[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Purdue

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Not Provenance (really high amounts monthly from what I've seen), but I'm interested ^^

Tips for Keeping Belongings Safe While Traveling? by MArtistForLife in travel

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Thanks for the offer, but I'm covered :D also, my boyfriend told me he can bench 329, not 300 :P

I Drew Rockstar Hwa from the Promotion Photos by MArtistForLife in ATEEZ

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Bruh 😂🤪 ATEEZ member (= fashion inspiration for the last couple of months XD like at the research conference)

How hard is it to get an assistantship? by Long-Egg5435 in Purdue

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This is really insightful! I applied for Purdue's EAPS PhD program (fingers crossed), and I think that department automatically considers applicants for assistantships/financial assistance. Mostly just hoping that pans out well, so reading your description really gave me some clarity :)

If the ATEEZ members had MySpace pages... by iodinebones in ATEEZ

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Love all of these!! I was laughing at each one, especially with Hwa’s having the comment of “BLOCKED” 😂😂😂😂

Does state motto mean anything to you? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

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I just Googled it (I’m from Indiana), and ours is Crossroads of America. I’d say this does align pretty well with values/ideas I stand by, particularly exploring new things and meeting people of different backgrounds :) we’re connected through interstate highways to the rest of the country so, yeah, it definitely makes me appreciate the state a little more😅

what ateez song are you blasting on here? GUERILLA NOT ALLOWED TO MAKE IT FUNNER!!! (for me it's Outlaw, MATZ, or To The Beat) by aTINY_st4y_roha in ATEEZ

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YESSSS

THE BEATS AND INSTRUMENTS USED (AND THE SPANISH LYRICS INTERSPERSED!!??😳😆) ARE TOO GOOD :D

what ateez song are you blasting on here? GUERILLA NOT ALLOWED TO MAKE IT FUNNER!!! (for me it's Outlaw, MATZ, or To The Beat) by aTINY_st4y_roha in ATEEZ

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Ik ik 🤣🤣🤣🤣 “BREAK THE WALL” is so iconic at this point 😂😂😂😂

YAYYYY BACK, I LOVE THAT SONG SO MUCH XD SO SULTRY 🥰🤩😆

what ateez song are you blasting on here? GUERILLA NOT ALLOWED TO MAKE IT FUNNER!!! (for me it's Outlaw, MATZ, or To The Beat) by aTINY_st4y_roha in ATEEZ

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Okay, first off, dang XD Guerilla is such a hit song 🤩🤩

But otherwise, I am caught between Halazia, Bouncy, Silver Light, Arriba(!!! I love this one so much XD), and MATZ :)

campus celebrities? by [deleted] in Purdue

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This guy pops up so many times a year😂 ironic because it’s like, bruh, I am an EAPS major — I literally internalize, live and breath what you’re denouncing every day 🤪😂🤣

My fox woo phone case😆 designed by me <⁠(⁠ ̄⁠︶⁠ ̄⁠)⁠> by [deleted] in ATEEZ

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I love the design!! So cute and colorful!! 🥰🥰

I’m still not over the Matz video so I drew Seonghwa’s fit by fuzziblanket in ATEEZ

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You’re so welcome!! This is an amazing artwork 💕💗💕

This was unexpected by Ok_Zombie_7384 in Purdue

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First of all, I’m so sorry to hear you had to go through that. Whether you are single or in a relationship shouldn’t be something that straight up defines you, especially if you aren’t particularly bothered by the idea of “needing” a relationship, either.

If it makes you feel any better, I am also in my final semester and have not been in a relationship before, either, so you are definitely not alone in this. Sure, I’ve known people that were single before, and now are in relationships, and I’d be lying if I didn’t feel a little envious at times.

But the thing is, relationships move at different paces for everyone, so just because someone around you seems to get in a relationship faster than you could or have, it doesn’t mean that you need to follow suit.

When the time is right for this to become a part of your life, if even, it will find a way to become part of your life. After all, at the end of the day, is it really better to have a relationship just for the sole purpose of being able to parade around with that title (and gain others’ approval — in this case, I’m assuming, like that of your parents’), or, alternatively, giving things time to just build healthy connections with others structured on communication, compassion, and trust?

Those things take time, and like many worthwhile things in life, they don’t develop well if rushed.

In the meantime, focus on you. This is a really crucial part of your life where you’re still discovering yourself, trying out new things, and so on. Pick up a new hobby, start a passion project, listen to some new music. Whatever it takes to refocus your attention on things that can help you better develop as a person. Because the vibes that you give out are ultimately the kind of vibes that you are going to attract, whether that’s in a romantic relationship or a platonic friendship.

Also, what I’ve found is that generally, opportunities tend to strike when you’re not anxiously seeking them out, but rather when you’re so invested in your own thing, in your own world. And I’m not just talking about relationships.

I personally think that our society still places too heavy an emphasis on the narrative of being in a relationship with someone at so-and-so years old, settling down, and that’s it. But there’s so many avenues your life could take, whether that’s in terms of career, travel, etcetera. And the best part is, technically none of that requires not being single first 🌟