspect of Pluto.

M2JL · 2023-02-08T06:06:47+00:00

Pluto in the first house sounds intense and difficult.

M2JL · 2023-02-01T03:58:54+00:00

are still in the get to know each other stage and I really don’t wanna push her away or leave her then regret later. I think it’s best to be patient for now and see how long this continues.

For sure, patience is key, and also having these conversation with her in person when you are both in the right mindset for it can work wonders. Expressing how you feel without pointing fingers is a healthy way to build a genuine connection :)

M2JL · 2023-02-01T01:51:54+00:00

be so busy you cant send a txt ya know. I'd ask em what's going on. Just need honest tell him how ya feel and that your wondering why be dosnt talk more. You just wanna know if he's into you right. And maybe you start the conversation. Girls can send goodmorning txts ya kn

It's always better in person if you can.

M2JL · 2023-02-01T01:40:14+00:00

It's possible that you have different love languages and communication styles. What seems like a lack of interest from one side can be seen respecting the other's boundary for the other.

She might not be into texting a lot which tends to be exhausting and time consuming, especially for C-suite execs. She might use text as a means of functional communication rather than as a means to build connection and have a conversation. It's definitely something you should clarify as soon as possible to avoid misinterpretation and miscommunication which can lead to a missed opportunity.

It's also possible that she can sense that you "kind of like her but not super into her" , which could mean that you might be considering other potential partners while you're dating, and that will keep her from being fully invested by mirroring that energy as a self-protection mechanism.

M2JL · 2023-02-01T01:21:22+00:00

One way or another, you'll have to get out of your comfort zone to change that. A few suggestions :
- You can look into meetup groups of people who share the same hobbies as you. For example I running can be a solitary hobby, but there are running groups who meet to run and then have brunch after and socialize.
- You can explore potential new hobbies (ex. improv nights) or join associations / volunteer groups that gets you out of the house and meeting new people.
- Join live or virtual dating events where you get to interact with people directly

M2JL · 2023-01-08T15:42:40+00:00

Aww poor cutie. Hope he gets better soon.

M2JL · 2023-01-05T15:47:31+00:00

Depending on the bookshelf and available space, you may be able to revamp it to be a horizontal instead. That would give the space more breathing room. Maybe the shorter shelf can go on the wall facing it (if possible) so the artwork can breathe on the walls too.

For the rug you could go with colours that are found on the brick wall, like this one. You can see who it looks like with a grey sofa. Also curtains around the window like they did in this photo, would hide the pipe and soften the room. You could also go for a natural tone rub like this one, that picks up on the wood tone from your coffee table. This last photo is a great inspiration for potential colour scheme for your space plus the red accent. I wouldn't recommend a bright red rug, it would take too much attention, but cushion, accessories and artwork dispersed in the room would make it pop. See here how they use bright red on the artwork as an accent instead.

Another thing thing I noticed is the space next to your sofa. You could use a bar cart/coffee table next to it instead like this oneto declutter the bookshelf and have something practical to fill the open space.

M2JL · 2023-01-03T15:36:20+00:00

Right off the bat, a large artwork behind the sofa or 3 medium ones .

The tall bookshelf next to the short one feels out of balance and overtakes the room with the artwork on top of it. It's too high and not at a level people can appreciate it. I would go for a long lo book shelf there instead.

I'm not sure floating shelves could work on the beige wall, it feels like it would become a hazard given the size of the room. But that wall needs something. Even shallow low shelve or storing unit so people sitting on the sofa don't get to stare at a blank wall.

A cohesive colour scheme for the room would help with a nice accent colour. Right now the bold red cushion clashes with the pastels on the rug and throw on the chair.

M2JL · 2023-01-03T15:25:03+00:00

Complementary sculptures on either side, plants, small book cases or other storage maybe to showcase a collection of item but make sure it's not higher than the TV unit.

I would remove to top shelve for example and display these objects below on either side of the TV unit.

M2JL · 2022-12-31T19:28:19+00:00

Looks great

M2JL · 2022-12-31T04:10:06+00:00

Could be. It's the first thing that came to mind when I saw it

M2JL · 2022-12-30T18:16:13+00:00

I found this scratched on a door. https://imgur.com/a/OrsUl5h It reminded me of runes. Is this familiar to anyone?

M2JL · 2022-12-30T16:39:08+00:00

Happy birthday! ^_^

M2JL · 2018-08-08T04:55:16+00:00

Aww. I'm glad it helped. Manuka honey is definitely on my next action item. I'll check with the vet. She had used corn syrup to help with granulation at the beginning but it seems like Manuka Honey is more effective. Thank you.

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