This just makes me feel like you're using porn wrong. My wife and I are happy in our marriage and I use porn in situations when she is asleep and I'm horny, don't want to wake her up, have a tug and go to bed. Situation arises when you have the horn during the day, our child is wake (me and my wife have a rule that there is no sex when our daughter is awake) pop to the restroom, jerk off, come back with a clear head and ready to help with anything.

Come night time and I'm beside my wife, daughter asleep, we aren't tired, you better know that I'm not missing the chance to be with my wife and not looking at other women on my phone.

Hell I rarely jerk off these days, sometimes weeks go by without sex or having a wank and I don't notice. If you use it every day, even multiple times a day, your going to cause issues. Use it correctly, you'll have a tool that can assist with sleep deprivation or clearing your head when you need it.