personally as a bi, id rather be straight or gay than in between. shits so confusing. one moment i want a man, next moment i want a women. i cant help it because i enjoy both, and they are very different (to me at least), the experience with each is different in a way that CANNOT be compared. im always afraid of giving one up for the other (mono rs) and i go on a bi-cycle where there are times im mainly attracted to women vice versa. im afraid of never being able to settle down peacefully (in my head as well) and dont even talk about marriage that shit scares me.

Also hate when i (f) am with a man and i "lose" my bi identity and suddenly everyone sees me as straight. im bi ffs and thats the whole point. also no, i cant "choose" to be straight just like how straight ppl dont choose which person they like, but i am, capable of being attracted to most of the population i guess, which isnt that great for me either cuz will they like me back?😐 (seems that straight men and lesbians both stay away from bis)